Topic : 12/26 The Nanny Affair, Part 1

This bum isn't worth wasting your time on lady.  You don't seem too bright yourself, lady. After all the things he has done, how can you even consider taking him back?  No wonder your best frien won't talk to you.

I hope I do not post this twice, but I think I lost the first one. Sorry if it is a duplicate.

The husband is an anti-social, patholigical liar. He could not remember what he told

to "whom". He squirmed in his seat trying to retrive "answers" from his memory-bank

and nothing was truthful. He tried to divert the attention away from himself by insulting

the friend. Admitting to one- "come-on", but denying the other "come-on". Come-on,

who are you kidding Mr. Firepants? If I were the wife, I would proceed with the divorce and

reinstate the protective order because he is scary. He told his wife that he could eliminate 

her by using cememt blocks, (he admitted that), told her friend a similar story (he denied

ever telling the friend). Wow, he is a pack of lies, and has a criminal, self-serving mind that

will go to any means to fulfill his needs. "Scott Peterson", comes to the forefront of my mind

here.

The husband psychological issues superceed any of the marital issues they are facing. They both

need independent therapy long before any marital therapy. The wife really needs to depend on the

people in her life that love her and get emotional strength so that she can be a strong, healthy single mother. I cannot see the marriage working because he is not marriage material. (at all)

I do not understand why this woman wants to stay married to this man.  Never could you tell someone that is telling lies and being so deceiving and he is just disgusting.  He has not changed he will never change and is talking in circles nothing on this show today makes any sense, I feel like it all went in one big circle. 

That wife is so in denial but it seems that she is too involved with the red head too!   I have never watched a Dr.Phil show that makes me just want to turn the channel as this show has!

I think that you would be crazy to take Brandon back Amy.  You will notice that as soon as the pressure is on him, he starts to show the "Old Brandon" as you said in the show.  You are playing with fire.  In my opinion, he is a very dangerous man.  You are taking a really big chance staying with him. 

And this is for Heidi.  I understand that you are upset with Amy, but withdrawing your friendship is not the right thing to do.  If you don't want to get involved, fine, but be her friend.  A true friend doesn't retract her friendship just because you don't like the decisions that she is making.  Trust me, that this is harder for her, than it is for you.  It is hard, no matter how bad your husband is, to just give up on your dream of your marriage.  At least now, if she makes the decision end it for good, she will know without a doubt that she gave it her all.  Just be her friend, not matter how frustrated you are with her.  Support her no matter what.  Don't be a fair weather friend.  Be a true friend. 

After 25 years of marriage,

18 years ago my husband had an affair with the babysitter.

She conceived on purpose. They had 2 children before  our divorce was completed.

Three years later he committed suicide.  I was blamed because I left him.  ????   I rather felt THROWN OUT with the bath water.

I suffered severe financial setbacks  but the children, hers and mine paid  and are still paying the ultimate price.

The sins of the father......