Topic : 12/26 The Nanny Affair, Part 1

It is possible for the person whom has had the affair to change.  A few years back, my husband had an affair, which he ended on his own volition months before I found out about it.  Eventually, though, I did find out, and when I did, my daughter and I left our home.   After leaving him, he promised he would change.  I was VERY skeptical for well over a year.  But, he honestly has.  He had to do it on his own, though,  I couldn't make him.  Honestly, I wouldn't change what happened now, (even thought I wish it hadn't) because it really strengthened our marriage.  He is my best friend.  That being said, this turkey on today's show hasn't changed.  He is way too defensive and ready to attack and place blame one everyone else.  My husband watched the show with me and he absolutely agreed!!     Amy......get a clue and listen to what people are telling you......you are too close to the situation to see through him!

Now why won't she just do that? Maybe because she doesn't want to and that's her business. The way I see it is that Amy has difficulty with relationships period. Her husband cheats on her and her friend, well, is no friend.... And she took off a restraining order to go on the show? Oh well.

The husband also has problems. He's been immasculated by his wife who had her friend move in with them (obviously without his consent or agreement). So to boost his pathetic male ego he screws around.

The nanny I don't believe was drugged, but she may have taken drugs with or without him. She's no good either. I had friends who babysat and would brag about flirting with the husband and some even ended up messing around with the husbands. They're aren't all these innocent little know-nothings.

Heidi is the most interesting, she hates the fact that her friend may be able to salvage her marriage. She is a vendictive, angry, jealous person. She can't be trusted at all, ever. Removing her from the relationship would be the first step to a healthy marriage. If that can't be done he should leave now since his ego will be bruised again and he'll mess up.

I HOPE   BY THE PREVIEWS THAT YOU HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY

TO WATCH TOMORROWS EPISODE. WE ALL ARE CAPABLE OF CHEATING ONCE UNDER STRONG ENOUGH TEMPTATION,EMOTIONAL MATURITY,STRENTH OF CONSCIENCE SO ON AND SO FORTH.I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN BY A BAD PERSON...  I KNOW THAT DR PHIL( GOD BLESS HIS HEART) HAS HIS WORK CUT OUT FOR HIM.

I'M GLAD I HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO SEE YOUR QUOTE.

SINCERELY,

NANCY TS

are you kidding. the man deserves no sympathy. he fools around with a young girl. perhaps maybe more, we will see tomorrow. if the girl/s were younger than 18, he would be a pervert, a chester the molester and gone to jail.

what it is is he thinks he is a ladies man, even though they were young ladies.

he also lied when he stated he did not put the pain meds in the nanny's  mouth. THE WIFE SAW IT. it couldn't give a straight complete answer on that.

sympathy,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,get real

i don't know if you are a man or women, but think about this...........if your significant other fooled around with someone, let a alone someone very young, how would you handle that?