Quote From: karlagolay
There is no end to this and there can be no end to senseless killings like this in the United States in our present form of government. As long as Americans continue to operate in the social structures we have created without recognizing our need for flexibility and serious changes in what we do and do not allow for, sad events like this will continue.
I don't care what the NRA says about incidents like this, a gun killed those people.
We either take them away or create laws that enable citizens to better defend themselves.
As long as there is hate, envy, jealousy, disrespect, greed and avarice in the world there will be no end to this.
The very best screening for law enforcement officers will not make enough differance as we have seen.
The path down this terrible road starts with, disrespect, for self first, than others.
If your wondering why....and how....something like this can happen in 'our' nice little town...it all started the very moment a human being thought less of themselves than they had ought to of.
We should have learned self-respect early in life but too often we have parents where one or more of them have also come to a place to where they too, stopped respecting themselves, their name, their home and values until all they had ever hoped for and placed so much value in...is gone.
Whole value systems are based in...1.Love 2. Work, when one of those is out of balance and threatens our well being our entire value system is threatened and that is where a good basis in self-respect is called for and necessary for our recovery.
When we place no more value on ourselves and are taken with hopelessness it is than we have stopped respecting both ourselves and others.
When this happens we open the door to an attitude of 'our own needs first' and than we no longer care about the needs of others, be they physical or spirtual needs...or whatever is that gives our neighbors the balance they need in their own lives and values.
The spiral downward continues when we are so busy trying to keep the essentials for our own basic survival intact and operational, the need for balance in our love (relationships) and work (life purpose), that we so easily take our eyes off others that we share and trade with and when we do that, when we, through our actions or inactions, get so busy with ourselves it is than say to others with our body language and our tone of voice, you do not count, you are not a part of my life mission and value system and you provide nothing to my personal well being or the well being of my family, when we devalue others like that, we set the stage for retaliation and violence in our communities.
When we are so busy looking for the forest and can't see the trees right in front of us we have to pause and reflect and ask ourselves........are we too busy ?......what are we missing here ?.....and why ?
What part did I or we play in this tragedy ?
Just because I didn't pull the trigger and it's not my fault doesn't mean that perhaps there was something I could have done to prevent this.
Just because I refuse to accept guilt for being so selfish and focused on only my own family and it's needs doesn't mean I am no less liable for my actions or inactions when travesty falls upon another family nearby.
Where is the dividing line between being self sufficent and minding my own business and being my brother's keeper ?
We live in the social structures we create. We are liable for what we allow and do not allow for within them.
We all play a role in our communities and social structures whether we like those roles or not.
I have to agree with this statement. When people feel valueless with no hope for betterment that is the most terrible place to be. You almost have to feel sorry for anyone who feels so low that they would allow themselves to do things like this. If parents are working 2 or 3 jobs just to get by, when are they caring for their children? Who is teaching the kids to value themselves and others. Everyone seems to be all in it for themselves. What can I get, why should I care if you have nothing as long as they have all I need and want. There is enough in this world for every mans need, but not for every mans greed. Millionnairs all over the world buy $10 000 pairs of shoes and bottles of wine. How many people could that bottle of wine feed or house. Where there is No hope for better, there is no value or care about anything. If you had nothing, you would lie, cheat and steal too. Reach out and be friend to those who have none. Make someone feel they are important, it could change their lives. Dont judge, you dont not know where others have been. Leave no one behind.
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