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You've read the headlines, now watch the story about a crime so heinous some would rather see the suspect dead than in jail. The manhunt for the nation's most wanted alleged pedophile ended last night as fugitive Chester Stiles, accused in the videotaped molestation of a three-year-old girl, was arrested outside Las Vegas. Stiles had been wanted since October 5 on warrants issued for 21 felony charges in connection with acts seen on the videotape. Could you spot a child predator? Is your family at risk? Be there when Dr. Phil tells you the warning signs to watch for -- you'll be shocked! Plus, the reported victim's mother breaks her silence in an exclusive interview with Dr. Phil. Then, hear what Stiles' ex-girlfriend's son has to say, and what the victim remembers about the attack. If it's happening now, Dr. Phil is going to deal with it now! Don't miss this breaking news Dr. Phil Now. Join the discussion.

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October 17, 2007, 9:08 am PDT

Sexual Predators

 

We found out about three months ago that on of the Deacons in our church had molested his mentally retarded daughter who is now 43.  He is a bottom feeder as far as we are concerned.  He pled Guilty when he was first charged, however, he was appointed a lawyer and he went back to trial on Monday and was convicted for Misdemeanor Sexual Battery!   He must have a great lawyer to get the sentence reduced from a felony?  The couple have 5 children, 3 of which are handicapped in some way.  We all wonder just how much of it is retardation, or could it be mental or emotional illness?  The two "normal" children live out of state.

 

My husband has known this couple for over 30 years and he was shocked beyond belief!  I know more about life than he does, we are both in our mid 60's, and I did not find it unusual at all, I have always been uneasy around this man.  His wife, who is probably a victim and an enabler as well, is a pitiful women.  Abuse is abuse whether it is with an adult or a child.  I would like to see this man strung up by his ankles but he is off on a Misdemenor and no sentence has been given to date!  He will undergo a complete psychiatric evaluation and be sentenced in early Dec. The only things that gives any of us relief is that he will be on the Registry of Sexual Predators for everyone to see!

 

I have 3 granddaughters under 12 and I love and adore them!  My son and his wife do everything they can to make sure the girls are safe at all times but you cannot watch them 24/7 and some of these predators are just waiting for you to look away.  I am angry!  These people walk around looking normal and that is how they are able to get away with damaging a child or an adult for life!

 

 
 
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October 17, 2007, 9:11 am PDT

How can you tell?

It is hard to look at a person and know if he or she is or may become a predator. Just always be aware of who  is with your child and what they are doing  at any given time. I am 73 years old and raised a family of 4 boys and 1 girl. I am now living with 2 of these sons and have daily contact with some of my grea-grandchildren. I am amazed at how my grandchildren take for granted that their children are safe in their environements. They let them go around the stores by themselves and often out of sight. I am always aware of the fact that anything can happen and in the blink of an eye a child's innocense is taken and you cannot get it back--ever. When the children are with me, I do not allow them to roam through  the store alone or even with each other. I tell them that when they are with me they do as I say and when they are with their mother, they can do whatever she allows, but I do not want it on my conscience that something bad happened to them when they were in my care. so put up with their old grandma and learn to like it or we can all stay home. How a person can do something so horrible to a child and live with themselves has always been beyond my comprehension. But, it does happen and the child is forever scarred. So watch over these precious little lives. We only get to go around this old world one time, there are no repeats  or do-overs allowed. Put these people away and do not allow them to be out where they can gain access to some other child. No reprieves, no paroles, nothing but imprisonment  and isolation for the rest of their life. You could always do what a woman I used to work with once said . Nail their "you know what" to an  old barn door and set the barn on fire and then give them a knife, step back and watch the fun.
 
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October 17, 2007, 9:18 am PDT

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This person is less than a beast.  when are they lawyers and judges and law makers ever going to hang these people high?  I can not think of a worse offense perpatrated on any human being, no matter how old they are.  These kinds can not and never have been rehabilated and let loose in our world ever!!!!!

 

I personally feel we should buy an island in the middle of the pacific ocean, put all these types there and give them 30 days of food, no boats, no nothing and tell them good luck.  At lease we would never have to worry about who they would hurt next.  Cruel and inhumane--not on your life compared to what they have done to innocent people.

The banishment to an ISLAND is an 'excellent' idea. Where do I donate to the purchase of one?? Better get a BIG one, because there are a 'lot' of these Morons running around. We'll send a few of the judges along. Wouldn't that make a good Reality Show? I always thought that the courts should allow the parents of these 'abused' kids to have a chance to retaliate against these skum-bags.

 
 
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October 17, 2007, 9:28 am PDT

10/17 Sexual Predators?

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  Sadly for some children, the family never listens to them, as no one wants to believe that it would happen, or that it is very real. If the child tells, then they get punished, but not the one that did it. No matter what they say or do, they are the ones considered no good, and what the other person did is covered up. The subject is closed as far as the family is concerned, but not the child, and years later, that child within the now adult does feel for those that go through this. Sexual Predators are very sick people, and children need the protection adults can give, if they are willing. You would be surprised how many adults will turn a blind eye. I know it is not an easy path for a child if the family is not there for them, but it is a big help for those that have family that stand by them. Some predators are not caught, no matter how much you may try to get others to listen. Some stand by the predator. Sometimes I wonder why anyone would stand by the predator and the victim is no longer family to them. Everyone is different, and we all choose our own path in the end. I hope more children that go through this are capable of becoming adults that do have a good healthy relationship, and not go the path many choose of drugs, alcohol etc. A child is vunerable and needs the family more than ever at these times. They need to know they are still loved and not an outcast in their own family.

  I feel more predators are being caught today and that is something long over due.

  I have been there and really feel for those children that go through anything similar or worse. It is a difficult thing to live with, and yet you do. I moved forward in my life, but have met many that did not. This is a show I plan to watch!

Agree with you on this. Some children will never tell because they fear they will not be believed. For those parents/families that want to 'shove it under the carpet'  for fear of humiliation, I have to say those people are also sick. When some try to be overly friendly and helpful and offer to take out your kids and such, WATCH those people closely. You can spot the signs if you are aware enough.

 

I also know of  a 14/15 yr old girl that once said to me and I quote, " I wish dad would have sexually abused me as a child or would now, then I'd have more power." What daughter could EVER say something as horrible and despicable as that?  I am all for children speaking up and they MUST tell someone they can trust. But for those children that can say something like THIS, that may use this to get back at their fathers (or mothers), I feel they are on the wrong path and dangerous to be around also, maybe they could be a predator at a later stage. Isn't there something drastically wrong when someone can say this? To me, that was a very disturbing thing to say that can't be ignored either. I would like anyone to comment on this. Why would and HOW could someone say such a dreadful thing? What sexual predators do is unforgiveable and they need euthanising, never let them out, they can't be re-habilitated, but it is also unforgiveable to not only say this, but make such accusations or try to mislead someone into thinking someone did something. I think porn plays a big part and is an enabler as well as many other factors.
 
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October 17, 2007, 9:37 am PDT

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I know of a family in a town, 27 miles from me, who's 11 yr old boy has a rap sheet, for molesting kids..And nothing is done..No CPS taking that kid away, Sheriff's Dept, just slapping the kid on the hand..This is a Child Molester in the making. They have 2 boys and the youngest is turning out to be just as bad. Why don't I go and complain??? No one will do anything, about this. I've tried..but they come back, what proof do you have.THE MOTHERS of these kids that are being molested and they are scared to say anything, because the father of these two brats has threatened them!!  This is a very rural area in So NV and no one does anything, not unless the men are over 21..??? WHY..????

Makes me sick!!

 
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October 17, 2007, 9:40 am PDT

Human Garbage

These people are nothing but human garbage.  They can't be rehabilitated, they can't be fixed.  When they are caught, when we KNOW they molested a child, they should be shot between the eyes and cremated.  Don't waste taxpayer money to house them in prison, to feed them.  Get rid of them like the trash they are.  They have given up their right to live among us.

 
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October 17, 2007, 9:40 am PDT

10/17 Sexual Predators?

I am not usually this cold, but wouldn't it be interesting if someone were to videotape what is going to happen to Chester Stiles in prison and sell it on the internet?  Food for thought....
 
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October 17, 2007, 9:47 am PDT

Molester Island

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This person is less than a beast.  when are they lawyers and judges and law makers ever going to hang these people high?  I can not think of a worse offense perpatrated on any human being, no matter how old they are.  These kinds can not and never have been rehabilated and let loose in our world ever!!!!!

 

I personally feel we should buy an island in the middle of the pacific ocean, put all these types there and give them 30 days of food, no boats, no nothing and tell them good luck.  At lease we would never have to worry about who they would hurt next.  Cruel and inhumane--not on your life compared to what they have done to innocent people.

I like the island idea.  Either that or just put them down.  I wouldn't give them any food though, let them rough it.  Where can I sign up for the petition for the island?  There is no category low enough to put these mutants in.  The way they are treated in our legal system makes me sick!!  Some people just don't deserve to have any rights. 
 
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October 17, 2007, 9:50 am PDT

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This drives me up a wall to see this happening to our children.  What drives me up a wall even more is the thought that these people can be rehabilitated.  They can't.  They will always have that urge because it is a sickness with no cure, yet they are let back out into society.  They move back into society, and are allowed to move into our neighborhoods, granted we are informed they are there, but we get no say.  It makes me sick.  I have a guy who lives in my neighborhood who is a convicted sex offender, pedophile.  And I see him out driving in his truck and I think, what if he is scoping out his next target in my child.   
 
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October 17, 2007, 9:52 am PDT

Pedophiles: individually and collectively

 For every  1 time a pediphile is caught.hurting a child  ....there are 100 other times he is not caught.

 I have spent a lifetime as a caregiver in urban Emergency Rooms....and have seen the results of their

    pathological self indulgence and self gratification.

 There is no cure .......there are only excuses and short remissions....

 Society should not be obliged to provide any life support  ...

 
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