Topic : 10/17 Sexual Predators?

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Created on : Tuesday, October 16, 2007, 03:42:12 pm
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You've read the headlines, now watch the story about a crime so heinous some would rather see the suspect dead than in jail. The manhunt for the nation's most wanted alleged pedophile ended last night as fugitive Chester Stiles, accused in the videotaped molestation of a three-year-old girl, was arrested outside Las Vegas. Stiles had been wanted since October 5 on warrants issued for 21 felony charges in connection with acts seen on the videotape. Could you spot a child predator? Is your family at risk? Be there when Dr. Phil tells you the warning signs to watch for -- you'll be shocked! Plus, the reported victim's mother breaks her silence in an exclusive interview with Dr. Phil. Then, hear what Stiles' ex-girlfriend's son has to say, and what the victim remembers about the attack. If it's happening now, Dr. Phil is going to deal with it now! Don't miss this breaking news Dr. Phil Now. Join the discussion.

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October 17, 2007, 10:17 am PDT

10/17 Sexual Predators?

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  Sadly for some children, the family never listens to them, as no one wants to believe that it would happen, or that it is very real. If the child tells, then they get punished, but not the one that did it. No matter what they say or do, they are the ones considered no good, and what the other person did is covered up. The subject is closed as far as the family is concerned, but not the child, and years later, that child within the now adult does feel for those that go through this. Sexual Predators are very sick people, and children need the protection adults can give, if they are willing. You would be surprised how many adults will turn a blind eye. I know it is not an easy path for a child if the family is not there for them, but it is a big help for those that have family that stand by them. Some predators are not caught, no matter how much you may try to get others to listen. Some stand by the predator. Sometimes I wonder why anyone would stand by the predator and the victim is no longer family to them. Everyone is different, and we all choose our own path in the end. I hope more children that go through this are capable of becoming adults that do have a good healthy relationship, and not go the path many choose of drugs, alcohol etc. A child is vunerable and needs the family more than ever at these times. They need to know they are still loved and not an outcast in their own family.

  I feel more predators are being caught today and that is something long over due.

  I have been there and really feel for those children that go through anything similar or worse. It is a difficult thing to live with, and yet you do. I moved forward in my life, but have met many that did not. This is a show I plan to watch!

I'm sorry you went through what you did and I'm so very glad you have moved forward with your life. I will also be watching the show and will tell all my children to watch it as it will impact my grandchildren.
 
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October 17, 2007, 10:18 am PDT

He should be Locked up Forever!!

This guy makes me want to beat him down!!! I don't even believe he is insane just evil!!!

HE RAPED A THREE YEAR OLD GIRL!! He should be locked up forever!!

 

My only hope is that the little girl will be able to live with no other threats upon her innocence.

Seven year olds should be spending time jumping rope and going to birthday parties ;not having to remember  being raped by a  33 year old pedophile.

 
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October 17, 2007, 10:20 am PDT

how can someone be so sick?

How can someone be so perverted?  This guy deserves worse than the death sentence.  I say stone him and let the parents and child do it.   
 

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October 17, 2007, 10:26 am PDT

Sexual Predators...

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Without wanting to make light of what happened..

why do you discriminate and claim that women never do this?

 

Recently, in Belgium, a woman tennis teacher was arrested for seducing a 13 year old in a lesbian relationship. And, im thinking that this is a tip of the proverbial iceberg.

 

So, please, dont insinuate that women never do this.

Idiots, criminals and evil people are not limited to one race, gender, religion or ideology - sadly.

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"How do people become so degraded? Why do men prey on children? How to weed this out of our society?"

 

In response to vgerheim...more often than not, this debrevity can start out by viewing porn - either through magazines, adult book stores, or the internet.  The "pleasure center" of the brain is activated and stimulated with the visual images.  It can progress from there to many different areas of behavior.  And make no mistake, this sexual perversion is a progressive "dis-ease" like any other addiction.  Soon the subject can no longer be satisfied by "normal sexual stimuli".  The subject needs more and more erotica to meet a level of excitement to be satisfied.  It all has to do with chemicals in the brain and the stimulation of other parts of the body that moves this sickness to perversion of all sorts.  No one believes it can progress to the deviant levels it can until it does.  And then unfortuately the subject has lost many valuable relationships, jobs, self-esteem and perhaps their very soul along the way.

 

The people that do these things need intervention and treatment.  I believe they can be rehabilitated, although it may take years of work and determined will on their part.

 

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October 17, 2007, 10:30 am PDT

To my knowledge....

.....child molesters were more often than not severely abused as children themselves....... Something that implies that a part of these children who are not exposed and helped, are possible predators when they grow up.

 

To a previous post here where it was said that this is a sick thing that only happens  in this time, I will say that is wrong. It is absolutely not new, and as long as it is never found out, the circle just continues. The difference in our age is that we talk about it publicly when it surfaces......

 

I also really wonder about one thing in this case: HOW COULD THE MOTHER NOT REALISE SOMETHING HAD HAPPENED TO THE DAUGHTER????? How can a child less than 3 years old be RAPED BY A GROWN MAN, and there is no blood or injury to that tiny little body? How is that possible? That fact really confuses me.........

 

 

 

 
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October 17, 2007, 10:50 am PDT

I just don't understand this...

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.....child molesters were more often than not severely abused as children themselves....... Something that implies that a part of these children who are not exposed and helped, are possible predators when they grow up.

 

To a previous post here where it was said that this is a sick thing that only happens  in this time, I will say that is wrong. It is absolutely not new, and as long as it is never found out, the circle just continues. The difference in our age is that we talk about it publicly when it surfaces......

 

I also really wonder about one thing in this case: HOW COULD THE MOTHER NOT REALISE SOMETHING HAD HAPPENED TO THE DAUGHTER????? How can a child less than 3 years old be RAPED BY A GROWN MAN, and there is no blood or injury to that tiny little body? How is that possible? That fact really confuses me.........

 

 

 

My personal vibe is that the Mom did know something. Regardless of working round the clock, how can one not see anything on a child that this has happened to?? The baby was barely 3. If the child showed no emotion when this was happening, either she was drugged or it happened before. The Mom had to have noticed something physical or the child would act out in some way.  The tape will always be out there; I feel awful for this child; she may not remember, but that tape is out there. She was robbed of her innocence and dignity. She was robbed of everything. Yes, part of me does blame the Mother. 
 
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October 17, 2007, 10:52 am PDT

Plea Deals....

I am glad they found him as quickly as they did.  Unfortunately in Nevada, our justice system fails the victims in this case.  Recently, a molester in Lyon County was able to make a plea deal
 "Charles Palecki, 67, entered the guilty plea on Monday and faces up to 20 years in prison when he is sentenced. In exchange for the plea, four counts of sexual assault with a child under 14 and two counts of lewdness with a minor under 14 will be dismissed." nevada appeal 
THEY HAD DNA EVIDENCE on this man!
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in the case involving my children:
http://www.nevadaappeal.com/article/20071009/NEWS/110090102

"At issue is the impact Hope's Washington conviction would have on any sentence in Douglas County or Carson City.

In a plea agreement that Hope has not signed, Douglas County would drop the enhancement of life in prison without possibility of parole if he pleaded guilty to one count of lewdness with a child under 14.


That means he could be eligible for parole in 10 years.

In an unsigned agreement that Lopez received from Carson City, in exchange for Hope's guilty plea to two of five felony charges, the other counts would be dropped along with the enhancement."

This serial Molester has
been in our system for 5 years now.  They are making "plea deals" with him in my case and to this day I have not been contacted by the DA's office in Carson City to discuss any details about my case.  Because he was let out while awaiting trial in my case....5 counts found in the preliminary.....he offended ....AGAIN.....one in a nearby town which his is awaiting decisions involving court...after being extradited from WA where he pleaded guilty in a molestation case (#3).  The courts in Douglas County and Carson City are juggling our lives around by allowing plea deals with a man that should have NO PLEA DEALS ALLOWED!


DR PHIL, PLEASE keep this man in the update shows to help keep focus on him so he does not get lost in the "justice system" .

To the Mom: 
Don't blame yourself.  Your daughter will grow up being knowing that when her mom found out....she did something to stop this man from doing further.  Be supportive, to her and YOURSELF!  You have many people on your side.

 
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October 17, 2007, 10:53 am PDT

10/17 Sexual Predators?

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I'm not sure a sane person will ever understand what drives an adult to take sexual pleasure with a child--to be sexually attracted to babies.  It's not something we can comprehend.  Whether it's a sickness/mental illness or just a disgusting perversion, these people must be held accountable.  Speaking as an adult survivor of child sexual abuse, I can say with the utmost confidence, that this poor child will be haunted by this her entire life.  I was assaulted at the same age, but it continued for 8 years.  I am now 53 and still battling the demons.  I pray that baby gets the help she needs.

I was abused as a child in many ways.PLEASE see this baby gets the right help for many years to come,She will need it.I,m 50 and  now seeking help.My story is long and I do not exprss my thoughts well.I said the words out loud a few weeks ago for the first time to my psychiatris.  

 
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October 17, 2007, 10:54 am PDT

I can't believe this monster

This monster shouldn't be allowed to breath fresh air!!!!! 
 
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October 17, 2007, 11:02 am PDT

10/17 Sexual Predators?

Im a mom of a nine year old and Im so  afraid of this happening to her that I am constently asking her if anyone has touched her in a way that makes he feel uncomfortable  to please tell me.I also tell her that I will always believe her even if it is a stranger or someone we know. I do this because you never know who is a predetor it can be anybody so you cant be too careful. I think these people are the scum of th earth. They cannot be rehabilitated they need to be put away for life for the safety of all our children
 

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