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Topic : 09/06 The Ex Factor

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Created on : Friday, August 31, 2007, 10:21:47 am
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What do you do when your ex is still in the picture and wreaking havoc? Louise says she broke up with Mike two months ago because he choked her, threw chairs at her, and even threatened to throw their infant son over a fence. Mike says anger just runs in the family, and he wants Louise to take him back but another ex of Mike’s has a warning for Louise. Shannon says she wants to expose Mike for the cruel man he really is. Mike says Shannon is a liar and an unfit mother. When Dr. Phil digs deeper into the story, you won’t believe the claims Shannon makes. Plus, what did Mike confess to Louise that has Dr. Phil concerned for the children? As allegations of abuse, threats and theft fly, Dr. Phil tries to make sense of these strained relationships. Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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September 6, 2007, 7:19 pm PDT

09/06 The Ex Factor

 

    Speaking of child molestation, the little girl is hysterical to be with her mother I wander why?!..., could it be because...

 
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September 6, 2007, 7:28 pm PDT

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   HE IS GRINNING THE WHOLE TIME LIKE A CAT WHO SWALLOWS A CANARY.

HE MAKES ME SICK.

 
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September 6, 2007, 7:37 pm PDT

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   I like to send Christie to his home to investigate him she maybe on to something there... He should take lie detector test about the abuse in general...

 
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September 6, 2007, 7:41 pm PDT

GO, Denisce!!!!

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I would have to say yes ... if it were my son .... he would have to deal with me and his father.  It is unacceptable to place your hands on a woman in any manner whatsoever --- its not up for discussion and I dont want to hear any excuses .... ITS WRONG, UNACCEPTABLE AND NOT TOLERATED!!!! 

 

I dont care how much money you make, if you are the sole supporter, if you walk on water ...ITS NOT ACCEPTABLE!!!

 

And I will not even venture to talk about the 11pm incident where I believe he did play a role of hurting that child.....unless you were on your way to an emergency, waking a child up and taking her out of the house at that time of night is unacceptable.

 

These three are immature children and I cannot believe that they are responsible for another human being. 

 

There is definitely more to the story than was told.  My questions still remains ... where are these girls mothers?  Where is this boy's mother.  If any of these 3 were mine ... I WOULD BE THE ONE WITH THE CHILDREN !!!!

You sound like the thoughtful and sensitive kind of parent that all three of these young people needed, deserved but may not have gotten.

 

All humor, aside. You've asked some very important questions, here. As well as, making some very important points!

 

 
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September 6, 2007, 8:05 pm PDT

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  These two mothers going to get help to take care of the kids...

 

   They should make it their business to keep the children SAFE in their homes...

 
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September 6, 2007, 8:23 pm PDT

HE KNOWS WHAT HE'S DOING!

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Lighten up on the poor guy ..he was apparently the sole provider for Ashley and also wants to stay in the life of the little boy. He is immature and backwards and goofy, He doesnt know how to control his anger but please give him some credit. THese girls are just as immature but because the majority of posters here are women they are not see ing that he has done his job the best he knows how.

 

I think that all of these folks will benefit from the councilling and parenting classes dr phil will see that they get but you should all think twice about this. What if he were your brother or son would you be as quick to accuse and point fingers. I dont know the young man or his exes but women need to cut him some slack.

I don't believe what you wrote!  I don't understand how anyone could have sympathy for this guy.  Let me tell you how he controls!  First he makes the women feel like they are goddeses here on earth, then when he gets them to where he wants them, he starts stripping their self confidence away a little at a time.  Then he works on their self worth, crushing it a little at a time.  Oh, he's not done yet!  Now he goes after their self esteem.  You see, if they don't like themselves, think they can do anything with out him, and have the courage to do so, they think he's the only person that believes in them.  I still say, men that think it is alright to control a woman OR any other person, needs to be put in that same situtation so you can know what it's like!  I have not had a life for 35 years!  The sad part is that I am at the age where I can't do anything about it!  Any person that has ever been on the receiving end of someone's actions like this guy, know exactly what I'm talking about!  Let me tell you, it doesn't only happen to women.

Those girls need to get the children away from him and keep them away because he WILL hurt the children!  That's a given!  Also, the girls need to understand they will NEVER change him.  He will be "sweet" for awhile, then it goes back to the same thing!!!

 
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September 6, 2007, 8:33 pm PDT

Child Abuser

Dr. Phil-

 

Why didn't you interrogate Mike on todays show regarding his daughter getting 2 black eyes and a broken nose? It is obvious to me that he was lying and trying to weasle his way out of the explanation. That poor little thing is probably bullied and pushed around all the time by that proven abuser. How did hen get custody? He must have weasled his way through the court system too! Those women are his victims and so is that poor defensless child. I am very upset about this! Who else is incensed about this man (beast)?!

 

Signed,

Lucky Mom of Three

 
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September 6, 2007, 8:34 pm PDT

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  Thank you Dr.Phil for helping to save the children. I really don't know where would they be without you...

  

 You making the difference in our society, pointing out what not acceptable "father " behavior.

 

The man are changing for better, they evolving from Neanderthals to civilized...

 

  It is an evolution!!!... Keep up the good work.

 
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September 6, 2007, 8:38 pm PDT

GOD HELP HER !!

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I would have to say yes ... if it were my son .... he would have to deal with me and his father.  It is unacceptable to place your hands on a woman in any manner whatsoever --- its not up for discussion and I dont want to hear any excuses .... ITS WRONG, UNACCEPTABLE AND NOT TOLERATED!!!! 

 

I dont care how much money you make, if you are the sole supporter, if you walk on water ...ITS NOT ACCEPTABLE!!!

 

And I will not even venture to talk about the 11pm incident where I believe he did play a role of hurting that child.....unless you were on your way to an emergency, waking a child up and taking her out of the house at that time of night is unacceptable.

 

These three are immature children and I cannot believe that they are responsible for another human being. 

 

There is definitely more to the story than was told.  My questions still remains ... where are these girls mothers?  Where is this boy's mother.  If any of these 3 were mine ... I WOULD BE THE ONE WITH THE CHILDREN !!!!

Denise-

 

You are absolutely right! Why didn't Dr. Phil delve further into the night incident with the little girl? Something should be done to help that child! That poor thing being woken up and then 'pushed' into a table! THAT MAN NEEDS HELP! ANd SO DOES THAT poor defenseless little girl! GOD HELP HER! GOD HELP HER!!!!!!

 
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September 6, 2007, 8:48 pm PDT

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  I hope the charges are pending and he should get punished for attacking the women and

 

children, he should not get away with it.

 

 I like to know what is the judge going to do...

 

 If he gets away with it that would be a disgrace to American Justice System!

 
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