When my kids were younger and we didn't make much money, we bought camping gear at garage sales. Almost every weekend during the summer, we went camping at a lake near our home. We all had great fun doing that.
As I got older, we bought a used camper and go to the beach. The camp grounds at the beach cost 1/3 less than the hotels. They have camp sites in the shade and restrooms with hot and cold running water and clean showers. Now that the kids are grown, we rent a small camper/trailer at the beach campgrounds. They are actually pretty fancy. We schedule our vacations for when the rates go down. This year we are staying one week and the cost for the whole week is $518.
My husband has to call into work almost every day and spend an hour or two resolving work problems. If you are working 2 part-time jobs and a full time job and your husband is working full time also, perhaps you two should keep a list of where the money goes every month. Then make a budget. If you look hard enough, you will find a leak somewhere.
There are some great tips on this message board for budgeting. We never buy new cars. We increased the deductible on our insurance (auto and home) to $1000. This makes our insurance premiums less. We always pay our credit card off every month and therefore never pay interest. We heat our home with a wood stove. We have a regular gas furnace for back up. The wood is gathered off the sides of streets where people have cut a tree down and put it there for the garbage people to pick up. We save for all our regular bills out of each paycheck. When we get extra money, we put it aside (savings) for emergency and vacations.
We use a credit card and get 1 mile air flight for every dollar spent. This has given us many free flights for out of town trips.
When we go vacation, we usually eat out at night only once or twice. We go to the local seafood places and buy fresh seafood almost every afternoon. We make a production out of cooking at our camp site and eating very well. We have eaten lobster, shrimp, crabs, scallops for a fraction of the cost of what other people are paying at the vacation spot restaurants. We eat lunch and breakfast at the campsite also. Occassionally, if we are out siteseeing, we may eat out a lunch or two. These lunches are usually light lunches and don't cost much.
Hope this helps some.
jl4ever