Topic : 10/17 Sexual Predators?

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Created on : Tuesday, October 16, 2007, 03:42:12 pm
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You've read the headlines, now watch the story about a crime so heinous some would rather see the suspect dead than in jail. The manhunt for the nation's most wanted alleged pedophile ended last night as fugitive Chester Stiles, accused in the videotaped molestation of a three-year-old girl, was arrested outside Las Vegas. Stiles had been wanted since October 5 on warrants issued for 21 felony charges in connection with acts seen on the videotape. Could you spot a child predator? Is your family at risk? Be there when Dr. Phil tells you the warning signs to watch for -- you'll be shocked! Plus, the reported victim's mother breaks her silence in an exclusive interview with Dr. Phil. Then, hear what Stiles' ex-girlfriend's son has to say, and what the victim remembers about the attack. If it's happening now, Dr. Phil is going to deal with it now! Don't miss this breaking news Dr. Phil Now. Join the discussion.

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October 17, 2007, 8:19 pm PDT

YES!!!!!

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We have a registered (on Megan's Law Website) sex offender as one of three leaders at our church!!!!  My husband did not attend our church with my kids and I but has now forbid us from going because of this discovery.  The scary thing is that others there know...are the children there at risk?  

Are the children at church at risk??? YES, YES and YES!  He has found a place to get both sympathy AND gain access to children.  RUN, don't walk, away from there.  The pastor might trust him, but you should not. 

 
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October 17, 2007, 8:30 pm PDT

NO EXCUSE FOR THIS BEHAVIOR

 While I was 10 years older than this poor little girl and speaking from my own personal experience of being sexually molested as a child. I truly believe it changed the person that I should have been, even could have been. It took me years to recover and a wonderful counselor at age 35 to tell me it wasn't my fault. I spent all these wasted years in drugs and alcohol, feeling dirty, ashamed, and responsible. I lost all hopes and dreams, and I didn't trust anyone, especially the parents who were suppose to protect me from their friend. 

 This has been going on for years, but finally some families are not to embarrassed to admit it. and education at school has helped too. Something needs to be done with these people. I have sympathy for a lot of people in a variety of circumstances, however this is not one of them. They steal the lives of these children, their innocents, their self respect and dignity and some are not fortunate enough like myself to recover. 

I suuppose that my belief is that it can be proven beyond a shadow of a doubt through DNA or like this tape, they should hang them or find some other way to let them die a slow agonizing death. 

 
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October 17, 2007, 8:31 pm PDT

10/17 Sexual Predators?

 These kinds of stories upset me so much but I appreciated Dr. Phil reminding everyone that these predators are usually people we know and have come to trust. I recently had to tell a youth intern at my son's church that he could not have my son alone in his dorm room nor should he encourage it. My son, age 12, really looks up to this guy and told me that he had already been alone in his dorm room. I am a very vigilant mom and a school teacher. I had no idea this young ,(and engaged), young man lived on the campus of the church which is also a bible college. I had no idea that my son had been invited to his room in between his band practice and church. The youth itnern explained to me that he enjoys the 1-1 time with the kids so he can get to know them and be a better mentor. I sent off an email explaining that this was inappropriate and not to invite nor encourage my son again. My son was very confused as to why I did not want him to "hang out with _____." My son thinks his church is so safe and everyone there is beyond any wrongdoing. As a mother and a teacher I know better. I don't think anything has happened but I can tell you that it has been very difficult working to protect my son without alienating him or ,a very possibly ,innocent young man.
We must pay close attention. All of the descriptions of a possible molester fit this guy to  tee. After the show my stomach began to churn and I feel that even though I set a boundary I still need to be very vigilant.
Thank you Dr. Phil for reminding us to do whatever it takes to protect our kids.
 
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October 17, 2007, 8:32 pm PDT

I Wish More Had Been Discussed About the Guy Who Found The Tape!

 I only wish more had been reported about the guy who found that tape.    He claimed that he found it in the desert, which may be true, but the scumbag kept it for 5 months and passed it around to his friends before finally going to the police with it.     I feel that people who "enjoy" watching child porno are just as guilty as the ones who make them.

I  would venture to guess that 99.9% of sickos that watch child porno are men.      I've just given up on trying to understand men and sex.
 
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October 17, 2007, 8:40 pm PDT

I was a victum

I fell so bad for that little girl. I think that man should have a punishment worce then death.

And i very much agree with dr phils  thing talking about they are people like step parents and  always so help full. I hate how true this is. As I was also a victum from 11-15 the person that raped /molested me always said not to tell or he would hurt people i loved. and grooming he statered out having my self and siblings watch toon porn then the real deal as he built up to it. When i finaly told i was sent away not him. My stepfather has never done 1 day in jail.nor will he ever as he is in law inforcment and believes he is above the law.  This whole thing is very scary the idea it could be ur neighbor your friend or even a family member. but then when there above you on athority by being in law inforcement. then there so corupt that no one is safe.  I myself now have children and id be the 1st  to say i would kill some one that messed with one of my kids.

 
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October 17, 2007, 8:45 pm PDT

Why?

This whole subject makes me so angry. I found out eight months  ago that my 11 year old  daughter was being molested by the man she considered  dadddy.  He is still out there somewhere and it makes me sick.  I  dont understand what is wrong with these people.
 
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October 17, 2007, 8:46 pm PDT

tonight on THE RUNNING MAN...

I believe The Arnold Schwartzenegger film) The Running Man should be a real show, and we should start with perverts like this.

 

 
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October 17, 2007, 8:47 pm PDT

Dissociative Identity Disorder

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I am concerned about the young child that was found to be the victim of Mr. Stiles.  I have heard many people, including her mother and doctors, saying that she has no memory of the "horror" and is fine. 

 

I am a stepmother of 2 boys that were abused at an early age by their mother's husband and stepson, in another state.  The ages of my 2 stepsons were 3 and 6.  For years there was no indication of the abuse; however, the youngest appeared to have a hearing problem and was taken to the doctor.  To make a long story short -there was no hearing problem, but a dissociative disorder!  My stepson had dissociated during the abuse and another part of his brain took over and created another personality to handle the abuse.  That was the beginning of a host of many problems.

 

I hope that someone will be persistent and really take a long look at the poor, innocent girl and be assured there are no real "underlying" problems.

I too was concerned about the report of the little girl having no memory of the abuse. I have been diagnosed with DID. Before partial integration, I had 34 "insiders".  I hope your son was able to receive help with his disorder.  I am much improved, but know that I still have a long way to go.  I hope that therapists are looking into the possibility that this girl dissociated. From what I have heard....she had no emotion during the tape.....to me that is a red flag for dissociating. Thank you for your care and honesty about your son.  He is not alone with his diagnosis.
 
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October 17, 2007, 8:48 pm PDT

10/17 Sexual Predators?

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 If a father washes his 2 year old's privates, is it any different than the mother doing it? How does a youngster know the difference and not confussed? A little coaching by DHR, teachers, or a vindictive spouse planning on divorce is all it takes. What is this world comming too, when a Father has to be afraid to take care of his child for fear of mixed signals a child has from being taught something they completely don't understand. There goes the innocence. Parents need to be parents and be very observant , but do they have a choice when a school official teaches them something, that is totally off base?

I am a women who actually took my four  year old son to the doctor while going through a custody battle in order for the doctor to put cream on his privates  areas, because some kind of rash. the doctor thought that I was a little out of my mind at first but once I explained the situation not only did he understand my concern, he actually documented my son's chart to show my concern while at the same time giving me permission to apply the medication myself. I was afraid to do anything with my son without fear of it being taken the wrong way. The Department of children and family services is so over whelmed with calls with parents in ugly divorce and custody battles using every means they can to win their children that this service can no longer protect the children that are being abused. These people known to be making these false allegations need to be fined or jailed  perhaps thousands of hours of community service would deter this. Doesn't anybody care about the children anymore!

 
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October 17, 2007, 8:49 pm PDT

Amen, brother!

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I keep reading posts that say things about the bible being taken out of schools and how kicking God out of the schools is causing a moral decline that causes more sexual attacks on children.  Come on people....how many priest and nuns have molested children. How many pastors, youth leaders, good "christian" father and mothers have molested children...keeping God and the Bible in the public eye is not going to stop this mess or curb it.  Swift and harsh punishment is the way!
I attended a fundamentalist church for a year or so when I was a kid.  One of the elders kept his 16 year old daughter locked in her bedroom for well over a year.  She could attend church on Sundays but had to put on a big smile and pretend like all was well.  The school tried to intervene on her behalf because she was not even allowed to attend her high school classes, to no avail.  When some of us teenage girls who had heard her dad was molesting her went to the pastor's wife to ask why God would allow something like this to happen in a Godly family, she handed out pamphlets from Kimberly-Clark about periods and maxi-pads.  No, I am not making this up.  That was as far out on the limb as the pastor's wife was willing to go to do something, ANYTHING for a teenage girl being held hostage in her own home by an elder of the church.  Her dad was a raging drunk, and apparently had intimidated those in the church from doing something to challenge his behavior.  The girl finally ran away and took up with some guy.  That she was willing to take a chance on a stranger rather than endure the abuse at the hands of her father, an elder in the church, was telling.  Having the bible in school is not the answer- locking up the pedophiles FOREVER would be more helpful. 
 

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