Topic : 01/25 Secrets in the Suburbs

Do Americans think that this is not happening?? Be honest... this is happening all over the place.

As long as it is happening with consenting adults what is the problem? Whatever happeneds

behind your bedroom door is noone elses concern. I would love to be part of this, but I live in a

small town that does not have access to any type of club talked about on the show. And If you are

busy with work & children, dont have the resourses or time to follow thru with this. When/ If that time

presented itself.... then it is something that both myself and husband would be game for.

Well I guess I have to say that I am obviously a very selfish wife...I have NO desire to share my wonderful husband with anyone...I believe that sexual intimacy is the precious part of a marriage that makes it unique to any other relationship in your life.... I totally adore my husband, he happens to be the nicest person I have ever met and I would never entertain the idea of sharing part of what makes us unique with any other person...  When you truelly love someone you would never do anything to harm the love and RESPECT you have in your relationship...I dont care how open people are about inviting other people into their bedrooms, its wrong...just plain wrong, It confuses me .... what is lacking in their intimate relationships that they would need to invite other people for more excitement into their bedroom????....

The most exciting night for my husband and I is getting the kids to bed early and snuggling together on the lounge talking about our life together and how blessed we are to have such a wonderful loving family...That is the most intimate excitement of all!

Freaks ?? Because a couple makes a decision that is not hurting anyone else involved that makes them FREAKS? I do thijnk that the second couple had issues. But the First couple was doing nothing wrong.

And again....if it is something that they burn in hell for.... are you going to be there with them????

Then dont worry about it. Its their lives and they are not knocking on your door to join in!

Once I read agan, you are right, our opinions are different, thank God !  I don't swing and would never but you knock yourself out.

I couln't care less what you do

Coercion is the practice of compelling a person to behave in an involuntary way (whether through action or inaction) by use of threats, intimidation or some other form of pressure or force. Coercion may typically involve the actual infliction of physical or psychological harm in order to enhance the credibility of a threat. The threat of further harm may then lead to the cooperation or obedience of the person being coerced.

That was wrong and made me cry about my own account of bein raped at 12.

Easy as this.....if you know not one person can satisfy you, don't get married! It's wrong and disgusting.

Morality is pretty subjective. I happen to think it is pretty immoral to call people selfish, non-caring, pigs, whores, etc. simply because they are not living according to YOUR moral code. How is what they are doing affecting YOU at all?

I am not for swinging. In a theoretical discussion, I could give plenty of reasons why I don't think it would be healthy, why it would make me uncomfortable in MY marriage, etc. However, I don't make the rules for everyone else. I don't get to decide what "makes sense" in every relationship. I have seen some "traditional", or what I consider chauvinistic, marriages that make NO sense to me....but hey! If OTHER people are happy like that, it doesn't affect me or my marriage ONE bit.

I am having trouble understanding why people get SO upset when OTHER people step outside their comfort zone or moral convictions.