Topic : 10/17 Sexual Predators?

I was watching the news... i saw that beautiful little blond headed girl....she was sooo little.. a child dammit!!

All i could think is"that was me"..there were no photos.. not unless you count the ones in my head...i could not breath.. i could not move.. i was just sooo heart broken for this child  ,  and for the child inside of myself....i will never understand why this happens,, it will affect her whole life.. i know it does mine....i never really had anyone to talk about it too ...i wish i had... my life has been so hard... hard to love anyone or trust anyone...and it has been 30 + years... i will pray for you sweet child! 

I absolutely agree with you, there is no rehab for these people.  They should never be reintroduced back to society, it is like giving them a free pass and green light to go ahead and do this again to another child.

Medical testing.....They should be used to at least have some good come from them.  Cage them and use them for testing to find cures for things we do not have cures for, it saves the innocent animals ans makes some portion of these sex offenders lives worth their being here!

I'm a childhood victim and now a mother of 2 .

As far as I'm concerned I think we need to bring back drawing and quartering just for people like this!!!

I know some would say that's horrible but you know what, they should be ripped apart just like they rip apart they're tiny victims!

I'm just so sick of hearing about this horrid crap, I mean honestly what makes any body think they have any right to touch a child!!!! It just makes me want to scream at the top of my lungs until I have no breath left.

 

To the mother ,

Please don't blame your self you should be able to go to work and know that your child is perfectly safe. Sadly though it's just not the world we live in. I'm sure that if you had any clue, feeling, etc. that this guy was a freak you never would have left your daughter with them, so let yourself off the hook and put that energy into helping your daughter when or if she needs it. I am so sorry this happened and I sincerely pray that she never ever remembers. Your in my prayers

~Nixi

This person who did this to this little girl needs to be put to death and not even have us taxpapers pay for him to stand trail.

 

I am a grandmother who is raising my grandson  who is 11 years old and if someone hurt him that way he wouldnot stand a chance of surving.

 

The court system needs to take these men and do anyway with them they are garbage and should never be let out to be under treatment.  I live in Las Vegas and everyday these child molesters are let out and never report their where abouts to the probation department and thats why they get away with hurting our children.  Please people wake up and tell Congress that they need stronger laws for these child molsters.

 

thank you

Joan C. Daniels

I like it!! Can I poke them with hot sticks every once in a while too!!!!

I work in the field and I can tell you that most pedifiles were abused at some point in their lives.  It is not a cop out, those are facts. No it DOES NOT make it right or OK but there are reasons behind a persons behavior.   Not everyone handles things the same.  Some people feel it happened to them and they would never inflict that pain onto another human being, but some others do go the opposite direction.  It is a very sad situation.  I can only say that I am happy that you had the support needed to help you deal in proper ways with your abuse, but not everyone does.

I think that everybody should go online and check their nightborhood  see if you have any  sex offenders around for starts.
I know for a fact that predators are all over, it could be mom's best friend, yes that guy that children love,plays lot sof games with them and makes them laugh, he just seem to have a magnet with children, everyone is afraid of the weird looking guy  that  noone likes, but the truth is, a predator he is a very likeable guy most of the time, children love him, and parents trust him.
In my family the guy my mother trusted the most was the one touching us, in  a very casual way, playing around or when you where at sleep. She never though he would do something like that to us, but now that we are grown up we told her, we are in out 30's and 40's, she was so mad at him she does not even talk to him anymore or see him, and luckily for us, he never went beyond that. Why did we never told her? I have no idea......we should have.....but we trusted him so much too, my sisters are very angry at him,  I can't I have move on, I am one of those rare persons that are able to forgive, but if it was my child, I don't think I could forgive anyone at all for hurting my child, that's the way parents are, you can hurt me or do anything to me, but don't touch my child or I will hurt you back.
I feel for this child and her parents I have no idea how they are going to get trough this, this is the most terrible thing a child can go trough and it will seem that it will never be over.
The best advice I have ever heard my mother tell to a friend of mine with a doughter was, "Never trust someone aroound her, always know where she is and and never let her tou of your sight."
Who can you trust now days?
The fact is, a predator is very smart, and knows how to get to your child, earns your trust and your children's and is usuallu with in the family, or a family member....so sad......

Something needs to be done!! Castration wil not help. Its embeded in their heads (bring back the guilliotine). Some of us grew up in an age when it was never talked about.  The parents say she has no memory of the abuse. From personal experience, someday it will come back to haunt her. All of us will come to realization of the abuse at some point and time whether old or young. It does come back to haunt us all. The paranoia is there and always will be. The best we can do is educate our children. Watch everyone, family, friends, ministry, EVERYONE!

  I was just wondering, as a mother who was very worried about anything happening to my children, How the hell do you NOT CHECK YOUR CHILD WHEN YOU BATHE THEM??????