Topic : Difficulty Forming Friendships

Lets get started tell me something about you and maybe we can sxchange e-mails! 

Tina 

Well, I'm 30 years old and in between jobs at the moment, because I moved back "home" from Britain. I sure could exchange email with you. Write and tell me who you are to my e-mail: theroses75@yahoo.se 

Looking forward to your e-mail. 

Feliss 

I'm pretty sure why I have trouble making friends.  I'm extremely shy and people tend to think I'm a snob.  Also, I don't like to express my opinion just to agree with someone else.  My main problem is reaching out and making the first move.  I'm always waiting for the other woman to make the first move.   

Plus, I don't have kids, and it's hard for someone who has kids to find something in common with me.   I am divorced, but I don't like to join the bitter complaining about the exes. 

Let alone the self esteem issue.   Plus I live in rural Canada, which makes it hard.  I"m not a farm lady, so there's another lack of commonality.  Any advice. 

c 

HI Feliss, 

Where do you live in Britain?  I lived in Croydon for 6 months.  it was awesome. 

Cindy 

join the club my friend because all what you've just said and describe are very true and are very simular to me i'm shy and i'm the one to wait for the women to approach me i only had two dates in my intire life i am 22 years old and as soon as i mension the fact i am epleptic it's like "see ya so long nice meeting you" and never hear from her as just a friend  not a serious intimate friendship i live in sudbury, ontario, canada and i am on a pension with a home job, i hate younger women because of their taste buds 90% of them their taste buds are like smoking dope get high go party get drunk, listen to hard rock music or horror movies and all what they ever care about is their looks and appearance. those are the ones who i hate especially if they smoke cigarettes my email is tossell2003@yahoo.ca 

hi mat, i totally understand how you feel, i was bullied at highschool, i ended up leaving because i couildnt put up with it naymore, i am more depressed now then when i was before, because i now get bullied by my parents, i was bullied because of my weight, everyday i have to put up with my parents telling me im fat, overweight, i play sport, they tell me im goingto struggle because im 2 fat. 

it hurts and upsets me, i never thought id hear my parents critise me because of my looks. 

i hope it all goes well for you. 

my name  is charles tossell and i live in sudbury ontario. it sounds to me you also live in ontario or i miss-read your topics. anyhow i am someone who is caucasian, 22 years old, single, catholic, epileptic, non-smoker, non-drinker, non-partier. i like kids, i like classic video games, i hate rap music or hard rock. i hate action thriller or hgrror movies. i hate adult evening cartoon. and there's so much more about my allergies because of my seizures. you're more then welcome to email me tossell2003@yahoo.ca but the one question i wish to ask is did you ever watched the show or series Sue Thomas: F.B.Eye  if so you will have an idea on how my life has been except i'm not deaf and i don't work with the FBI 

I wish it were not so difficult to find nice people. the ones from my past just seem to be so selfish. everything in their lives matter but mine doesnt. I have given up looking for friends. the rejection is just too hard to deal with time after time. the lonliness is overwhelming at times.