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Topic : 09/10 Season 6 Premiere!

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Created on : Friday, September 07, 2007, 03:30:35 pm
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The Dr. Phil show is kicking off its sixth season, so buckle up because Dr. Phil is coming at you with intensity! This year, he tackles the news stories that impact you – from celebrity meltdowns to school tragedies. He delivers the news to you as it breaks on a revolutionary, high-tech news platform that will change the way you stay informed! Today, he exposes a deadly trend that’s sweeping the nation: driving while sending text messages. Between Blackberrys and cell phones, Americans have a harder and harder time keeping their eyes on the road, but with teens, the problem is even worse. Seventeen-year-old Chelsea averages 5,000 text messages a month and insists that she can text while driving a stick shift. What will it take for her to put the brakes on her dangerous hobby? Plus, Patrick killed a man while texting and driving, and he’s still living with guilt. Will his tragic story be a wake-up call for Chelsea? Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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September 10, 2007, 5:55 pm PDT

Driving cell phone

This is one of the few times that I vehemently disagree with Dr. Phil. If there was a choice between taking away the car and the cell phone - take away the car and the cell phone! Given her driving record and her virtual driving test, she is a danger to everyone on the road until she learns driving skills and gains some maturity, whether she has her cell phone, her friend's cell phone, or no phone.  She is not only endangering herself by being obsessed with her cell phone when she is driving, she is doing it any time she is in a public place. When she is not paying attention because she is talking or texting on her cell phone, she could be accosted, walk in front of a car, or any number of awful things. I think the advice on this show missed the point - both her cell phone activity and her driving skills appear to show she has problems with her priorities and evaluating her safety and the safety of others while they are around her and until she demonstrates she has acquired those skills, she should not be driving or on a cell phone.
 
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September 10, 2007, 5:55 pm PDT

texting and driving

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Distractions, texting, dialing, answering, cell phones. Changing CD's, radio stations, eating, digging in your purse for something. READING. I have seen all and more. I am a driving instructor, teaching mostly teenagers.  In my state a driver on a permit can not use their cell phone while they are driving. But like all adults as soon as they get their license  they can. Our teenagers model after their parents. So do you use your phone? then why won't your teen.

   A few months back we lost a teenage girl. Had her license for just over a month.  The phone records show she hit send 30 seconds before she crashed into the back of a large dump truck. Killed her instantly. There was no sign that she ever even hit the brakes. Chances are she  never even saw it.  Sadly several other teens saw it happen. 

   Wake up people. If you are going to drive then drive. If you need to talk on the phone (or text) pull over.

 

 

   Why can't mom take away the car, use the local bus, subway, or any other public transportation and text all she wants too./

 
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September 10, 2007, 5:55 pm PDT

Thank You for this show

Thanks DR. Phil, It drives me nuts when I'm driving and I see someone coming up behind me and you can tell there text or on a cell phone and their not slowing like you think they should and wonder if I'm gonna get rear ended,And I really hope Parents watched and take note, of this situation. Cause it is very serious and until enough people are killed is it gonna become a law of doing something about it. Thanks again good show.
 
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September 10, 2007, 5:55 pm PDT

Right On

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I was really blown away by the mother of today's show teen texter. I understand the frustration involved in raising teenagers...I raised two.  And I even understand not always knowing what to do(been there too), but it doesn't take( or atleast it shouldn't ) a face to face consultation with Dr. Phil to know that when your child is involved in something dangerous as a parent you must do whatever it takes to stop him/her. Case in point:  My now twenty-year old was licensed at sixteen.  when she first started the licensing process I allowed her to be licensed because I felt that she was responsible. A year after having her license, there was an incident where she came home after drinking having obviously having driven. I talked to her later that morning and after our conversation I saw that she was very indifferent regarding the issue of drinking and driving and her attitude was: I didn't get in an accident. I immediately, not the next day or after talking to Dr. Phil, went down to the DMV and had her drivers license cancelled as quickly as I had them issued.  Extreme?? so my daughter says, but in this case I would have rather been extreme than risk giving my daughter a license to drive while intoxicated. Guess what?? After pitching a big ole' fit and not speaking to me she has not cut me out of life. To Chelsea's mom: You are setting yourself  and your daughter up for alot of problems, because you as her parent have failed to be the mom.  I don't believe that Chelsea's phone will be taken and I just pray that it won't be my family member or neighbor or citizen anywhere that this girl kills.  Not only will she go to jail, but you will be sued for everything that you have because you have prior knowledge of this problem which makes as liable, if not more. Pleas help your child grow up for everyone's sake!!

I totally agree. My daughter's did not get me to cave in to their selfish desires. It is a desire not a need. That is how I raised them and they earned privileges! They did not have phones, name brands, unless they bought it themselves.

It is sad to see what the kids have to deal with. It is not all their fault. It is a meriad of things. My husband is a prosecuting attorney for this community and the teenager's are doing the best they can for what the family, and community can bring to them. The parent's are a generation of whats to come. All of us whom have been raised is the 50's and 60's, watch out!

 
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September 10, 2007, 5:56 pm PDT

Give Chelsea A Choice!

 Give Chelsea a choice...either the phone or the car but NOT both.   

This gives Chelsea some ownership in the solution and some practise in positive decision making.

Unfortunately, our young people today are caught up in a world that is bombarded with:
 "I gotta have it", followed by
 "I gotta have more" and
  "I gotta have it right now"!  

And the adults gave Chelsea this world!!!   That doesn't excuse Chelsea's reluctance to give up the phone but it does set the background for her reaction. 
 
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September 10, 2007, 5:57 pm PDT

Driving and texting

 

 

I agree with many of the other viewers. Take away the CAR, not the phone. Her mother is one of those moms who want their kid to "like" them. It is so pathetic seeing parents that refuse to parent.

 

Some one tell the cops in her town to be on the look-out! A few tickets, insurance will go up and Mommy won't have much of a choice.

 

 
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September 10, 2007, 5:57 pm PDT

When kids are given too much!

Chelsea has far too much given her, does not seem appreciative, and has a sense of entitlement to match!  If she were my child, she'd have NO cell phone and NO car unless she bought it, the car and the car's insurance with her own money and showed she was responsible enough to handle each properly.  THAT INCLUDES NO TEXTING WHILE DRIVING.  What is so difficult about that?  She is exactally what Dr Phil said, "SELFISH" and a  menace to other drivers the way she is now.   

 

I bought my own car and the insurance at 17 years old with the money I made from my JOB.  My very strick father was all over me growing up and I learned RESPECT for others and how to be responsible at an early age.  It can be done.  I can't believe how wimpy some parents are!

 
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September 10, 2007, 5:58 pm PDT

Texting while Driving

ITS VERY SIMPLE...TAKE TEXT MESSAGING OFF HER PHONE. YOUR WIRELESS PROVIDER SHOULD BE ABLE TO DO THAT FOR YOU!

 
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September 10, 2007, 5:58 pm PDT

Unbelievable

Dr. Phil;

It baffles my mind how this childs mother can sit on your stage and justify letting her daughter endanger everyones lives she comes into contact with  on the roads all because she threw a teenage temper tantrum.

 Even worse I just know she'll continue to let her have a phone and drive w/priviledges.Unbelievable. I work for a cemetery, she could end up in one if she's not careful.

 

 
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September 10, 2007, 5:58 pm PDT

texting and driving

Quote From: bjbuterfli

Distractions, texting, dialing, answering, cell phones. Changing CD's, radio stations, eating, digging in your purse for something. READING. I have seen all and more. I am a driving instructor, teaching mostly teenagers.  In my state a driver on a permit can not use their cell phone while they are driving. But like all adults as soon as they get their license  they can. Our teenagers model after their parents. So do you use your phone? then why won't your teen.

   A few months back we lost a teenage girl. Had her license for just over a month.  The phone records show she hit send 30 seconds before she crashed into the back of a large dump truck. Killed her instantly. There was no sign that she ever even hit the brakes. Chances are she  never even saw it.  Sadly several other teens saw it happen. 

   Wake up people. If you are going to drive then drive. If you need to talk on the phone (or text) pull over.

 

 

   Why can't mom take away the car, use the local bus, subway, or any other public transportation and text all she wants too./

 
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