Hi there,
Back in August of 2006, I've met this woman from work. She was interested in me and I was intersted in her. When we first start out being friends, everything was quite lovely between us. When I ask her for anything, if she have it she will give. She is the only one, other than school buddies, that actually pay for dinner. We usually take turns paying for each other dinners. Like I say, everything was going well until Christmas Day. I ask her can I meet you at your house and give your gift there; she refuses to go that route and suggested that we just meet half way to exchange gifts. She say that it was okay to meet her in front of her house but she will not be able to let me in. I was quite disappointed about her decision but I decided to go by her decision. We decided to meet half way. She told me from the beginning that she would let me know if she wanted to invite me to her house (she currently staying with her mother). I think that by knowing her for 4 months at the time that she would allow me to see her family; her family had wanted to see me on Christmas Day. I had invite her to my house, but she refuses to come. Since Christmas Day, our friendship had gone downhill. In January, our friendship started to improve a little. Me and her decided to work towards an serious relationship. On that same day, me and her had taken pictures together at the portrait studio in Wal-Mart. It was going along well until that next week when I wanted to pick her up from her house (not to come into her house) and take her out to dinner. Mind you she told me on Christmas Day that it was okay to meet her at the front of her house. She told me the day before that she didn't have too much gas money to meet me. So I decided to offer her a ride from her house, she refuses to let me come to her house. The next day, we was arguing on the phone because I had complained about not coming in or outside her house. I tried to calm her down, but she told me to "GO TO HELL". She supposed to be an christian. She apologized the next day for her behavior. A month after that day, we met at the Wal-Mart studio and pick up our pictures. I told her that we should just be friends at the moment, she agrees; but a week later she wanted me to cut herself from the pictures that we taken together. She told me that she didn't feel comfortable with me having a picture of her. I decided to respect her decision by doing that. She told me that she loved me and I told her the same. Me and her have not spoken to each other about two months. I liked her but she have some ways that I couldn't go with. She didn't want me to come to her house, she didn't want me to go to church with her, she didn't want to go to concerts or banquets with me, and she didn't want me to introduced her to my co-workers. She told me that she had others stalking her when she allow others to come into her house; but I believe that we know each other long enough to go that route. I still think about her though, do you think that I should talk to her or continue to move on with my life? We was friends for 6 months.
