Quote From: caspurrI have looked thru alot of these posts to see if anyone responded to my first post, and i dont see that anyone has, and i still cant find what im looking for. Sorry. if i find it, or someone who knows where it is tells me about it, i will do my best to respond to you again and let you know!
Here is my original post:
"On the show Dr. Phil had told the lady who was having problems with the
sounds her family were making while they were eating that he would put
up the tips to help her cope with that on his site. I can't find it,
am I just not looking hard enough? Does anyone know where this is? I
NEED IT!! LOL I have the same problem. I cant STAND my boyfriend
eating cereal because he slurps the milk off the spoon, and I also
can't handle when he twists his beard between his fingers. He just
finds it funny because he can't believe I can hear it since he can't.
I NEED THAT ADVICE BEFORE I GO NUTS!!! LOL
Thanks in advance!
Michelle"
This is the wed-site that he sells them from...
http://www.mindbodyseries.com/relaxation/
I love Dr Phil’s straight-up advice most of the time. I do wonder if he can truly feel/understand what his viewers go through with a chemical imbalance. Shame, embarrassment, anxiety and exhaustion in trying to fit in the world. To function, make a living from day to day. To not let people know so we don't get “labeled��?. The world loves to label people. Yes... I agree this Lady is probable ADD. It does not matter what title she is or is not. What matters is she is in PAIN with these sounds and because it does not bother others they cannot understand. It is a world of discomfort and shame, yes shame! We cannot share this to most people because they might not stop what you have asked them to stop doing. They do not understand the great discomfort and at times PAIN. To say
I love Dr Phil’s straight-up advice most of the time. I do wonder if he can truly feel/understand what his viewers go through with a chemical imbalance. Shame, embarrassment, anxiety and exhaustion in trying to fit in the world. To function, make a living from day to day. To not let people know so we don't get “labeled��?. The world loves to label people. Yes... I agree this Lady is probable ADD. It does not matter what title she is or is not. What matters is she is in PAIN with these sounds and because it does not bother others they cannot understand. It is a world of discomfort and shame, yes shame! We cannot share this to most people because they might not stop what you have asked them to stop doing. They do not understand the great discomfort and at times PAIN. To say "relaxation tapes" are needed was a Band-Aid on a greater problem. She wrote for help and I could tell by her reaction that she was very uncomfortable with Dr Phil’s aloof response. She wanted more, hoped for more. I think that was one of his shortest segments on his show ever. Perhaps back stage it was talked about more?
Lets take it one step further and say she gets diagnosed and is ADD. What about the expense of the Doctor, what kind of Doctor does she go to? They might put her on medication to “help her symptoms��? She may try 2, 3 or 4 drugs to see what ones might help. Each one has to be tried for a few weeks to see if that is the correct one for her. You have side-effect, taking it at work and usually keeping it to yourself. Do that 2-3 times and see what it is like. It all takes time and money. I know many people with several chemical imbalances that may be diagnosed and still cannot find the balance to better there life. It is not a simple task to just get “Relaxation tapes��? yes they probable do help but it takes more to function. Our Insurance Companies are a mess! Some people do not want the Insurance Companies to know they have a chemical imbalance because they may not take you on as a new client the next time.
I was given advice from a Doctor to use ear plugs when overwhelmed, try to explain that one when people ask why you have them in...
Good luck and God Bless...
" are needed was a Band-Aid on a greater problem. She wrote for help and I could tell by her reaction that she was very uncomfortable with Dr Phil’s aloof response. She wanted more, hoped for more. I think that was one of his shortest segments on his show ever. Perhaps back stage it was talked about more?
Lets take it one step further and say she gets diagnosed and is ADD. What about the expense of the Doctor, what kind of Doctor does she go to? They might put her on medication to “help her symptoms��? She may try 2, 3 or 4 drugs to see what ones might help. Each one has to be tried for a few weeks to see if that is the correct one for her. You have side-effect, taking it at work and usually keeping it to yourself. Do that 2-3 times and see what it is like. It all takes time and money. I know many people with several chemical imbalances that may be diagnosed and still cannot find the balance to better there life. It is not a simple task to just get “Relaxation tapes��? yes they probable do help but it takes more to function. Our Insurance Companies are a mess! Some people do not want the Insurance Companies to know they have a chemical imbalance because they may not take you on as a new client the next time.
I was given advice from a Doctor to use ear plugs when overwhelmed, try to explain that one when people ask why you have them in...
Good luck and God Bless...
(Original Air Date: 09/18/07) Does it annoy you to no end when someone uses a cell phone at the dinner table or chews with his or her mouth open? Along with author Peggy Post, Dr. Phil tackles the dos and don’ts of etiquette. One issue making recent headlines is appropriate in-flight attire. Kyla was flying to Phoenix on Southwest Airlines when an employee informed her that her outfit was too skimpy. Kyla saw nothing wrong with the way she was dressed and was appalled when she was asked to cover up. Did the airline go overboard, or was Kyla too tantalizing for take-off? Then, Kate took her 19-month-old son on his first flight, but she was removed from the plane when he became too talkative. Was the airline out of line for telling Kate to shut her baby up? Peggy Post weighs in on this polarizing problem. And, Joan says she doesn’t have any peace at home because of all the noise her family makes – from loud chewing to clinking dinnerware. Her husband, Bob, says he and their three children have to walk on eggshells around Joan just to eat dinner. Is Joan overly sensitive, or does her family need to be reined in? Plus, meet a woman who says her husband’s bad manners didn’t disturb her until she had a baby, and a guest who nominated herself as having the worst etiquette in the country! Share your own etiquette peeves and join the discussion.
