This should be called the house of shame right now.. I would just like to say shame on all of you. The women are like the scarecrows off of wizard of oz and the men are like the tin man. I have been in some bad relationships myself, hell I think everyone has, but they have realized it was bad and left. I am not one to leave a marrige I do believe that once you are married. You put your love in gods hands and you make it work. But this is ridiculous, or as Dr Phil would say " are you kidding me".
Women come one why do you do this to yourself. I use to do it to myself when I was young and didn't know any better. Ruined my self esteem bad made you feel like you couldn't do any better. Let me tell all of you each and everyone of you are beautiful and could get someone else. A marrige is suppose to be comforting and safe when you have a bad day you should know that you can go home to your spouse and get comfort. I would run far away from my home and never look back. I hate to say this but you girls are stupid. And the one that drank came drunk to the show that was so stupid that just made you not only look bad but how is anyone suppose to trust you. I do give you props though for dumping all that liquor out very good.
Men shame on you.... how can you treat a woman like that. You should treat your woman like a queen and you would abe treated like a king.... your life would be so much better in the long run. Whatever happened to treating your woman like your own mother. And if you treat your mother like that double shame on you. You guys have no heart I would of left you on day one. I don't care if we had kids or it was our honeymoon or we were married 12 years I would be gone. I just get sick to my stomach when I hear and see the things you do.
Shame on all of you.
Just a note love isn't something that you have to work at. True love comes easy it is the I will marry you because we have kids that is hard. Not saying that you won't fight you will because no one thinks the same all the time. When you really love someone and fight with them your not out there to hurt them or call them names you are only fighting to get your point accross. Because true love you don't ever want to hurt that person and you don't ever want them to leave you. Think about that before you finish the mission of trying to make it work. What would you rather do work at something that will work because it is true love or live with knowing that you don't really love this person it is just a habbit and a safety net, which from where I stand girls it is not all that safe. Do you want to take the time to train someone to do a job when you know that someone else can do the job. Do you want to keep telling someone what to do like a kid or would you like someone that just does it. I would like someone that just brought me flowers because it is nice not because I said that I would love to get flowers sent to work on my birthday or just any day to show I was thought of.