Topic : 11/23 Mild vs. Wild

HOLD the damn phone! Any person be it a guy or a girl, anyone who is a PRE-TEEN shouldnt even be thinking about wearing short skirts or tight tank tops or t-shirts. I dont care if they are a  so called straight A student!!!!!!!!! Whats a 11 year old in? Grade 6? Thats still elementry school in Canada which is for like young kids. Lets NOT forget the FACT that, this girl is only a SINGLE over older then a 10 year old kid! Thats SOOOO YOUNG! They should wear whatever their parents buy them. I'll guarntee you the 11 yr old kid ain't paying for the clothing. That doesnt mean she should be wearing 1930's bell bottoms but, a 11 yr old person is still a kid. Plain and simple. I can't even believe Dr. Phil would entertain the idea of even discussing fashion with an 11 yr old kid. Thats all they are at that age, A KID. They have lots of years left in their lives to work for a living, get a job, buy their own clothing and pick and wear what they want. But that never even becomes an issue until what? Age 17-18 at the earliest?

Sheesssssssh If I had an 11 yr old daughter or even a son, I'll guarntee you they wont be wearing little skirts or anything of the sort. Beyond that don't forget there are ALOT of sick people out there, child sex offenders, drunks, people with issues of all ages and IF they see a little kid at 11 yrs of age wearing a little skirt, you might as well put a bullseye on their face as a target because wearing that stuff as a PRE-TEEN is definately sending wrong messages and wrong signals to alot of people who can and will over power you in a matter of seconds...and when that happens your nothing more then a passanger/prisioner at their mercy.....

Im only in my 20's but I cant even believe for a second a 11 old of little kid is having this discussion or entertaining the idea of wearing clothing that makes them look easy and slutty.

Wake up before its too late. You just a damn kid and that goes for any 10, 11 or 12 yr old kiddo in school. Anyone who is 11 yrs old better be a straight A student, if your not then you have some serious problems with coloring your cartoon pictures and staying within the lines :)

I could hardly believe that that Christian woman thought how women dressed made them responsible for how men acted.  I don't care if every woman walked around naked - men/boys MUST learn to be responsible for their actions...

It made me angry - but, sad as well ,that women still think that way!

I grew up with playing with Barbie dolls.  They had no affect on what I wanted to wear or who I wanted to hang out with or anything like that.  I always looked up to my parents.

I believe our friends influence what we wear. Some of us want what everyone else wants.  I can say personally I always I do my own thing and wear what I think is comfortable and looks good.  Sometimes it is "slutty".  The older I get and the more I learn I realize the way you dress affects how people treat you.  I believe if you want to be respected you should dress that way!  Not covering your stomach isn't saying I want respect.

I was born in 1985, I just turned 22 years old in November.  My mother has never said anything about what I wear, and if she does I shouldn't be wearing it. My mother was born in the 50's.  My grandmother, born in the 30's, also lets me know when I am wearing something inappropriate.  I can't say I ever enjoyed all the attention I got when I showed some skin.  The attention I did get was attention I did not want.  My parents bought all my cothes so I didn't have much choice in what I wore.

I have found from past experience, most guys are drawn to those girls who dress with short skirts and tank tops and showing cleavage.  The less I wore the more guys paid attention to me.  I am someone with low seld-esteem as well.  So that also factors into it.  I don't think it's old-fashioned to think the way younger girls are dressing today.  I know the way I think may be the way I was brought up.  I have good parents to teach me everything I know and my grandmother has taught me a lot.

 For me, I don't have kids, so I haven't had to go through this.  But for me as a female person in general, it just comes down to the basics ie:  respect for others. 

I don't have a problem with someone dressing comfortably and wanting to look nice etc.  But some of the things that younger people are wearing (or not wearing!!) is not something that I as a fellow person, wants to see when I go outside.  It makes me feel uncomfortable and I guess I would say it can offend me.  I say that for both female and males, becuase the younger guys don't always dress ok either.  I personally don't want to see a girls stomach or her top showing as much as possible.   It doesn't do a thing for me and I am part of the population as much as that guy the girl is trying to show off for.  Keep it behind closed doors if they want to show more than normal skin.  Not everyone is impressed. 

I am 15 years old! Todays show was one that your not going to be able to get through to anyone! They are going to dress how they want, and they will say what ever to make it feel right for them selfs! I Disagree with that ,BRATZ will make girls grow up to dress sluty hopefully the have some since of mind where dressing like barbie dolls is not how people dress! But I agree that girls should not dress with there tummy showing and bra strapes hanging out! I agree it trashy, as if you don't know how to dress your self! Dressing nice is a wide varity. clothes that fit,cover your bra straps.long (dresses, shirts shorts ect.)enogh to where you bend over you cant see your butt, or your boobs dont fall out! maybe thats just how i feel because i see most every one likes to dress trashy in my eyes. To me i would feel uncomfortable always having to pull something up or something down! i understand dressing to impress ,dressing in style! I'm one who does dress with the latest clothes, name brands! I cover my skin!  On todays show NONE of the girls dressed to where i would think thats Pretty!