Quote From: nanasgalDon't know if this will stay.... I don't curse and I don't blame, but man my posts disappear!!
Anyhow, read on if you dare!
Yes, six on one is wrong, whoever is involved.
Is what happened prior important? Hello.....
In general is race card over played? sometimes, But, just like anything else, particularly in the media.
For those who shout, "I'm not my ancestors, I am tired of hearing about it....." Well dearhearts, you may not be your ancestors, but face this, you walk with the privilege of those times, and whether you like it or not, from being born white.
For those of you who compare being treated unfairly because of age, sex, height, hair color, class, etc. to racisim, think that through a bit. May help. Probably not, but it might. Sorry, it can't compare.
I have witnessed: People being followed and obviously watched in stores until they buy or leave (regardless of dress. I have seen very well dressed black patrons treated unbelievably or ignored when they have been waiting to be assisted, only to see a white person who just walked up helped immediately.) All sales people? no. But enough that it is disturbing.
Black bus patrons harassed at bus stops, treated rudely by drivers, driven by because they are on wrong corner, whereas white patrons picked up in middle of block, not a bus stop or even near one. All bus drivers, no. But nothing is done about the ones that are acting out of line. (yes, some patrons who witness these things have addressed it with bus company, yet the same drivers are doing the same things.) All bus drivers, no. But again, enough and often enough to be disturbing.
Do some black people go overboard? Sure, but why? When one lives within an unequal playing field (and yes, it still is) it is hard to play by the rules.
Does that justify violence? no. But it does mean there are things we have to address and own up to.
There are things that need to be overcome, but we can't do that until honesty and listening occur. I get the attitudes that are out there in the black population. I don't condone actions that stem from them, but I get why they are in place. And remember, kids, ALL kids, watch these things and don't miss a beat. They may not talk about it, but they soak it all in.
White people do not know, in the deepest sense, what it is to be hated and treated differently FOR NO REASON for the color of their skin for generations and generations. You will never know what it is like to come home and find a burning cross, a cross burned into your grass, a noose hanging in your tree as some of my friends have. Do some blacks hate all whites no matter what and unfairly? yes. Is it right, no, but to some degree understandable. And while slavery was done a long time ago, it was not that long ago that real segregation was in place.......and sorry, real racism/discrimination is alive and well, no matter where you live.
For all the spewers out there, go watch a Time To Kill. If you don't want to watch the whole thing, watch the final courtroom scene. When the lawyer says "I want you to close your eyes and listen to a story," close your eyes and listen. I dare you. :-)
There is wrong on everyone's side, lets go at it, intelligently.
And people, read your posts before you hit send..........You can be passionate without spewing. And you may look a little less psycho and have more readers.
p.s. I am a semi-poor white woman in her mid forties in a large metropolitan area in MN.
This is for all the justifiers. Sorry, your posts pretty much prove racism exists....
1) There is not an equal playing field. Hard to play by the rules when the playing field is askew.
2) Get over it? Are you kidding me? That sentence alone triggers negative reaction in me, and I am white! (kind of like someone telling you to calm down when your royally mad.) Just adds fuel to the fire.
3) Tired and weary of hearing about these issues? Then why on earth are you here? The title alone, "Jena 6" lets even a moron know what the subject is most likely to be. Go somewhere else where you can read lovely little ditties that fit into your special little world.
4) Why are there black colleges? Duh.
5)Black TV shows-and just how many are there? Not exactly a mother-lode of them out there are there?And why do you care and why do you use it as some justification of your ideas?
6)Looking below the surface of things IS important. Learning about the why of things does not mean excusing, it means beginning to understand and learning ways to deal with it.
Look, I don't like being lumped in with a bunch of people of whom I have nothing in common. Does it happen? Sure. Do I get mad when someone treats me badly or assumes I am a schmuck simply because I am white, of course. However, I get it. Not excuse it, but get it. But sorry, I don't get attitudes by fellow whites that I see here on-line and in life in general. Try some understanding, at least a little bit. Probably won't happen, but it would be refreshing.This is not about the past. It is about the present. And it is not pretty whether you can admit it or not.
Get over your intellectual selves and stop spewing stupid so-called facts and statistics. Both of which can be tweaked to the user's benefit. And please, don't attack someone because of spelling mistakes. It happens, to everyone. I mean come on, what a petty deal.
Now go watch a movie.