Quote From: towers2002hi
why is it that its hard to find a girl friend to to love and be friends with and be happy ?
im not good looking -disabe -can't see or hear to good to drive or work . beleave me you would not want to be in my shoes .seem the ladys i meet only what one thing money and sex and good looking man . i don't drink or smoke or take bad drugs .
i dont even think dr.phil ever talk about people like me who have a hard time finding the right one .
in some ways i think he puts us down .sure there are man who are lazy and etc .but im not them .
what i see in a person is what they are on the in side .and not what they look like on
the out side . same that the way lfe is here . but i keep going .becouse i know sooner or later there some one out there for me
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No matter which way I look at human relationships, it all seems kind of tricky to me. Can't force things ya know. Tricky is the best way I can describe relationships, even for people who do love themselves and have everything going for them. Some of my most alone time was spent in a relationship. It seems so simple, be kind, be truthful, be reasonable (not perfect), loyal to some degree, understanding would be nice. I think it has a lot to do with misinterpretations and intentions. No one is imune to misunderstandings. I'd like to tell you there is an easy answer. Maybe there is. In the book the Secret (I enjoyed much of that book), they talk about pretending your desire already exists, visualize it and act like you said, know it is happening. I believe it is the journey, how we treat each other, how we walk day to day. I could not tell you where you find your emphasis anymore than you can tell me where I find my emphasis. Once I wanted to understand the essence of the word Universe. U ni verse. U is a very interesting letter, I thought of flow like the opposite of resistance, one definition for U has to do with "internal energy" -- I think that is totally cool and freaky; "ni" in Lakota has to do with water and the essence of life, and verse is popularly understood as communication or song ,,, put it together and we have "flowing internal energy life song. " I like it, I like it a lot. But words are a little tricky too. All I can suggest is try to have some fun along the way. Lots of times people end up in relationships and are unhappy. It seems all we want is a little understanding and kindness and to be able to share these qualities with people or someone we really care about. Miracles do happen. I agree your circumstance sounds challenging, when I come to obstacles or roadblocks, I usually try to go around them. One thing I am learning too is to try to not get stuck on words, sticky as they may be. Para la vida.
Grandma
