Topic : 03/21 Is This Normal?

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(Original Air Date 12/14/07) Dr. Phil’s guests call their loved ones on the carpet about their unusual behavior. Linda says her dog, Sasha, is more human than canine. She loves to dress Sasha in pearls when company comes and feed the pampered pooch off her fork. Linda’s future daughter-in-law, Jill, says Linda is going overboard with her doggie doting -- especially since Linda wants Sasha to host Jill’s bridal shower! Then, Mary says it’s time for her husband, Eric, to let go of his dream of being a rock star. He’s 50 years old, and she says it’s time for him to get a real job. Eric says she supported his passion for 27 years -- so why is it suddenly abnormal? Next, Amber says she’s concerned about her fiancé, Colin’s, unpredictable mood swings, because one minute he’s the nicest guy in the world, but the next minute he’s flying off the handle. Should she call off the wedding until he gets his temper under control? Plus, a picky eater says she wants to stop being a “food weirdo” and start enjoying meals like a normal person. And, a woman at odds with her husband over the dangerous hobby that left her with a fractured back. Should she pursue her passion even though it terrifies her spouse? Tell us what you think!

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December 15, 2007, 9:59 am PST

Amber and Colin

Amber, I can not believe you allow Colin to use the language he does with your children. It is your duty to protect them, and I wouldn't want him anywhere near my children or his. He is abusive and not a good role model for those children. Ditch him.
 
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December 15, 2007, 10:03 am PST

12/14 Is This Normal?

 Don't worry Linda, when you see what I see on a daily basis about how people treat their "dogs" it is very refreshing to see someone that loves their dog as you do. I only wish all dogs had owners like you,
Then I would not be needed.
She is a very lucky girl, but please you do not want to insult her by calling her human.  Dogs are so much more loyal, trusting, faithful, caring, they will be there for you forever, they love unconditionally.  So call her what she is, as calling her human is an insult.  People do things dogs would never do to us.

Love her your way and never stop, she is dry, warm and full unlike millions of others in this country who are cold, alone and hungry right now.
As they have been abandoned by their "human" owner, dogs would never to this to us.

Give her a jug from me~~~




 
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December 15, 2007, 12:35 pm PST

12/14 Is This Normal?

The picky eater woman  should  NOT try to change her eating habits.  She may be picky but as everyone saw she DOES eat and manages to maintain a healthy weight.  Trying to fuddle the balance of her mind would inevitably lead to other problems.  (remember what happened in the movie 'Thumbsucker').

What she needs to do is to learn to accept herself as a picky eater, and be open about her habits with those she dines with.



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December 15, 2007, 2:52 pm PST

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Hey all,

 Just wanted to let you know this show was all in fun, and while it seems in a few postings I have been chastised for the way I treat Sasha....I would like you to know that it was never with harmful intension. I have watched the show several times since it aired this evening, three times in a row tonight as most always prescribed by Dr. Phil. I realize that I may have made a few slips of the tongue...but truly I have gotten a few of the messages loud and clear.

Should we be invited back for an update you'll be excited to find out what has happened since the show...

for now what I can say is that I love Sasha very much and want what is best for her and her health...but of course I love Jill more, and I realize that she is the most important in all of this...along with my son.

I hope those of you who have posted comments  will consider that loving my dog is the part that comes easily, and loving Jill and my sons are even easier...what is not always easy is pleasing those whom do not see us or know us and understand this is only a small fraction of our daily lives.

Some of you have posted wonderful things and given truly  helpful insight and advice...others have taken themselves and their postings a bit too seriously...but don't worry, we forgive you. (wink)

What I learned most from situation in particular, is that I have an amazing family, an amazing future daughter in law, and extended family...and wonderful friends who support me even though I am crazy about my dog....and yes some even agree it is normal.

Thank you Dr. Phil for giving us the opportunity to be a part of this show, and a special thanks to Stephanie and Justin!!

Best wishes to all of you and thanks for watching Dr. Phil, especially the segment featuring our special girl....Sasha..... I mean Jill  ....( only kidding )  geeesh

 Namaste.

Linda

have to tellya girl friend I so understand. I have so many children, human kids that is. Mother Hubbard would be so proud and there is food so the cupboards are not bare. BUT and I mean fuzzy BUTTS of course.. I have 4 cats, Zeke age 16 and  34 # of cream sickle cat  [ orange white Garfield ]  George  weight 25 of all grey and white paws , he is 13 years old and he thinks he is human , he might have been in his life, I think he was a physician as he takes care of everyone when they are ill. I call him Dr. George. He is very kind fellow. Sylvester T P Stallone age 10 weight 7 1/2  # and he is the heavy weight champion of fighting. He is the only one declawed and he has yet to acknowledge this ever. He will always start a fight with a dust bunny or the vacuum cleaner if it is standing still.  Ophelia Cri  Sara Bernhard  age 2 1/2 years old 16 #  and she is a main coon puff full of play piss and vinegar. Her tail is longer than Sylvester. DO NOT TELL SYLVESTER! She is a beauty and sits in front of the mirror to looking at herself to prove that theory. She gets stuck up in tree's and has been rescued already one time by the Totem Lake fire department. She gets vertigo. Not kidding and adores to play with her cat dollies that are small stuffed cat toy dollies. She wakes us up to play hide and seek and loves her cat ball wheel too and wakes BIG KITTY UP TO RUN WITH  HER AND CAUSE LOADS OF NOISE! who is BIG KITTY?       

My Dog/her dog... Gage, age 10 years and weight 78 #. Lab border collie mix was adopted when he was 3 and was found on the side of the Spokane hyw with a bullet in him.  We adore Gage. He adores his Cats , but his very best friends are George and baby cat, Ophelia. Ophelia has never been introduced to any other dog. SO, Gage is a big CAT/KITTY to her >^.^<

Do I adore my fuzz kids? Yuppers. I also adore my human kids all 7 of them plus the kids I have fostered 8 plus the kids I have simply taken in through out the years... 10.

In our home it is always rescue and not waste.. You have a good heart.. I know you do. The show was a great one and I always admire love for a fuzz butt and no one can convince me you do not love your family :)I know better..

 
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December 15, 2007, 4:46 pm PST

The words that you allow!

I was offended by the fact that you allowed the word "Jesus Christ" to go uncensored but there were other words that were "bleeped" out. I enjoy watching your show because you have a belief in God and show it in the advice you give and the way you and Robin interact with each other.

 

Just wanted to bring this to your attention.

 

 
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December 15, 2007, 9:10 pm PST

12/14 Is This Normal?

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   Are you for real?   You are on a Pity trip.  You are not taking responsibility for lack of self worth.  You are using the excuse that Oh, I can't let him fail on his Own?   Where is your self worth?   Don't use him for your excuse to stay where you consider confortable,   Don't you have any goals for yourself, why are you letting someone elses lack of self worth drag you down.  WHERE is your head girl,   get  some goals and realize that he is not helping you, you are enabling him to be a bum and free loader, hey, people treat you, the way you let them   where the H    is your selfworth, Time to look in the Mirror and think about why you allow this lazy guy in your life.   Do you have a mother - I'll take care of You attidute?    Well maybe you should have had some kids, they would be more greatful in the long run and would give you back something in return.   You asked the question so,. therefore,    Here is my answer,   Tell him to get off his lazu butt, give him a due date, if he doesn't do it by then, tell him. Meet the date, or GET out!.  Now if he cares, he will do something, if now, he will test you and if you stand you ground, then and only then will he move out, Cause to be honest, I don't think he will change, he will only move  on to his next concur!   Please get out now,

live your life instead of taking care of some lazy, no good user!    Make a promise to yourself and do it now for the New Year.   Life is so great when that burden is off your shoulder.   You know whats funny, you always had the power,   you just never used it.   You know why.   Cause you fill like you owe someone else their happiness and life,    NO you don't, you Are number One, then look at them.    They look pretty sad, don't they, Well tell them to do something about  it ,   You are going to live....Life is TOO short, don't waste another minute on someone who is using you!....Hey, don't mean to be had on you but I have to, to get you to act,   and  that my friend is what you need to do to get rid of the homeless, car-less, money-less lomesone looser!   I wish  Really Really wish you the best,  please move on, get that burden off your back.   It will feel so good.   I have to make one more comment.  I really and turely believe " no one owes anyone a living just because they are with you"   Please think about this.   Good Luck  Sincerely   Kiesa1

  I hope your not replying this to ME.   Read what I wrote!
 
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December 15, 2007, 10:46 pm PST

12/14 Is This Normal?

Quote From: dogloverrp

Hey all,

 Just wanted to let you know this show was all in fun, and while it seems in a few postings I have been chastised for the way I treat Sasha....I would like you to know that it was never with harmful intension. I have watched the show several times since it aired this evening, three times in a row tonight as most always prescribed by Dr. Phil. I realize that I may have made a few slips of the tongue...but truly I have gotten a few of the messages loud and clear.

Should we be invited back for an update you'll be excited to find out what has happened since the show...

for now what I can say is that I love Sasha very much and want what is best for her and her health...but of course I love Jill more, and I realize that she is the most important in all of this...along with my son.

I hope those of you who have posted comments  will consider that loving my dog is the part that comes easily, and loving Jill and my sons are even easier...what is not always easy is pleasing those whom do not see us or know us and understand this is only a small fraction of our daily lives.

Some of you have posted wonderful things and given truly  helpful insight and advice...others have taken themselves and their postings a bit too seriously...but don't worry, we forgive you. (wink)

What I learned most from situation in particular, is that I have an amazing family, an amazing future daughter in law, and extended family...and wonderful friends who support me even though I am crazy about my dog....and yes some even agree it is normal.

Thank you Dr. Phil for giving us the opportunity to be a part of this show, and a special thanks to Stephanie and Justin!!

Best wishes to all of you and thanks for watching Dr. Phil, especially the segment featuring our special girl....Sasha..... I mean Jill  ....( only kidding )  geeesh

 Namaste.

Linda

Linda, I totally understand what you are saying. I am sure you love your son and daughter in law to be just as much as you do Sasha. Don't let anyone put you down for caring about your pet. LOTS of people treat their pets like they are family.  Yes, they are dogs (shhh, don't let my yorkies hear me say that lol) but they are also family and they are NOT wild animals who can be expected to survive on their own. They very much depend on us to feed them, play with them, nurture them and yes LOVE them just like our own kids. Animals are very innocent and trusting and it is easy to baby them. I, for one, won't apologize to anyone for babying mine. No they don't come before my kids (who are all grown now) but they are a part of my life that I would never want to be without. My kids joke with me and say when they are reincarnated, they want to come back as a yorkie... MY yorkie.... lol.. and they love them everybit as much as I do.

Sonya

 
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December 15, 2007, 11:28 pm PST

12/14 Is This Normal?

I was shocked by the step father that uses bad language at his wife's children when they don't do what they are supposed to do.   You are not doing what you are supposed to be doing either.  You are supposed to be an example and a role model to those children.  Temper tantrums and cursing in response to a backpack in the hallway?  You need a time out mister...
 
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December 16, 2007, 5:12 am PST

Linda Is Ridiculous!!

I'm having a hard time believing that she is for real. It's not normal to insist that a dog is human, and to attempt  to force people to acknowledge it!!

 

Where was her son? He should have been there to defend his future wife and the way she did not want a dog's name on her shower invitations. I'd be scared to marry him anyway, if I were her, with a mother like Linda!!! I don't think I'd want to tap into that gene pool.

 
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December 16, 2007, 7:07 am PST

Husbands Emailing pen pals

Recently I found out that my husband of 25 years is email an old girl friend. He cant understand how upseting this is for me. When he was a kid they were best friends. Just friends... Oh how I hate that phase.  I have read the emails between them. On her end its seemed innocent just old friends catching up on what life has brought her way. But on my husbands side...flirting and things to impress her. I emailed the woman. She said that I dont have to worry about her, that her intention then and now ... that phase again ( just friends) catching up. My husband stopped emailing her for about two months. Until this woman sent an email... asking if everything is all right? Yes he responded that he  was sad and now is happy because she did not forget about him. Am I being to jealous should I let him have his friend. I just cant understand if he is happy, why he needs to do this.

 

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