Topic : 10/17 Sexual Predators?

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Created on : Tuesday, October 16, 2007, 03:42:12 pm
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You've read the headlines, now watch the story about a crime so heinous some would rather see the suspect dead than in jail. The manhunt for the nation's most wanted alleged pedophile ended last night as fugitive Chester Stiles, accused in the videotaped molestation of a three-year-old girl, was arrested outside Las Vegas. Stiles had been wanted since October 5 on warrants issued for 21 felony charges in connection with acts seen on the videotape. Could you spot a child predator? Is your family at risk? Be there when Dr. Phil tells you the warning signs to watch for -- you'll be shocked! Plus, the reported victim's mother breaks her silence in an exclusive interview with Dr. Phil. Then, hear what Stiles' ex-girlfriend's son has to say, and what the victim remembers about the attack. If it's happening now, Dr. Phil is going to deal with it now! Don't miss this breaking news Dr. Phil Now. Join the discussion.

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October 17, 2007, 3:48 pm PDT

We Need to Fix It!!!

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Our legal is system is broken........Can anyone really fix it? The problems continue and prisons are over crowded.  We certainly aren't the ones in charge and the people we elect won't let us take charge. Well Dr. Phil......What's next?
Harsher laws...extermination for these people...don't think that they are all men because they are not!
 

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October 17, 2007, 3:48 pm PDT

Trust no one ...so truthful

It is so true... trust no one ever. I was molested by a family member and for me it has been something I still to this day struggle with. This was my uncle; someone I thought loved and cared for me. But when he touched me in the wrong way for the first time I was, hurt, scared, confused. This happened to me from the age of seven until I was 11 or 12. I am now 43 and I still struggle to understand why. Why would this person hurt me like this? What did I do?

For so long now, I have wanted to confront this and I am still scared to. When you are violated in a sexual manner of any kind, you never get over it. It is always there, you can see a program and it makes all of the hurt, disgust, ANGER at this man run thru the child.

Once I had grown up, married and had my own children.....I would let no one near them. I felt I was the only one who could protect them. I would die for my children; they are the glue that holds me together. Now they are grown and all have moved out and I feel so many emotions...When they do not answer their phone, or not here when they say they will be by I have the worst anxiety attacks... So again trust no one it is sad that I  can't even trust a family member, family friends....I never would have been able to forgive myself. If I had been able to trust people (family or friends) and someone hurt them as I was.

 

 
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October 17, 2007, 3:54 pm PDT

10/17 sexual preddators

I have a lot to say, the first thing is about the little girl.they say she don't show sign's now? she don't remember now. what about the fact it did happen and it did not just go away. what about when she grow

up and sex is a part of her life. what happen when she remember.she and her mom need help now.

 
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October 17, 2007, 3:59 pm PDT

something needs to be done.

 

  Why does it seem like there are more and more child molesters in the world today?  Are they multiplying or has this always been a sick and twisted human trait that we just didn't talk about?     Something needs to be done, molesters need to be kept in jail away from children for the rest of their lives, but I would rather see them get the death penalty.

 

   I know a man who molested his step-daughter for 10 years,  starting when she was 5,  she went to the police when she was 15  and he was finally arrested.  He was given 5 measly years in jail.  Now he is out and I am sure he is looking or has already found his next victim. 

 

 

 
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October 17, 2007, 4:02 pm PDT

Male vs. Female

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Without wanting to make light of what happened..

why do you discriminate and claim that women never do this?

 

Recently, in Belgium, a woman tennis teacher was arrested for seducing a 13 year old in a lesbian relationship. And, im thinking that this is a tip of the proverbial iceberg.

 

So, please, dont insinuate that women never do this.

Idiots, criminals and evil people are not limited to one race, gender, religion or ideology - sadly.

True- there are female pedophiles as well.  However, in vgerheim's defense I have to say , the reason society (me included) "limits" the title to most males is because it is far more prevalent in them than females.  Yes, there is the occassional and very inappropriate teacher/student realationship but I don't see that on the news as much as I see skangy male child molesters.  Sad but true! 
 
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October 17, 2007, 4:11 pm PDT

Our Judical System is failing

Your Honor,

One of the most sacred principles in the American Criminal Justice System is the "Presumption of Innocence," holding that a defendant is innocent until proven guilty, and that the prosecution must prove "beyond a reasonable doubt" every element of a crime charged. The criminal justice system rest on this premise, that it is better to release ten guilty people rather than convict one innocent person. The system is very much designed to prevent the government from wrongly taking away a persons liberty.

Yet in today’s society, we are faced with the media telling us about our children being sexually assaulted on an almost daily basis. We, as parents, must do whatever it takes to protect our children! When you read the paper or watch the news, and a child has been molested, the first thing people often think is, "that person is guilty! No trial is needed." The news media seemingly declared Robert guilty upon arrest. The day Robert  was found guilty of these charges was another day our judicial system failed!

  

The jurors, persons from our society, found Robert guilty without looking at the only reliable evidence presented in the case, the medical evidence. The jury told the DA and Mr. Smith, Roberts attorney, that they based their verdicts on the testimony of two girls and did not look at the physical evidence. Yet, this medical evidence clearly shows that Robert did not sexually assault these girls. Furthermore, the two do not show any signs of emotional trauma that is associated with being a victim of sexual abuse at a young age.

How can an unbiased, rational jury do this? A mans life is at stake! Again, the physical evidence is the only reliable, unimpeachable evidence presented in such a case. How can it be ignored when a person is facing life in prison? The medical evidence shows that Robert did not sexually assault these girls. The DA presented pictures of their hymens. These pictures show both girls with intact hymens. I have attached pictures from a Pediatrics and Adolescent Gynecology medical book. Please take a moment and compare the two in the case file with the copy attached. If a grown man penetrates a little girl or a girl at any age, over 100 to 200 or more times in less than a year, as alleged, it would be physically impossible to have a hymen that looks like the ones presented in this case. This alone would prove Robert did not commit these heinous crimes. Sir, in light of such evidence, how could a jury return a verdict of guilty and put Robert in prison?

 

 The physical evidence should be enough, but other statements made by each girl would put doubt in the mind of any reasonable person. When B was cross-examined and asked what time of day it was that Robert would do this, she repeatedly said, "it was daytime." They left for Georgia in April 2002, so between October 2001 and April 2002 it was Daylight Savings Time. Robert was at work until after 5pm.

In addition, B said, "I was told I was raped," not, "I was raped," or a description of what she remembers, but she was told this happened to her. The truth came out when both girls said, "I did not bleed." It was obvious no one said to B that when a six year old is being fully penetrated in the vagina and r over 100 times, that it is inevitable there will be blood. J, too, stated that she was penetrated in the vagina and at times in the r, "every day or every other day" for almost a year, making it as many times as 200 or more being fully penetrated, and she stated that she did not bleed. The mothers of each girl also testified they had no idea anything was wrong, and they never saw any blood on their underwear. The girls never mentioned a word to anyone until one of the children did not want to return to California and the other girl had a bad dream. If this is not enough to put reasonable doubt in a reasonable, unbiased persons mind, let me continue with other facts presented during the trial.

 

 The taped interview played for the jurors during the trial of J and Detective W was suggestive and leading. The first thing she said during the initial interview was, (verbatim) "I don’t think actual sex, like, happened." Detective W ignored the statement, and continued interviewing J. J had nothing spontaneous to say about her experience because it never happened and she did not know what to say. So, Detective W took it upon himself to suggest the positions that occurred, and J only had to say "yes he did that too" and "oh, yeah that was done." She even used a word the detective used first on the tape, the word ‘spooning.’ That was in the first sentence out of her mouth at the preliminary hearing. J said, "We were spooning." Your Honor, I have to ask how many fifteen year olds use the word spooning? Furthermore, as I said, the detective used the word first. This clearly shows how a child can be lead in a testimony, in a court of law, even though sworn to tell the truth. The incident when Robert and J went to pick up the compact discs from the apartment, referred to first in the preliminary hearing she said, "Robert was behind me and inserted his p all the way in." At the trial she said, "Robert was on top of me." All of these small details add up to the conclusion that these events never happened.

Your honor, please, I am begging you, as you have the final say in this case, you are the only one who can correct this verdict. Your decision can correct the injustice that has happened to an innocent man. Robert is not capable of harming anyone, especially a child! If you take a little time sir, and talk to Robert, you will know he is a caring and loving person who could not do such a heinous crime. Sending Robert to prison is wrong. Your Honor, if this were a person close to you in the same position Robert is in, would you look at the case differently?

Were the things presented to the jury proof ‘beyond a reasonable doubt’ of a mans condemnation? Sir, you have the final decision and Robert’s life; it is in your hands. I am begging you to overturn the jury’s verdicts. It may not make you the most popular judge in the public’s view, but it will make you the fairest and most honest judge in San Diego County. Thank you for your time spent specifically for Roberts’ case.

On behalf of the Family,

Respectfully,

Stephanie

 
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October 17, 2007, 4:35 pm PDT

Sometimes its in your family

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The things we hear on the news sicken me. How can anyone do such terrible things to an innocent child? But on the other hand we need to make sure that these things are true about this person. These accusations can ruin a person's life forever . I know of men that had their ex wives tell their children to lie and say that they were molested by their fathers so they can keep them from seeing the child and right now my grandson is going though the same thing with a stepchild.  I love my grandchildren so much i would probably be in jail right now if someone violated them but i would want to be sure before i would see someone go though all that and be innocent.
Sometimes it's in your own family and if you've held this secret for 34 years and even your own mother doesn't know, maybe it's better left unsaid becuase now the only person who will ever be affected by this is you.  Not your daughter because you've made sure that nothing like that ever happened to her in her life.
 
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October 17, 2007, 4:37 pm PDT

More complex than most think!

 Molestation is a horrible crime. It involves innocent children the majority of the time and emotions are run very bitter towards the sex offender with good reason. I wonder if anyone actually is aware all the statistics surrounding this epidemic? It amazes me how much the media leaves out or will flat out refuse to report. Is it fear it will take away from the importance of the undisputed cases? What I am talking about is the amount of cases that are reported that are actually not child abuse cases. Just as there seems to be an epidemic of molestation, there is also a large number of this offense being used in divorce to gain leverage and custody. What is even more horrible is that the children and the accused spouse go through unimaginable hardships and pain. Mentally both may never recover. Financially, if you don't have $100,000 or more for your defense. You might as well plea no contest. Because of the emotion surrounding this issue, almost everyone judges and convicts the accused, before due process. These cases are always with out DNA evidence, or other crucial evidence to prove without a doubt the event actually occurred. The accusing spouse or in-law's get off scott free even in the event the case is dropped. The focus by officials is always on the accused. Once accused the individual will be watched and suspected for life. To prove malice takes years if ever. By that time the kids are grown and coached to a point they don't know what is real. Politicians and the media jump on the band wagon, because it means votes and money. At what point do you infringe on the innocent to get the guilty? No longer is the old quote from years past: "It is better to let ten go free than to wrongly imprison one innocent person." Today it seems to be the opposite.
 
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October 17, 2007, 4:38 pm PDT

do not make any comment about the mother of the child

I have a good reason to say so. Because I am one of them. 25 years.
My mother does not know and does not suspect. If I would tell, it would destroy more families. Therefore, some crimes stay unpunished. Mothers may never know and never see. However, there was one thing mentioned just right about people that do such a thing; they are usually close. They were friends. A child can make things to appear normal, even a small child. I was not caught or asked when I was just running away from home till I hit some factorys wall, it was tall and long, no where to run anymore. I came back...
   

So, ones who feel eager to blame the mother, please stop.
Some of you may feel like judging me for not coming forward with my case. Don't. I chose to forgive. The pain is a veavy burden.
Childs fault was that the child happened to be there at that moment in time. Children do not know and do not suspect it coming.   

As for that guy, one of them of the streets is a very good thing. I hope he will never come back on probation.
   

Could I be helped then. Possible, the time was different so.... now all you can do is make your children to trust you unconditionally no matter what, then you may have a chance to releave some of their pain or prevent the whole thing.


   

   

 

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October 17, 2007, 4:53 pm PDT

Are you one of theose innocents?

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amen!   lawyers, judges and child protective services need to be more concerned about these sick people instead of going after innocent people!
In my 30 years in law enforcement, investigating sexual assaults and working with child protective services, there have been relatively few innocent people investigated. Many people would like to categorize violations on a continuum from very bad to a little bad but wrong is wrong no matter what the violation is. The eye is focused in a particular persons direction because someone makes a report. Don't blame the professionals for doing their jobs. I'm sure they'd all like to only investigate or handle  the most heinous cases but the truth is intervention also needs to be focused on the little problems before they become bigger.
 

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