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September 12, 2007, 8:25 am PDT
husband having affair with nanny
Upon watching this show and watching the husband talking and back peddling and deny, deny, deny, I don't see how he can say he has changed. It's typical of a manipulator, such as he seems to be, they tend to blame everyone for their problems. He blames his parents on how they raised him, he blames to nannies as to why he had the affair, he blames his wife, he blames her friend, but does he really ever blame himself, truly for his own actions? I don't think so, he is playing a game, his wife is the prize and for anyone hating to loose, he has decided NOW that he wants his wife, his children and his life before the affair. But I wonder has he really changed? Is he still playing the game to get what he wants because he hates to loose? I also am wondering how long have they been married? The friend said that 8 years ago he made a pass at her, so when did this all start? I think Dr. Phil might of said since 1999. Why did things change? Is this when his children were born? Is he so selfish (which I believe he is) that he was jealous of his wife's time with the child/children that he needed to have attention for himself and instead of talking with her, he made the CHOICE to have an affair. I also want to know, if he is the sole income coming in, then why does the wife need a nanny? After the first nanny left because he was having an affair "rape" with her, why in goodness name would she get another nanny? Hell with that. I guess I have a hard understanding the need for the nanny if she is a stay home mom. I've been a stay at home mom with never having a nanny, it's a full time job, but it can be done and rewarding. Why didn't the wife, if needing a nanny, did she bring additional trouble into the home with having another attractive nanny? Why not bring a nanny who is way older, less attractive, one the husband wouldn't feel a need to force his unwanted attention on. A much older, less attractive nanny who could of controlled her urges with him walking around in his boxers.
Personally, I feel the wife is wearing rose colored glasses, I think she is so afraid to being alone and is willing to over look the signs that her husband hasn't really changed that much, he just is able to hide his ways from her. He should be more into sales then a firefighter, he has a line for anything and can really put spins on any answers to the questions he has been asked.
I think she should get herself into counseling for herself, keep him out of her life for a while. Once she realizes that she is a beautiful woman who deserves better for herself and her children, she will see him for the selfish person he really is.
Thank you!
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(Original Air Date: 09/12/07) Affairs, fights, lies and dark secrets are tearing a family apart. Brandon and Amy have been married for 2 1/2 years and have three children. One year into their marriage, Brandon was caught having an affair with their teenage nanny. Was she the only one, or did he cheat with others? The couple's tumultuous relationship reached a breaking point when Amy, who said she feared for her life, obtained a restraining order against Brandon. What led him to file divorce papers? Then, five months into the proceedings, their relationship reignited. Why did Amy let Brandon back into her life? Amy's parents and her ex-best friend, Heidi, say Amy's heading down the road to disaster. So why do they doubt Brandon's recent revelations? And, why does Brandon say Amy's ruining his reputation? Talk about the show here.
