Topic : 12/26 The Nanny Affair, Part 1

 This whole story is RIDICULOUS In every way,,, What difference would it make to divorce than re marry ?? I think what it boils down to is the both of them need to come to grips with reality. She needs to realize that hes most likely not going to change, If he wanted to he would of done it by now,, && i almost think that hes one of those guys that lie sooo much that they actually believe what their saying,, I think he cant even remember what hes lying about. I think that she needs to do what she needs to do for her Because its not fair for her kids && he needs to realize that hes not invincible. && if she saw him putting pills in the nannys mouth ,,why wouldnt she say something to him?? Id rather be paralyzed && unable to do anything for myself than let a man (or women) disrespect me like that..Especially not in front of me. He needs to grow some balls && fess up to the things that hes done if hes really wanting to work their "so called" marriage out. IF i was her i would have walked away 8 years ago when he hit on my best friend for the first time..but I guess i like being respected in a relationship..silly me =]

He is definitely a player. Takes one to know one. If He was legitimate about saving the marriage then total honesty is a must.  How can He try and convince His Wife that He did not put drugs in the Nanny's mouth when She saw him point blank?

If His Wife was kind and forgiving enough to put it all on Dr Phil  the least He could do is to be as Dr. Phil would say ,be totally real ,and completely transparent.

He possibly has the chance of a lifetime  to get real help and try and save His marriage. Personally

I see no hint of sincerity at all.

i think the friend should stay out of there married . i been married for 28 years an i dont lessen

to friends i lesen to family an i talke to my hubby about it . he never ran around on me becase we

have a understanding form the start i told him befor i married him if he ran around on me an i fine out

20 years down the road i would divorce him becase if you love some one you dont do that .

but i think these too got too many people in there marrage. she going to friend an talking to them

not her hubby things between you an your hubby are not for friends . a friend should know her place

an stay out . only if they are being hurt should a friend step in i see that this friend is in it too mutch

if i did my hubby like that he would fine some one ele . but i got a good man we go to church an go

bye the bible . work in the marrage an get in to church a good church . i think the can make it if the

be true to eatch other thank you

he's a humoungous liar and home girl is in serious denial.  she knows what he's capable of and she is blindly going back to him - why??? what is so great about this loser? exactly ... nothing.

if I was her best friend and she displayed this stupidity after all she's been through, I'm sorry, I couldn't be her friend anymore either.   fine go back to him, but don't drag your friends into your s#IT spiral with you when your little fairy tale world comes crashing down on your stupid head - good luck to you.

Surely this man has some serious issues and needs help but his wife needs to find self esteem and a independent mind.  Her "so called" friend Heidi is way too involved in their saga.  This is a "friend" I would not want to have.  She not only keeps an eye on the husband and reports back. Probably embellished) She likes drama.   I have had friends whose husbands made passes. I let them know in no uncertain terms that this was unacceptable and I never played that game with them.  I would never mentioned it to my friends unless it was an ongoing proposition.   Their husbands never made that mistake again.

Dr. Philplease help this couple.  If anyone can get them on the right track you can.

Husband_get it together and be a MAN

Wife_Find some self love

Heidi_Get A Life!

 LISTEN UP TO THIS ONE!!!!

I lived with a man like this once.  Brandon turns everything anyone says around to make the other person look bad and change the direction of the conversation-away from himself.  I think he is a pathological liar and con man.  Unfortunatley I think he is intellagent- but doesnt have any consiousness or feelings or remorse.  He lives in  "THE MOMENT and all about himself".

She needs to leave him and run- far far away., because men like this make womans lives miserable and she deserves more. He is eithor phychotic or has some other phsychological mental disorder that needs to be addressed by a Doctor. long term treatment.    The shame is -He may never get better.  I am sorry for the children.