Topic : 12/26 The Nanny Affair, Part 1

Cheating is a weakness and ultimately a huge betrayal of love and trust.  Maybe today people can just do it and not really think about the pain and hurt they are putting upon their children for a lifetime; but ultimately you are talking about immature people here who have no idea how to communicate!  So what if she hired the most beautiful of models to help her run her home?  Maybe she was the most qualified!  Should she not hire her because she thinks that this situation will happen or should she put her children and house first and believe that her marriage is sound and strong?  Beauty is a tricky thing... but to have a skill and brains to go with it; should you be forever docked because someone else has a low self esteem?  If you have faith in your partner you are busy then working on other areas of your home and life, correct me if I am wrong?  Yes, we know NOW he had affairs with nannies but she also made it clear she needed the assistance due to her disabilties and he was not available to assist... Shouldn't she believe in her condition that he would attempt for their families sake to keep it in his pants?

Wow. I can't believe that poor family is having Heidi interfere in their family. Real friends don't turn on you when you need their support. I knew Heidi about 8.5-9 years ago. She was a nut job then, and clearly still is today. All I can say is wow. What a jerk to go on national TV, and belittle another person while they are trying to apologize.

 Heidi just likes to stir the pot. She wants to destroy a family- for drama's sake. She just wants the spotlight because her modeling career was a failure. I am sure she is enjoying the spotlight from the tragedy in her friends life.

  She seemed to enjoy antagonizing the cheater husband. Clearly he is no saint, and needs help. But the family unit needs help. I just hope the wife realizes her husband isn't the only one with a blemished past. Her choice in friends is poor too. About 8 years ago Heidi was fired from a nanny job for abusing the children in San Jose, Ca.

This guy sounds like a sociopath and I found it very disturbing that the wife claims to have seen him give those drugs to the nanny  where is her moral ground? The wife is emotionaly imature she seem to lack understanding that something is very wrong with that picture.  The wife claims the nanny was like a daughter what mother would stand by and watch someone give their kid a drug .If the all of the nannys ever  get together to press charges they  should show the tape of this show in court. The car  accident was in 2005 why have babys if you were physically a mess and unable to care for them its called birth control. Why have two kids that makes no sense was it to hold onto the creepy husband? To the best friend you need to get a life and stay out of your friends marriage be a concerned friend nothing more show your suport but stay out of it this lady needs to clean up her own house.

Heidi is probably just mad because he rejected her...................................

She is sick.

I am 20 years old and have a beautiful baby girl in which her father was abusive to me. I got out of the relationship before she was even born b/c I don't want her raised around that. So my thing with "The Nanny Affair, Part 1" is that not only has he cheated on her with a teenager and even more nannys is that he is abusive towards Amy mentally, verbally, and prob. even abusive. He has treatened her more times than she can count most likely. So Amy why put up with it? I understand where the best friend is coming from but she doesn't need to not talk to Amy what Amy needs is someone to talk to. And Amy, you need to get a grip on life, you have children, do you really want your kids raised around this person? I know what love is and I know what being abused and cheated on feels like from experience. If I can walk away from it when I was 18/19 years old and stand my ground for my child then you can for yours. Being a single-mom, going to school full-time, and working is a hard job and yea sometimes I wish my daughter's father was here but it ain't worth my daughter being put through all that pain or growing up thinking its ok for her dad to act that way. Do you honestly think this is healthy for your kids or yourself? Just leave him because regardless of how many times he says he will change, he ain't evenually that same part of him will come out and next time you may really be dead and then your kids are left without a mom. THINK ABOUT YOUR KIDS if you ain't going to think of anyone else. And if he is going to change then let him do it alone. Its going to take years to fix his problem if he can even be fixed.

From experience...