Topic : 12/26 The Nanny Affair, Part 1

         Amy......Think of your children! They should be the first and only thing you need to worry about in this whole situation. You know deep down he had that affair with the nanny. Just as the others in the past. Take off your blindfold!                                           

           Heidi......Its great your trying to stand behind your friend!! Sorry to break it to you but let her figure out this whole thing herself. She'll only try to place blame in the long run on you should things not go her way. Its best to stand back so you don't get hurt.

            Brandon....Own up to your mistakes both past and present!!!How do you expect to have a working relationship if you can't be honest with yourself or your partner? You also need to think of your kids so go get help and work out your desires or whatever you want to call them.

You are right the red head need to butt out. It sounds like she is jealous of her friends family.

But also the man needs to grow up accept his role in what is happening. Quit blaming others for his mistakes. He had the affair and will again. He more than likely came on to the friend. He protest to much in not liking her, finding her ugly. That is usually a sign that they are covering up an attraction. The wife had better watch the 2 of them and find out what really happened between the 2 of them. I hink they had an affair and are trying to hide it. Trying to hard that is, not liking each other, most times hides an attraction.

The nanny was 18 and once someone has reached the age of 18, they are legally classified as an adult... but yes, I agree it's still way too young.

for one I think the red headed girlfriend should mine her own bussiness

another the wife should get a life and back off her husband .He should just

leave the situation cut his loses.Because no matter what he does she won't

be satisfy.Also when hiring a nanny don't hire a nice looking one .Come on now

We all know who is telling the truth and who is lying. The questions is are they willing to try and fix the marriage or do they want to move on. I think that hubby has some issues with himself and if he can't admit what he has done wrong then they will never save the marriage. As far as her friend being involved I think she needs to support her friend in whatever she decides and if it becomes too much then just walk away. She is getting way too involved. It's sweet that she cares that much but she is getting in the middle of their marriage and all it's doing is causing more DRAMA!!