Topic : 09/11 The Dr. Phil House: Man Camp Newlyweds

You know Dr. Phil, there are BOTH MEN and WOMEN in this world who have adopted a belief that it is easier for them to BULLY the rest of the world and force them to do what they WANT, instead of trying to go about a peaceful means of co-existence.  Those kind of people become TYRANTS, DICTATORS and even pschyosematic terrorists, like OSAMA BIN LADEN!  Our Constitution states that ALL MEN (AND WOMEN) were created EQUAL and with inalienable rights.  If this is so hard to understand, what were you doing during AMERICAN HISTORY CLASS?!?!?!  Dr. Phil, I hope that these MEN, with your assistance (AND A GOOD SWIFT "KICK-IN-THE-ASS") they will realize their role in a marital relationship and be a 'MAN' and step up to the task that GOD gave us to do!!  GOD created woman to be OUR (MAN'S) help mate!  Women are a part of us as we are a part of them, think about it!  We (MEN) are missing a rib and women have ALL of their ribs.  The proof is in the Bible an right in front of us!!  If men would begin to understand women and how they respond to all situations as we do, they would see a tremendous resource and asset GOD gave to us.  MEN are more aggressive and willing to fight, but, women are more compassionate and willing to work out problems to a peaceful resolution for all.  In the BIBLE, Ephesians Chapter 5, verse 25, the apostle states:  "Husbands LOVE your wives, even as CHRIST LOVED the Church and gave himself for it."

WE ALL (MANKIND) have a part or role in this life on earth, we just have to ask GOD where we fit in.  AND remember we are not the only CHILDREN playing on the schoolgrounds.

As always, GOD Bless you and your family Dr. Phil.. AMERICA, and those who continually and BRAVELY serve, protect, and DEFEND HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  I am not one of the mancampers wives, but here is what i know from experience and seen throughout my days.  Men, and women, some, are EXCELLENT con artists. They can make u believe ANYTHING they say or do.  At my age i don't believe EVERY thing some people say.  U just have to read between the lines and eyes. 

                                                                       just me

What the hell is wrong with you people,,,  What ever happened to: treat people the way you want to be treated?  I would have to say that the parents of these 3 couples have alot to do with there problems,,,,, how  do you grow up thinking that being a Dikhead to people is ok?  It looks as alll 6 of them would be better off walking the face of the earth alone!   As from what we've seen so far, it's all they deserve!  I grew up with an alcohalic dad,,, and 2 older brothers,,,,  I don't drink,,, and I can tell you that ALL DRUNKS LIE!!!

How can you tell when a drunk is lying?,, there lips are moving!!!

and for every guy that has ever hit there ladie,,,, I would like to see hulk hogan,, come in the room and beat you to see how you like it! 

While I was watching the show today and I watched Karla lie over and over again my mind drifted back to my own mother's behavior. She is deceased now,(because of her drinking) but was a very heavy alcoholic most of her life and all of mine. She too drank vodka straight from the bottle and had every excuse in the book for her behavior. Well, Karla, there is no excuse. You are doing damage to your children that you could never imagine. It is very sad that you cannot recognize you have a problem, and believe me, you have a problem. There are people who can help you at Dr. Phil and I would highy suggest that you take that help, if not for yourself at least for your children. Sneaking vodka into a talk show and drinking in the lobby is not normal. Please see what you are doing to yourself and your family and stop "finding"reasons to drink. Start looking at the reasons you have to stop!

Abuse gives birth to abuse gives birth to abuse and so on and so on and SO ON!!!!!  These people are addicted to the stuff.  I was raised in a loving caring home as well as my husband (of 23 years).  We are the parents of five great boys who have never seen anything but love between us.  My parents were not the huggy kissy type, but were loving towards my brother and I.  My in-laws are still in love and will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary next year (my father passed away 9 years ago).   These people are doing nothing but breeding another generation of abuse.  I have seen way to much of this crap throughout the years.  Why are these people are having babies before they get married?  Why are they having kids and

sleeping together if they hate each other so much.  I get so angry when I think about people like this.  They have no business bringing children into this mess.  The world is a bad place today.  It's people like this that make this country look like crap.  Once, in a classroom with about 13 or 14 studens, my son's classmates parents were all either divorced or separated.  My husband and I  and another couple were the only parents married to eachother.  There are kids out there with only one parent, single mothers with abusive boyfriends, brothers and sisters from other mothers and fathers!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Our country's morality is down the TUBES!!!!   We need to teach our children how to RESPECT one another and themselves!!!!!  These gals don't and neither do the guys.   They are willing to settle with some SOB just to have a body to sleep with and to think that they may LOVE.  What is going on.  Self-respect is no where to be found.  The children in those households are going to be the same as the parents.  Cuss words are going to flow like rain out of their mouths......not only at home, but in public.  Have you heard the language of these kids lately?  It is hard to bring little ones out anymore.....not only do they say them.....but they wear them .....WHERE DO WE START......???????????????????  AT HOME MIGHT BE A GOOD PLACE.  

My husband and I told eachother we loved the other just 7 days after we met. We were engaged 4 months after we met. We were married 1 year after we met. That was 19 years ago on the 30th of this month!

We were both emotionally mature, responsible, came from families w/ no divorces, planned to work hard to honor our committment before GOD, wanted to be a unifed front for our kids, wanted to put family before all else (other than God) and KNEW that marriage has ups and downs. We have been a TEAM for 19 years.....lovers, soul mates, best friends, etc.

Too many people think "love" is something that's just there...it comes and goes. They don't need counseling. They need better role models (parents) and they need to make the decision to grow up and work as hard at their marriage as they do at their hobbies. It doesn't take counseling to have a good attitude and decide to honor vows!

You knew what needed to be done and did it. The first 3 years were big adjustments for us as well. But he made the decision to work thru every problem and work as a team. That was 19 years ago for us.

As a certified high school teacher, THANK YOU for giving your children the best start in life possible. God bless you and your wonderful union. God is smiling down!