Topic : 03/06 Etiquette Dilemmas

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Created on : Friday, September 14, 2007, 03:44:36 pm
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(Original Air Date: 09/18/07) Does it annoy you to no end when someone uses a cell phone at the dinner table or chews with his or her mouth open? Along with author Peggy Post, Dr. Phil tackles the dos and don’ts of etiquette. One issue making recent headlines is appropriate in-flight attire. Kyla was flying to Phoenix on Southwest Airlines when an employee informed her that her outfit was too skimpy. Kyla saw nothing wrong with the way she was dressed and was appalled when she was asked to cover up. Did the airline go overboard, or was Kyla too tantalizing for take-off? Then, Kate took her 19-month-old son on his first flight, but she was removed from the plane when he became too talkative. Was the airline out of line for telling Kate to shut her baby up? Peggy Post weighs in on this polarizing problem. And, Joan says she doesn’t have any peace at home because of all the noise her family makes – from loud chewing to clinking dinnerware. Her husband, Bob, says he and their three children have to walk on eggshells around Joan just to eat dinner. Is Joan overly sensitive, or does her family need to be reined in? Plus, meet a woman who says her husband’s bad manners didn’t disturb her until she had a baby, and a guest who nominated herself as having the worst etiquette in the country! Share your own etiquette peeves and join the discussion.

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September 18, 2007, 11:50 am PDT

09/18 Etiquette

i have to say, i thought Kayla's outfit was ugly and tacky, but i don't think it should have gotten any extra attention.  it really doesn't seem worse thatn anything else you see at the mall or anywhere else.  i can't say i like alot of the styles that are out now, and for that reason, i myself won't wear them, but i'm not sure that these young ladies should be hustled off a plane because there skirt is to short and maybe they are showing al ittle to much boobage.  this is just another thing that reminds of how i am getting old ;)
 
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September 18, 2007, 11:54 am PDT

Patriot Act Meets Minimum Wage Employees

The treatment of Americans at airports since the attacks on 911 is evidence of a 747-sized ego landing in the hands of minimum-wage earning security and personnel people of the airline industry.

Since the profiling of nationalities and religious zealots is considered "un-American", they have to turn their attention to us in order to make it look like they are "doing their job". 

 

Maybe we should just close the borders and go back to the horse and buggy days.

But no, that is what THEY want us to do?

Now the next question: Who are THEY?

 
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September 18, 2007, 11:56 am PDT

uh-oh

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It amazes me how many people actually pay attention to what others are wearing, I mean really aircraft seats are not set up like say train seats, so unless someone's child was hanging over the seat, how would they see anything ?  Okay, maybe she flashed when putting bags in the overhead, but how many passengers (unless you have a thing about watching others) were really paying that much attention.  Look at it this way, at least you KNEW for sure she wasn't hiding ANYTHING in that outfit ( tongue in cheek ) to be honest I wouldn't wear it (don't have the legs for it ), but what an airline charges for its tickets, no I wouldn't want them dictating what I can or cannot wear anyway.

As for the baby, OMG, if he was just babbling happily (beats the screaming child in row six , right ?) then whoever complained its their problem, and yes they should get over themselves, even a crying baby, his/her ears might be REALLY aching (I know when I fly my ears are in agony for the better part of the flight and NOTHING helps), if it bothers a person that badly, bring earplugs or charter a private flight, its PUBLIC transportation, that means you have to deal with every type of person imaginable.

Not only do I consider peeing on the seat, and using a cellphone while a clerk is waiting on you rude, or making sure EVERYONE in the restaurant hears your phone conversation, how about people using terms of endearment to you "sweetheart " , "dear" and my personal favorite "honey " to total strangers ? I can tolerate it from older people, but NOT people my age or younger, that drives me nuts.

As for noise sensitivity, migraines , adult ADHD and other illnesses can be culprits, but we do not live in a silent world (no kidding, there have been times I wished I would lose the hearing in my other ear as well, yes babies crying, screaming kids, they can send me up the wall, why ? It's the pitch of the wailing, however I do realize that there is probably a reason for it and have learned to remove myself.

i have to say, i only took issue with one thing you said.  i work in a coffee stand and sometimes i call people 'dear' or 'sweet-thing' but it is just me being me, do you think that is offensive?  i'm honestly just curious, no bad vibes on my side here, i would like to hear your opinion

 

chrissy

 
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September 18, 2007, 12:15 pm PDT

09/18 Etiquette

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I don't like women who dress like, um. uh, working girls, but what really scares me is people who think they are better and more moral than others.

 

Given the choice I'd rather sit next to a woman who has embraced a hooker look than someone who is looking forward to the end of the world and is dressed for it.

 



 
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September 18, 2007, 12:22 pm PDT

09/18 Etiquette

I can't believe that girl who flew Southwest... yes she got her point across and the fact she plans on suing them shows she did not just want the apology and her 15 minutes of fame but now it just shows that she is money hungry, and cloggin up the justice system
 
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September 18, 2007, 12:25 pm PDT

about dresscode on flight home

I was wondering what she wore on the return flight, and did she fly Southwest? Also, I see the attorney is going to help her cash in...($$$ signs)
 
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September 18, 2007, 12:26 pm PDT

south west girl is full of it

thanks doc phil for outing her 'her real movtive is money,she will sue southwest ,you truly pissed her off ,thanks
 
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September 18, 2007, 12:29 pm PDT

09/18 Etiquette

First of all, it's so ridiculous that Kyla was treated that way.  That being said however, CHA CHING, CHA CHING! Kyla hears opportunity knocking!  Her reaction to this is worse than what they did to her.  It's hysterical that she only gave the tickets back AFTER Dr. Phil expressed his opinion about her suing the airline.  She's very transparent.
 
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September 18, 2007, 12:29 pm PDT

Apparel

I for one think it's a good thing companies are able to make judgement calls for any reason. People wear clothing that is offensive to some people, and I think her skirt was way, way too short. You could see her underwear when she was on the morning talk shows.

 

As far as the man that got kicked off, well, he was not dressed well enough for first class. As for the baby, GOOD. People need to realize that not everyone thinks babies are "cute".

 
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September 18, 2007, 12:30 pm PDT

definatly TOO sexy to fly... she shouldn't have been let out of her room!

I saw this girl on the Today show wearing the same outfit that she wore on the airplane and I think that it was incredibly tacky for her to attempt to fly wearing that outfit. I am surprised that her mother was supportive of her. On the today show when she sat back down, I could see her underpants!!!
 

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