Topic : Career Goals

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September 6, 2006, 5:57 am PDT

Career Goals

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Is there a way to  get in somewhere at entry level or an ad in the paper that says they will train you.

I am not saying to set your sights lower but just dont have such high expectations right now. Can your dad help you? What about temp. I think you are doing a wonderful job at living life and you are def. not lazy. Just keep doing what you are doing and follow through and pray. If you keep doing this a door will open for you. Have you tried getting a job in a school; teacher; teacher aid. Change your focus some and look into other fields and areas. Trust in yourself and you will find something.YOu sound smart and positive. Those traits will land you a job. You might have to take that position at McDonalds but maybe as a manager. What would be wrong with that. you can use the psychology degree with all thos crazy hungry people.You will do fine. Trust in yourself a little more.

I have tried to get jobs at places like McDonald's but they have so many people wanting to work...well, everywhere that they hire the students IN university, the ones that will be there year round. Employers aren't dumb, they know who will be with them for the long run and who, like me, wouldn't (if it's a job like McDonald's anyways).

 

My dad can't help. THere's a company policy about hiring relatives. Even so, his company isn't hiring anyone...plus I did work there one summer a few years ago. In order to get a student job like i had, i had to apply. There were well over 2000 people applying. They look at your university education, the longer you're in the better your chances.  For the first three years i applied I didn't get it but the summer before my final year I got the job. While I worked there I found out the lady who makes mostly spreadsheets and other administrative work (but at the higher level) had a BioChemistry degree.  Since I'm not a student, the hiring process would be much harder. But still, they're not hiring right now.

 

Sometimes I just don't get it...

I have another friend who has a Psych degree from the same school as me, who graduated a year ago and she has to work 1 part time job (her boyfriend got for her) and babysitting.

 

As for the job with training, that's exactly what I'm trying to do but it's not like I'm the only one applying for those jobs.  The day I graduated there were 1000 other students graduated at my school. But graduation spread out over 11 days, with approximately the same number of students.  So that's 11,000 people from my school alone, (about 1000 people with psych degrees).  So just imagine, there's about 20 universities and colleges in Ontario...so just think how many people that is.

 

The job i had an interview for last week was advertised "no experience, training provided" and it turned out to be a way just to reel in the young high school students. You always have to be careful with those because I've had lots of experience being interviewed for that. Lots of times they end up being jobs where you have to shell out a couple hundred dollars in order to become a salesperson who works on commission. A friend of mine actually got scammed this way.  She had to pay for the supplies then couldn't make the money back.  Another friend worked for an insurance company and had to drive around the province (state) to 'sell' to people.  She made money...sort of. The company didn't pay for hotel, gas, or food and after expenses she made about $20 a week (I'm not exaggerating either).

 

I don't mean to sound like I'm complaining but the basic fact is this: If I'm "overqualified" for the jobs at McDonald's and retail, but I'm "Underqualified" For pretty much everything else, what's left? 

It's so confusing and I have no idea what employers want.

 

I have a friend who just moved back here after working a year abroad as a teacher and they gave up looking for a decent paid salary and work at Walmart.

 

I have applied to pretty much everything, including jobs I'm not qualified for and jobs i don't want. You can't be a teacher up here without a specific degree, and TA's are not in demand (too many people are trying to do this).  Actually that's one of the biggest problems.  specific degrees. 

Here, it's difficult to become a librarian (even at a school) unless you have a Library Science Degree, and it's similar in other fields.

The one thing I know that's in high demand is Nursing, but why should I spend another four years in school (which is now required to be a nurse) to do a job that I would hate (i know, my mom's a nurse) and a job that barely pays anything?  So until I get lucky or FINALLY land a job I don't know what else to do except make a million phone calls, send out a million resumes and try to pick up some extra cash from dog sitting.

 

It's pathetic that I went through 4 years of school for this.   

 

 

 

 
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September 6, 2006, 9:15 am PDT

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I have tried to get jobs at places like McDonald's but they have so many people wanting to work...well, everywhere that they hire the students IN university, the ones that will be there year round. Employers aren't dumb, they know who will be with them for the long run and who, like me, wouldn't (if it's a job like McDonald's anyways).

 

My dad can't help. THere's a company policy about hiring relatives. Even so, his company isn't hiring anyone...plus I did work there one summer a few years ago. In order to get a student job like i had, i had to apply. There were well over 2000 people applying. They look at your university education, the longer you're in the better your chances.  For the first three years i applied I didn't get it but the summer before my final year I got the job. While I worked there I found out the lady who makes mostly spreadsheets and other administrative work (but at the higher level) had a BioChemistry degree.  Since I'm not a student, the hiring process would be much harder. But still, they're not hiring right now.

 

Sometimes I just don't get it...

I have another friend who has a Psych degree from the same school as me, who graduated a year ago and she has to work 1 part time job (her boyfriend got for her) and babysitting.

 

As for the job with training, that's exactly what I'm trying to do but it's not like I'm the only one applying for those jobs.  The day I graduated there were 1000 other students graduated at my school. But graduation spread out over 11 days, with approximately the same number of students.  So that's 11,000 people from my school alone, (about 1000 people with psych degrees).  So just imagine, there's about 20 universities and colleges in Ontario...so just think how many people that is.

 

The job i had an interview for last week was advertised "no experience, training provided" and it turned out to be a way just to reel in the young high school students. You always have to be careful with those because I've had lots of experience being interviewed for that. Lots of times they end up being jobs where you have to shell out a couple hundred dollars in order to become a salesperson who works on commission. A friend of mine actually got scammed this way.  She had to pay for the supplies then couldn't make the money back.  Another friend worked for an insurance company and had to drive around the province (state) to 'sell' to people.  She made money...sort of. The company didn't pay for hotel, gas, or food and after expenses she made about $20 a week (I'm not exaggerating either).

 

I don't mean to sound like I'm complaining but the basic fact is this: If I'm "overqualified" for the jobs at McDonald's and retail, but I'm "Underqualified" For pretty much everything else, what's left? 

It's so confusing and I have no idea what employers want.

 

I have a friend who just moved back here after working a year abroad as a teacher and they gave up looking for a decent paid salary and work at Walmart.

 

I have applied to pretty much everything, including jobs I'm not qualified for and jobs i don't want. You can't be a teacher up here without a specific degree, and TA's are not in demand (too many people are trying to do this).  Actually that's one of the biggest problems.  specific degrees. 

Here, it's difficult to become a librarian (even at a school) unless you have a Library Science Degree, and it's similar in other fields.

The one thing I know that's in high demand is Nursing, but why should I spend another four years in school (which is now required to be a nurse) to do a job that I would hate (i know, my mom's a nurse) and a job that barely pays anything?  So until I get lucky or FINALLY land a job I don't know what else to do except make a million phone calls, send out a million resumes and try to pick up some extra cash from dog sitting.

 

It's pathetic that I went through 4 years of school for this.   

 

 

 

Can you relocate to another area?
 

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September 6, 2006, 2:26 pm PDT

Changing careers... or not?

I'm an almost 38 year old Dutch girl living in Florida. 7 years ago I moved from The Netherlands to the US. I used to be a Druggist/Pharmacist for over 9 years and loved it. Unfortunately my certificate doesn't mean a thing in the US.

 

So when I was offered a job as a member service representative at a credit union, I took it. It seemed an interesting career: the American lending and banking world. And it was. I had an awesome time for 4 years and made several promotions. My title when I left was senior loan officer. I have to tell you a little bit about my life so you can understand why I left that job. I was in an interracial relationship for 11 years at that time, and when I was promoted to sr. loan officer I was also transferred to a new branch to help get it off the ground. The community this branch was located in, was very "southern" if you know what I mean. So was the branch-manager. I won't go into details, but there were some very derogatory remarks made towards me about being in an interracial relationship. At first I tried to brush it off as ignorance, but me being from a very tolerant country, especially compared to the South of the US, I decided I wasn't going to deal with this, I reported it, made sure I was heard, and started looking for a new career.

 

I decided I was going to get in the insurance business. I got my license and quit my job. Around that time my marriage was not as stong as I would have liked. Things escalated and I filed for a divorce. (By the way: none of the problems had anything to do with our races!). We seperated almost a year ago, sold the house, got our own place, and the divorce was final 2 months ago. Since the seperation my drive to be an insurance agent has deminished. Although I was, and still am, very relieved about the fact that I'm not married to him anymore, I became less and less motivated to get up, and go to work. I was an independent agent which means I am not employed by anyone, I represent 1 or more companies. Sort of like a broker, but I don't have an office. My home is my office. I knock on business doors to get business. No knocking: no income. The hardest part is hearing NO. Over and over and over again. With all else that was going on in my life it broke my spirit. I couldn't stand it! Here I was, Dutch girl, all by myself in the BIG USA, trying to make it, and not making it at all.

 

I became depressed, got some counseling and figured out that it wasn't ME who was wrong for the job, it was the job that was wrong for me. My counselor suggested that maybe pharmaceutical sales would be a great careermove for me, considering my background. As I started lookin into it, I became very enthustiasic about it, and invested a lot of time in networking, I spoke to my physician, contacted several representatives, met with a few of them, got certified, joined forums and posted my resume on every jobboard I could think of.

It is not easy breaking into this field! For every opening there are at least 500 applicants! Finally, after about 3 months, I was invited for a face to face interview with 4 managers for a huge pharmaceutical company. The first of at least 3 or 4 interview rounds. Unfortunately I didn't make it past the first round... So I'm back at square one.

 

By now, I don't have any money, I'm living on credit cards! I will loose my house and everything else if I don't find a job soon! I feel like bailing out! But moving back to The Netherlands is out of the question because:

1. I can't afford a move like that, and

2. I don't want to give it all up again!

 

I really want to make a life for myself, but right now I just feel so desperate and depressed and alone. I feel paralyzed and stuck... Like I don't have anywhere to go. Maybe America was not right for me. But I'm here now, and something has to happen! I know I'm the only one that can make it happen, but I just wish that someone could tell me what to do...

 

 
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September 15, 2006, 3:07 pm PDT

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Hello Folks.  I am having extreme difficulty finding a job after completing college.  I am 27 y/o and have worked since age thirteen in several industries, and I made a decision in 2004 to go back to school. I recently graduated this August with my AAS in Criminal Justice.  However, my Resume needs an Extreme makeover!  What I know best is customer service, public relations, office management, credit and collections...yet my passion lies in the field of law enforcement.  I have been unemployed the last ten months to stay home with my three children and to finish my degree.  So, not only do I have a significant career change, but a gap in my employment history.  I have primarily focused on obtaining employment as administrative support, but I have not had ONE single interview or telephone call in regards to my Resume submissions.  I have applied for County jobs as a Probation/Corrections Officer, Investigative Tech Trainee, and now after the written test I am placed on an eligibility list for six months.  If nothing happens within this time frame I must start from ground zero.  I am feeling highly discouraged, depressed, losing motivation daily, and feel my education has gotten me absolutely nowhere (except for more debt).  Please help!  I don't know what to do!!  My marriage is on the rocks due to the financial stress and I need to get back to work to get my family back on track enough to keep afloat and pay down our debt.
 

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Hello Folks.  I am having extreme difficulty finding a job after completing college.  I am 27 y/o and have worked since age thirteen in several industries, and I made a decision in 2004 to go back to school. I recently graduated this August with my AAS in Criminal Justice.  However, my Resume needs an Extreme makeover!  What I know best is customer service, public relations, office management, credit and collections...yet my passion lies in the field of law enforcement.  I have been unemployed the last ten months to stay home with my three children and to finish my degree.  So, not only do I have a significant career change, but a gap in my employment history.  I have primarily focused on obtaining employment as administrative support, but I have not had ONE single interview or telephone call in regards to my Resume submissions.  I have applied for County jobs as a Probation/Corrections Officer, Investigative Tech Trainee, and now after the written test I am placed on an eligibility list for six months.  If nothing happens within this time frame I must start from ground zero.  I am feeling highly discouraged, depressed, losing motivation daily, and feel my education has gotten me absolutely nowhere (except for more debt).  Please help!  I don't know what to do!!  My marriage is on the rocks due to the financial stress and I need to get back to work to get my family back on track enough to keep afloat and pay down our debt.

Choosetherite,

I recognize a lot of what you are feeling right now.

As far as your resume: take the job responsibilities from your previous jobs, cs, pr, office mgt, cr & coll. and compare those with the job responsibilities for a career in law enforcement. Emphasise the ones that are similar and use buzz words such as:

Established; Developed; Accomplished; Achieved; Serviced; Focused; Oversaw; Delegated; Completed; Advanced; Increased; Scheduled; Solved; Retrieved; Supervised; Motivated; Approved etc. etc. You get the idea.

 

As far as the gap in your resume: use that to your advantage by saying something like: "Domestic Management", make it a big deal -because it is!!!- be proud of it, but always be honest about it, and again: use job descriptions from a career in law enforcement that are/were applicable in your time off with your children. Don't forget: a career at home with your children requires a lot of skills!! List them!! Such as: persistance, precision, patience, great organizational skills, motivational skills, tenacity, multi-tasking, etc. I'm sure you can think of a lot  more!!

 

I am by no means an expert, but I have learned that is not only ok to brag about yourself, (we women don't do that enough anyway), but it is necesary to get noticed in the job market. Sell yourself. Employers don't read through resumes, they only scan them. So put buzz words in there and I hope you will get noticed!!!

I wish you much luck in your life and your job hunt. Keep us posted!

 

MooiMooi.

 
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September 21, 2006, 12:26 pm PDT

Thank you for your support!

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Choosetherite,

I recognize a lot of what you are feeling right now.

As far as your resume: take the job responsibilities from your previous jobs, cs, pr, office mgt, cr & coll. and compare those with the job responsibilities for a career in law enforcement. Emphasise the ones that are similar and use buzz words such as:

Established; Developed; Accomplished; Achieved; Serviced; Focused; Oversaw; Delegated; Completed; Advanced; Increased; Scheduled; Solved; Retrieved; Supervised; Motivated; Approved etc. etc. You get the idea.

 

As far as the gap in your resume: use that to your advantage by saying something like: "Domestic Management", make it a big deal -because it is!!!- be proud of it, but always be honest about it, and again: use job descriptions from a career in law enforcement that are/were applicable in your time off with your children. Don't forget: a career at home with your children requires a lot of skills!! List them!! Such as: persistance, precision, patience, great organizational skills, motivational skills, tenacity, multi-tasking, etc. I'm sure you can think of a lot  more!!

 

I am by no means an expert, but I have learned that is not only ok to brag about yourself, (we women don't do that enough anyway), but it is necesary to get noticed in the job market. Sell yourself. Employers don't read through resumes, they only scan them. So put buzz words in there and I hope you will get noticed!!!

I wish you much luck in your life and your job hunt. Keep us posted!

 

MooiMooi.

 Hello MooiMooi!  Thank you so much for taking the time in your busy life to share with me some of your successful tips.  I will take all of your suggestions into account and put them to work in making a phenomenal Resume.  I too, wish you the best of luck in your endeavors.  I'll keep you posted on my job hunt.  I am actually waiting for a call back today for an employment opportunity with a global company called "Bourns".  Thanks again and best regards.

Molly
 
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October 2, 2006, 10:51 am PDT

Repackaging AFTER Achieving Career Goals?

I have held positions on my career path...such a blessing, neh!  However, in my industry, layoffs are a grim reality.  Dr. Phil has often told people that they sometimes need to put aside what they WANT to do in favor of what they NEED to do to support their families.  Sooo, my question for everyone is, how do I repackage myself to do what I need to do after I've spent some time doing what I want to do?  At this juncture, I can't get a job doing something that will pay even minimum wage--which is more than I'm making now, while I search for another job.  I need to tell the truth...HOW shall I tell the truth, then eh?

 

Thanks in advance!  Cheers!

 
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October 3, 2006, 7:06 pm PDT

Why do I feel like I have to lie to get a job?

I'm very new to this whole message board thing, so please go easy on me!!! For the last 2 months I have been putting out resumes, walking door to door to drop resumes off, and I took a job search program about finding the hidden job market and revamping your resume to suite the position being applied for. I get that I have to change my resume for the position but what I don't get is why, when I go in for an interview, I suddenly feel like I can't be myself for fear of not getting the position? I'm blunt and too the point and as soon as I get the question "So tell me a little about yourself", I FEEL like saying "Well I've just changed careers, I need a job NOW and I know I can do this position, so give the job and stop wasting my time" Of course I don't say that...but after 85 resumes out and only one interview...I NEED HELP!!!  How do I give the answers they want without feeling like I'm telling half truths?

Thanks for your time,

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October 4, 2006, 9:20 pm PDT

Repackaging yourself - Yes

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I have held positions on my career path...such a blessing, neh!  However, in my industry, layoffs are a grim reality.  Dr. Phil has often told people that they sometimes need to put aside what they WANT to do in favor of what they NEED to do to support their families.  Sooo, my question for everyone is, how do I repackage myself to do what I need to do after I've spent some time doing what I want to do?  At this juncture, I can't get a job doing something that will pay even minimum wage--which is more than I'm making now, while I search for another job.  I need to tell the truth...HOW shall I tell the truth, then eh?

 

Thanks in advance!  Cheers!

I have had to repak myself.  I am 59.  My background is finance/accounting.  For about the past 10 years +/_ I have been fired from almost every job I had due to the fact that altho I was hired to let them know what the situation was, when it came down to it the owners didn't want to know the truth.

 

So what did I do, after I read this book, I decided to first get a job because I need to eat, live, etc, etc, etc,.  I then decided to take all my drive, determination, and use it for myself.  I also took my experience in my field and turned that field slightly around while keeping it in the same ballpark.

 

I am now in the midst of starting my own thing.  Has it been easy - it hasn't been hard - just took time and a little more than I thought,  the thing is to keep yourself FOCUSED!!!  AND Not Give Up!!!

 
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October 6, 2006, 10:11 am PDT

I dont know how I should feel

 I am confused about how I feel I am not much of a career minded up the latter to the top and all the rot that we are fed, I have a job a security guard and I like it, but for some reason I feel like I should want more from my career but i dont I have a loving wife and wounderful 5 month old son that is I would spend all my time with if I could, but I know I cant. I dont want to claim to the top of anything because with my family I feel that I aready have reached the top, even throw I make less money then my wife and she has the insurents for our family I am ok with that. I want to know if I should be. should I be the type of person that has the corner office, but my children and wife only know me as a pay check, but I am marred to my work and one day when I am 55 yrs old I fall over dead in office, but hay I was a big shot in life. I dont want to be that person but should I want to be?
 

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