Topic : 10/04 Britney Breaking News

I'm not exactly sure how California law is written, but I do know that when I was trying to

obtain custody of my nephew because his mother was a habitual and continual user

of alcohol and controlled substances, the state of Texas claimed that "lifestyle choices"

were not grounds for removing a child from his mother.  I have seen many, many mothers who

use and drink and nobody is trying to remove their children either. Is all of this happening just

because it is Britney?

We would like Britney to know that she has support from her home state of Louisiana.  We have strong morals here and think she could gain control of her life if she came home.  We have all made mistakes in our lives, but ours have not been aired across the media like Britney's mistakes have been.  Imagine what it must be like to constantly be scrutinized about everything you do.  Britney is still very young, and yes, we all thought we were grown when we turned 18, but looking back now would you say you were?  Her actions indicate to me that she wants help, she just doesn't know what to do and who to turn to.  Having lost both my parents, I hope Britney can see how very important family is.  Family is the one constant friend that will be there for her through thick and thin, rich or poor, and through all faults one may have. Britney needs to know that not everyone thinks badly of her.  Yes, she has made some bad decisions, but who hasn't.  And by the way, Britney is far from being fat!  She has had 2 kids, and personally, I wish I had her body.  Also, Britney should have whipped Sarah Silverman's butt for her comments on the VMA's.  That was totally uncalled for.  If that would have been my child she was referring to, she wouldn't have made it off stage.   Britney, we are praying for you and for your kids.  Don't give up and don't  down yourself...it's just time to get up and dust yourself off and show them all what your made of!  Show the world what a southern girl, with your talent, can do !  Get away from the city life for awhile...and come home to your roots, your fans and family will be here waiting for you . 

  Caught the" emotional" end (will HAVE to see the show now later on)  but Dr. Phil,  LINDSAY?

  It was all sounding so REAL about Britney's family being solid,  and then you say LINDSAY?

  What is the scariest part of this for very fragile (understandably so) Britney is the media, especially

  talk shows  - like yours, duh,  making this any of these ASSumptions and not even getting the

  celeb's name correct ?   oh yes,  Paris, Britney,Lindsay - they are separate people, aren't they ?.

I do not believe the bodyguard. If he was that concerned about those two little boys, he would have told that britney was doing drugs then. He waits until Britney terminates him and he knows that she could lose her boys and then goes to the media. He also got paid very well his story. I think he tells different stories each time. I can't belive Gloria Allred is his lawyer. I had more respect for her than that. I think the bodyguard is a joke and I would not trust him.

On the other hand, I am not a Britney Spears fan and i never have been. There are things I think she does for attention. I think the bottom line is that she needs help bad. I think about Anna Nicole Smith when I think of Britney these days. I do believe she is on drugs, I just don't believe the bodyguard saw it. I hope and pray Britney gets help before it is too late. I am not a fan of her music but i do not want anything bad to happen to her or anyone else. The boys need and deserve their mother. I have trouble believing that Kevin is that much better for the boys than Britney. I think he just doesn't get all the publicity that Britney gets. I think he enjoys living off of Britney's money. I really believe Britney's mother should have these boys until Britney could get some help, which I pray she will get soon.

I am not a fan nor do I dislike Brittany. I just don't get that interested in one celebrity but I do have an opinion based on the information I have provided it is true.

Maybe Brittany realizes that she cannot provide a stable environment right now. Perhaps she didn't show up because she wants Kevin to have the kids in a way but as a mother it is hard to just admit that.

 I am sure she loves them but maybe she needs to focus on herself right now and knows that she cannot get healthy and try and raise these two children properly. It is tough being a parent and none of us know what she personally is feeling inside. The media cannot get inside her head and she may have unresolved issues that no one is aware of.

 Stress of being a mother? I am a mother. I have a lot of mommy friends.We all want to run at times. Yes the difference is, most of us don't act out that way. Before you bash the crap out of her try and remember she is human and is making a lot of mistakes as we as humans sometimes do. Bash her behind close doors if you must bash. Opinions are one thing, straight up hatred, another.

Of course I do not agree with her choices. I know she was seen smiling and tanning and people think she just doesn't give a damn but we don't know that she doesn't. Only Brittany knows. But I find it hard to believe that she doesn't give a damn at all. She is hurting inside.

I am praying this appearance of content isn't because she has decided on suicide as an alternative out. They say people that commit suicide tend to have a sense of relief and I do pray this is not the case. I hope that Brittany's reason for her seemingly lack of regard for the serious situation is due to her knowing she is going to get better, maybe having a plan in her head- it'll just take time.

Maybe it is kind of a relief from the stress of motherhood. I don't know but it is sad and thereis no reason to hate her. Why IS this world so full of hate anyway?  I mean, yes she is WRONG in her actions but who are we to call her nasty names and slander her. We as compassionate human beings should be yelling for her to get help and wishing her well.

NOTsupporting her wrongdoings but not calling her nasty names either. That certainly cannot make her feel any better. It just makes the haters feel better.

On the same token, if she had been in a rehabilitation center several times and continuously fell off the wagon, then, yeah I'd probably be right there bashing too. But this is like still when she needs support and hope.

I am not a saint I have my share of opinions of people and their lifestyles too. Believe me and I am goood at it. I just think that someone going through something so obviously self destructive and painful needs help and not hate. At least for now.