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(Original Air Date: 10/24/07Are you falling in love with all the wrong people? Dr. Phil's guests are entangled in affairs so taboo, one man could land himself in jail! Emily and Brandon have been married for two-and-a-half years, and Emily was shocked to learn that her husband had sex with a 15-year-old — twice. Brandon, 25, is now facing two felony charges for having intercourse with a minor, and blames his actions on a porn addiction. Does he really have a disorder, or is he just building a defense for his potential arrest? Then, Debbie, 51, says she has no shame about posing as a younger woman online and meeting attractive men. Her adult children, Michelle and Nathan, say her behavior is not only humiliating, but it's also very dangerous. Why did Debbie fake her own death? Is it possible for her to stop this behavior, or should her children just mind their own business? Tell us what you think.


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June 12, 2008, 2:50 pm CDT

06/03 Controversial Love Affairs

Quote From: stress1967

No matter how that girl dressed or how she paraded, he had no right to touch her!!!!  This really jerks my chain because he was the adult and he knew better!!!!!   YOU CAN'T BLAME THE CHILD!!!  Adult women parade around in bars half naked and then yell rape so you have to help the children and not blame them.  If they are dressing that way then apparently their parents aren't payin attention but, DON"T BLAME A  CHILD FOR AN ADULTS ACTIONS.!!!!!!!!!!

THANK U TO THE ONE WHO SAID DONT BLAME A CHILD FOR AND ADULTS ACTIONS U ARE SO RIGHT AND THESE WORLD IS SICK I JUST SOME THAT WAS SAYING WHAT ABOUT OUR GRANDMA AND GRANDPA.. DO WE THINK THEY WAS RAPER YES I DO.. BECOUSE 9 OUT 10 THEM RAPED THERE KIDS BACK THEN AND 7 OUT 10 THEM WIFE KNOW IT WAS HAPPEN AND LOOKED THE OTHER WAY..WHY? MABE BECOUSE THEY MARRIED SO YOUNG THEY DID KNOW WHAT TO DO THEM SELF. MABE BECOUSE IT WAS DONE TO THEM AND THEY WAS LOST IN WHAT TO DO.. PEOPLE LET THING LIKE THAT GO BACK THEN.. SO PEOPLE DID NOT TALK ABOUT IT... WE KNOW BETTER TODAY THEM OF US WHO LIVED THOUGH IT KNOWS HOW MUCH IT HAS HURT US.. BEING DONE THAT WAY.. AND UR RIGHT THE AFULTS KNOW BETTER NOT THE CHILD THERE STILL LORNING  THESE IS PORT MY STORY AND U MAY READ IT ALLREADY BUT I WONT IT OUT THERE I WONT PEOPLE TO KNOW HOW THESE HURT THESE KIDS... / US KIS...... SOMEONE SOMEWHERE NEED TO PUT A STOP TO THESE... AND STOP LETTING THEM OFF  WITH A POOR BABY.. IT WAS NOT UR FOLT YES IT WAS.. THEY KNOW HAVING SEX WITH A MINTER IS NOT OK... AND CAN LEAD THEM TO JAIL..BUT HA WHAT THEY HAVE TO LOSE THEY GET THERE THRILL AND THEN GO AWAY FOR A LITTLE WAIL CRY WITH HOW SICK THEY ARE AND THEY NEED HELP BEFOR WE KNOW IT TAX PAYER ARE PAYING FOR THEM TO HAVE IT MADE.. PUT AWAY WITH EVER THING HANDED TO THEM THEN LET BACK ON THE STREET AND HURT OTHER .(BUT MOST LORN THE FIRST TIME AND END UP GETTING AWAY WITH IT THE REST THERE LIFE...)WHY TAX PAYER STILL TAKE CARE WHAT THEY DID BECOUSE THEN U HAVE PEOPLE LIKE ME AND MENY OTHER WHO NEED HELP GETTING THEM SELF BACK ON TRAKE ... SO TELL ME WHAT MAKE IT OK.. NOW.. THANK U

my husband allso rape he raped my 16 year old doughter with a lorning diss

DR PHIL

 

 I PRAY U URSELF GETS TO READ THESE MY HUSBAND OF 6 YEARS IS IN PRISON FOR ABOUT THE SAME THING.. ONLY THING IS IT WAS HIS 16 YAER OLD STEP DOUGHT THAT HE HAS RASED AND THE ONLY DADDY SHE EVER REALLY KNOW SHE WAS LIKE 9 WHEN WE GOT TOGATHER..WELL FROM WHAT I GET HE DID NOT START MASSING WITH HER UNTILL THE LAST FEW MOUTH OF 2007 I FOUND OUT ABOUT ALL OF IT ON NEW YEARS EVE GOING INTO NEW YEARS.. SHE CAME AND TOLD ME ABOUT THAT NIGHT HE WAS ALLREADY IN BED HE RAPED HER  THE FOR THE FIRST TIME IN HIS PICK UP TRUCK ON THE SIDE THE ROAD... TOOK HER FIRST TIME AWAY FROM HER SHE WAS NOT WILLING BUT TO SCARED TO REALLY FIGHT..and SHE WAS AFREAD TO TELL ME BUT THEN HE DID AGAIN ON NEW YEAR EVE HERE IN OUR HOME.. WHY I WAS OUT SHOPING FOR FOOD AND PAYING A BILL HE SENT ME TO DO... WITH MY OTHER TWO KIDS HIS SON AND THREE OTHER BABY WE TOOK IN TO HELP UNTILL THERE MORTHER COULD GET ON HER FEET...WE WAS NOT A FAMILY WHO WAS INTO DURG DRINKING PARTING WE WAS WHAT I THOUGHT A FAMILY BASE FAMLY AND I NEVER IN MY WILDEST DREAM WOULD HAVE THOUGH HE WOULD DID ANYTHING LIKE THAT... HE WAS GETTING TO THE POINT WHERE HE WAS RAPING ME.... BUT I WAS LOST IN WHAT WAS RIGHT AND WRONG IN IT ALL .. IM LORNING I WAS LOST IN IT BACOUSE MY PAST... BUT ANYWAY THEY FIRST TOLD US IT HE WOULD BE LOOKING AT 20 TO 30 YEARS THEN THEY SAID BEING HE SAYING HE DID IT AND HE WILLING TO TAKE A PLEDE THAT HE WELL GET 8 YEARS AT 100% WELL SHE DID NOT GET A LAWER ARE ANYTHING AT ALL... I HAD TO TALK TO HIM TO REALLY KINDA FIND OUT WHAT WAS GOING ON..BEFOR I KNOW IT THEY MOVE IS COURT DATE.. UP THEY DID NOT TELL ME UNTILL THE AFTER NOON BEFOR AND THEY SENT IT TO ANTHER TOWN..I WAS SO SHOKE UP I GOT MIX UP WHAT TOWN IT WAS IN.. AND I WENT TO THE WORNG PLACE BY THE TIME I IFIGER IT OUT.. IT WAS TO LATE THE COURT TIME WAS PASS.. ANYWAY HE GOT 8 YEAR AT 30% AND SHE ALL HAS A LORNING DISB WITCH MEAN IN HE MINE AS LORNING GOES AND WHAT SHE DOES MEAN EVEN THOU SHE IS 16 IN HER LORN STAGE IN HER LIFE SHE MORE LIKE A 13 14 YEAR OLD.. ON TOP OF WHEN HE STARTED OUT JUST TOUCHING SHE WAS 15 ......AND U KNOW IT MAKE ME SO  MADE... BECOUSE TO HEAR MY HUSBAND TALK HE SOUND JUST LIKE THESE CREEP... IT SAID HOW THE LAW WORKS HE HAD A 200.000 $ BOND ON HIM THAT HOW MUCH THEY DROP WHAT THEY CHARGE HIM WITH.. I HAVE A HARD TIME SPELLING AS U CAN SEE.. ARE I WOULD PUT WHAT HE HAD ON HIM AND WHAT HE GOT..IT 2O MOUTH HE WELL COME UP FOR PROLL AND I THINK THAT WORNG ,AND THEY TELL ME WELL MOST DONT GET IT THE FIRST ITME UP FOR A SEX COURGE HE WELL GET OUT U WATCH AND SEE.... PLEASE DO SOMTHING TO OPEN THE PUBLIC EYES TO ALL THESE.. THESE CRAP I HAVE A SEX WHAT EVER IS JUST THAT..... THERE TO MENY WEMAN TO WELLING TO GIVE IT UP. MAN MY HASBAND HAD ME FOR A WIFE AND IF I DID NOT GIVE IT WHEN HE WONTED IT HE TOOK IT..SO HE WAS NOT DOING WITH OUT ON TOP HE HAD A GIRL ON THE SIDE HE STARTED MASS WITH WHEN SHE WAS 18 HE SWEAR HE NEVER WAS WITH HER I DONT BELEAVE THAT...THANKU FOR LETTINGME GET THESE OUT AND I PRAY THAT MAN HANG... AND I WISH MY HUSBAND WOULD.. IM LIKE THE OTHER LADY I DO STILL LOVE HIM VERY MUCH FOR THE MAN I FALL IN LOVE WITH.. BUT IM SORRY LOVE ARE NOT WHAT HE DID WAS VERY WORNG AND MY DOUGHT WELL LIVE WITH THESE FOR THE REST HER LIFE... AND HE NEED TO PAY LOVE ARE NO LOVE..

 

 
June 16, 2008, 11:34 pm CDT

Not Sure of Your Point??

Quote From: deraj26

Unfortunately, when you call this guy a rapist, there is probably more than a 50% chance you are calling your own grandparents rapist.  Are you the grandchild of a rapist?  My grandmother was between 14 and 20 when she gave birth to my aunts, uncles and mother, so how dare you accuse my grandfather of being a rapist.  Granted they were married, their parents consented, and it was more commonplace.  Just because it's law, doesn't mean it's wrong.  It depends on the circumstances.

 

So Dr. Phil, what you're telling me is that once children turn 18, they are magically capable of making desicions.  WOW!  "They don't understand the potentially, harmful consequences."  Maybe you should have to be 40 before getting a credit card.  That's what I consider rape.  YOU CANNOT BLAME THE CHILD!  But you can blame a child for murder and sentence them to death!?!?!  It's either one way or the other, people. 

 

Let's just "get real" and stop trying to argue that it's wrong.  It's illegal because parents don't want their precious daughters having sex with perverted, old men  and I don't either.  So, in conclusion, I'm glad it's illegal, but don't ruin someone's life over it and label them as a rapist.

  • I don't have a legal degree, but I don't believe any laws in this country are applied retroactively, therefore, any grandparent/great grandparent etc. who married young is safe from being charged with a statutory rape charge.  Any one with an ounce of common sense understands that, in those times, with a lower life expectancy than we now enjoy, marriage and family needed to come sooner.  I hope you notice that we are talking about marriages and families here, not some 25 year old guy having sex with a teenager for fun behind his wife's back. 
  • No child becomes an adult at 18.  Does a 16 year old understand the consequences of committing murder, but not the consequences of having sex??? - I don't know.  I assume by your post that you think children should have all the responsibilities of adults and all of the consequences (except for credit card responsibility which I assume you think should be beyond everyone's responsibility).  May I ask, at what point is a child able to agree legally to sex??????  You pick out the cut off point.  You decide.  Is 3 too young?  How about 6??  What if the child tries to fight the adult off?  Is that more of a "rape" to you than the interest rate on your Visa card?
  • So, by your logic, there is no statutory rape and we should stop "trying" to argue that "it" (sex between a child and an adult) is wrong.  I will never in this lifetime stop making that argument and trying to defend children against people who see no problem with raping children.
 
June 18, 2008, 8:54 pm CDT

well allow me to retort...

Quote From: vasharps

  • I don't have a legal degree, but I don't believe any laws in this country are applied retroactively, therefore, any grandparent/great grandparent etc. who married young is safe from being charged with a statutory rape charge.  Any one with an ounce of common sense understands that, in those times, with a lower life expectancy than we now enjoy, marriage and family needed to come sooner.  I hope you notice that we are talking about marriages and families here, not some 25 year old guy having sex with a teenager for fun behind his wife's back. 
  • No child becomes an adult at 18.  Does a 16 year old understand the consequences of committing murder, but not the consequences of having sex??? - I don't know.  I assume by your post that you think children should have all the responsibilities of adults and all of the consequences (except for credit card responsibility which I assume you think should be beyond everyone's responsibility).  May I ask, at what point is a child able to agree legally to sex??????  You pick out the cut off point.  You decide.  Is 3 too young?  How about 6??  What if the child tries to fight the adult off?  Is that more of a "rape" to you than the interest rate on your Visa card?
  • So, by your logic, there is no statutory rape and we should stop "trying" to argue that "it" (sex between a child and an adult) is wrong.  I will never in this lifetime stop making that argument and trying to defend children against people who see no problem with raping children.

"ounce of comon sense" - how dare you sir!

 

"than we now enjoy" -  with presidents like bush, that's debatable

 

"i hope you notice" -  i did, and i also said something about circumstances

 

"i don't know" -  that's a problem

 

"all the responsiblities" -  no

 

"all of the consequences" - no, but there should be some

 

"child tries to fight" -  good lord man

 

"no statutory rape" - yes there should

 

Should an 18 year old having sex with a 17 year old be put on the sexual predator's list?  Hopefully, you would say no.  Was that the situation?  No, but there is a point to be made.  The punishment should fit the crime in that the greater the age separation, the greater the consequences, and at a certain point it just becomes plain rape, child molestation, or whatever you call it.  Alls I'm saying is that there is a grey area and there are a few people getting their lives railroaded just for simplicities sake. 

 

 

 
July 2, 2008, 7:07 pm CDT

SICK

THIS CHILD IS GOING TO FEEL REAL STUPID WHEN THEY GROW UP AND LOOK BACK BECAUSE THIS GUY IS SICK.  HE BLAMES IT ON A DISORDER SO HE DOESN'T HAVE TO FACE HIS ACTIONS AND HE IS STUPID.  HE IS BALD AND DUMB, POOR YOUNG GIRL.  AND THE MOM NEEDS TO GET HER YOUNG DAUGHTER OUT OF THE HOUSE BEFORE HE GOES REAL YOUNG.
 
July 2, 2008, 7:14 pm CDT

FOLLOW UP

I BELIEVE THIS WOULD BE THE MOST IMPORTANT FOLLOW UP SHOW.  I WISH YOU WOULD DO ONE ONE THIS!!!  MOST OF THE TIME DR PHIL SAYS HE IS HELPING THESE PEOPLE SO THERE SHOULD BE SOMEONE WHO KNOWS WHAT IS GOING ON.  THERE SHOULD BE A LINK ON THIS SITE TELLING WHAT IS UP WITH EACH PAST GUEST.  PLEASE REPLY DR. PHIL
 
July 2, 2008, 10:29 pm CDT

06/03 Controversial Love Affairs

Quote From: deraj26

"ounce of comon sense" - how dare you sir!

 

"than we now enjoy" -  with presidents like bush, that's debatable

 

"i hope you notice" -  i did, and i also said something about circumstances

 

"i don't know" -  that's a problem

 

"all the responsiblities" -  no

 

"all of the consequences" - no, but there should be some

 

"child tries to fight" -  good lord man

 

"no statutory rape" - yes there should

 

Should an 18 year old having sex with a 17 year old be put on the sexual predator's list?  Hopefully, you would say no.  Was that the situation?  No, but there is a point to be made.  The punishment should fit the crime in that the greater the age separation, the greater the consequences, and at a certain point it just becomes plain rape, child molestation, or whatever you call it.  Alls I'm saying is that there is a grey area and there are a few people getting their lives railroaded just for simplicities sake. 

 

 

Statutory Rape laws, at least in Wyoming, spell out very clearly... if they are both 15 or under, they cannot give permission to have sex.  If one is 16 and the other is under 16 then the 16 yearold can find himself or herself in a little trouble.  16 is the age of consent in Wyoming, but only with people who are no more then 4 years older.  So say a 16 year old and a 17 year old have sex.. or a 17 year old and 18 year old, then no you can't be charged with statutory rape.  If a 18 year old and a 16 year old have sex, no they can't be charged, but if a 21 year old and a 16 year old have sex, then it is possible, if parents push it, to be charged with statutory rape.  At any age, adult or teen... if one says No and the other won't stop, it is rape.  It doesn't matter how far a woman lets a man go, as soon as no is spoken, it should stop.  Men who don't listen to the word "no" can end up on the sexual offenders list right along with the 21 year old who has sex with a 16 year old... or a 38 year old having sex with a 17 year old or younger.
 
July 2, 2008, 10:44 pm CDT

06/03 Controversial Love Affairs

Quote From: deraj26

Unfortunately, when you call this guy a rapist, there is probably more than a 50% chance you are calling your own grandparents rapist.  Are you the grandchild of a rapist?  My grandmother was between 14 and 20 when she gave birth to my aunts, uncles and mother, so how dare you accuse my grandfather of being a rapist.  Granted they were married, their parents consented, and it was more commonplace.  Just because it's law, doesn't mean it's wrong.  It depends on the circumstances.

 

So Dr. Phil, what you're telling me is that once children turn 18, they are magically capable of making desicions.  WOW!  "They don't understand the potentially, harmful consequences."  Maybe you should have to be 40 before getting a credit card.  That's what I consider rape.  YOU CANNOT BLAME THE CHILD!  But you can blame a child for murder and sentence them to death!?!?!  It's either one way or the other, people. 

 

Let's just "get real" and stop trying to argue that it's wrong.  It's illegal because parents don't want their precious daughters having sex with perverted, old men  and I don't either.  So, in conclusion, I'm glad it's illegal, but don't ruin someone's life over it and label them as a rapist.

Back when our grandparents were young, even my parents, women did get married before the age of 18 and it wasn't looked down upon.  They married young, had kids young, warned their children not to marry young and have kids young.  They also had to have parents permission to marry.  If they were pregnant before they were married, they were looked down upon.  If they divorice, it was looked down upon, even if there was abuse.  Women lived their lives for their families, most didn't work outside the home, most were controlled by the husband to a point.  I do not know how old you are but I was born in 1960 and I remember a whole different world then we have now.  Women stayed with husbands because they couldn't afford to raise children on their own.  I bet many wished they would have waited until they were older and had a college education.  At times I wish we were more like it was back then when kids came home from school and their moms were waiting at home.  Where baking cookies was something we got to do with our moms and not have to worry about how bad they were.  Where if we got into trouble at school, we would be in so much more trouble at home.  Where people treated their loved ones with respect and husbands didn't call their wives negitive names and the kids wouldn't dare call their moms and dads or teachers or any authority figure anything disrespectful. Oh ya, and you would never have had to be "raped" by a credit card company because they didn't have credit cards back then! 

 

Speaking of getting real... how does a credit card company "rape" you?  You charge purchases to them and if you over charge on them they make mega bucks off you.  You agreed to this when you took out a credit card and you agreed to this when you didn't pay off that debt right away.  Can't rape the willing, and you were willing to spend.  Oh by the way.. you have to be 18 to have a credit card in your own name, you can't go into any contract without being 18. 

 
July 2, 2008, 11:12 pm CDT

06/03 Controversial Love Affairs

Quote From: djmom5

THANK U TO THE ONE WHO SAID DONT BLAME A CHILD FOR AND ADULTS ACTIONS U ARE SO RIGHT AND THESE WORLD IS SICK I JUST SOME THAT WAS SAYING WHAT ABOUT OUR GRANDMA AND GRANDPA.. DO WE THINK THEY WAS RAPER YES I DO.. BECOUSE 9 OUT 10 THEM RAPED THERE KIDS BACK THEN AND 7 OUT 10 THEM WIFE KNOW IT WAS HAPPEN AND LOOKED THE OTHER WAY..WHY? MABE BECOUSE THEY MARRIED SO YOUNG THEY DID KNOW WHAT TO DO THEM SELF. MABE BECOUSE IT WAS DONE TO THEM AND THEY WAS LOST IN WHAT TO DO.. PEOPLE LET THING LIKE THAT GO BACK THEN.. SO PEOPLE DID NOT TALK ABOUT IT... WE KNOW BETTER TODAY THEM OF US WHO LIVED THOUGH IT KNOWS HOW MUCH IT HAS HURT US.. BEING DONE THAT WAY.. AND UR RIGHT THE AFULTS KNOW BETTER NOT THE CHILD THERE STILL LORNING  THESE IS PORT MY STORY AND U MAY READ IT ALLREADY BUT I WONT IT OUT THERE I WONT PEOPLE TO KNOW HOW THESE HURT THESE KIDS... / US KIS...... SOMEONE SOMEWHERE NEED TO PUT A STOP TO THESE... AND STOP LETTING THEM OFF  WITH A POOR BABY.. IT WAS NOT UR FOLT YES IT WAS.. THEY KNOW HAVING SEX WITH A MINTER IS NOT OK... AND CAN LEAD THEM TO JAIL..BUT HA WHAT THEY HAVE TO LOSE THEY GET THERE THRILL AND THEN GO AWAY FOR A LITTLE WAIL CRY WITH HOW SICK THEY ARE AND THEY NEED HELP BEFOR WE KNOW IT TAX PAYER ARE PAYING FOR THEM TO HAVE IT MADE.. PUT AWAY WITH EVER THING HANDED TO THEM THEN LET BACK ON THE STREET AND HURT OTHER .(BUT MOST LORN THE FIRST TIME AND END UP GETTING AWAY WITH IT THE REST THERE LIFE...)WHY TAX PAYER STILL TAKE CARE WHAT THEY DID BECOUSE THEN U HAVE PEOPLE LIKE ME AND MENY OTHER WHO NEED HELP GETTING THEM SELF BACK ON TRAKE ... SO TELL ME WHAT MAKE IT OK.. NOW.. THANK U

my husband allso rape he raped my 16 year old doughter with a lorning diss

DR PHIL

 

 I PRAY U URSELF GETS TO READ THESE MY HUSBAND OF 6 YEARS IS IN PRISON FOR ABOUT THE SAME THING.. ONLY THING IS IT WAS HIS 16 YAER OLD STEP DOUGHT THAT HE HAS RASED AND THE ONLY DADDY SHE EVER REALLY KNOW SHE WAS LIKE 9 WHEN WE GOT TOGATHER..WELL FROM WHAT I GET HE DID NOT START MASSING WITH HER UNTILL THE LAST FEW MOUTH OF 2007 I FOUND OUT ABOUT ALL OF IT ON NEW YEARS EVE GOING INTO NEW YEARS.. SHE CAME AND TOLD ME ABOUT THAT NIGHT HE WAS ALLREADY IN BED HE RAPED HER  THE FOR THE FIRST TIME IN HIS PICK UP TRUCK ON THE SIDE THE ROAD... TOOK HER FIRST TIME AWAY FROM HER SHE WAS NOT WILLING BUT TO SCARED TO REALLY FIGHT..and SHE WAS AFREAD TO TELL ME BUT THEN HE DID AGAIN ON NEW YEAR EVE HERE IN OUR HOME.. WHY I WAS OUT SHOPING FOR FOOD AND PAYING A BILL HE SENT ME TO DO... WITH MY OTHER TWO KIDS HIS SON AND THREE OTHER BABY WE TOOK IN TO HELP UNTILL THERE MORTHER COULD GET ON HER FEET...WE WAS NOT A FAMILY WHO WAS INTO DURG DRINKING PARTING WE WAS WHAT I THOUGHT A FAMILY BASE FAMLY AND I NEVER IN MY WILDEST DREAM WOULD HAVE THOUGH HE WOULD DID ANYTHING LIKE THAT... HE WAS GETTING TO THE POINT WHERE HE WAS RAPING ME.... BUT I WAS LOST IN WHAT WAS RIGHT AND WRONG IN IT ALL .. IM LORNING I WAS LOST IN IT BACOUSE MY PAST... BUT ANYWAY THEY FIRST TOLD US IT HE WOULD BE LOOKING AT 20 TO 30 YEARS THEN THEY SAID BEING HE SAYING HE DID IT AND HE WILLING TO TAKE A PLEDE THAT HE WELL GET 8 YEARS AT 100% WELL SHE DID NOT GET A LAWER ARE ANYTHING AT ALL... I HAD TO TALK TO HIM TO REALLY KINDA FIND OUT WHAT WAS GOING ON..BEFOR I KNOW IT THEY MOVE IS COURT DATE.. UP THEY DID NOT TELL ME UNTILL THE AFTER NOON BEFOR AND THEY SENT IT TO ANTHER TOWN..I WAS SO SHOKE UP I GOT MIX UP WHAT TOWN IT WAS IN.. AND I WENT TO THE WORNG PLACE BY THE TIME I IFIGER IT OUT.. IT WAS TO LATE THE COURT TIME WAS PASS.. ANYWAY HE GOT 8 YEAR AT 30% AND SHE ALL HAS A LORNING DISB WITCH MEAN IN HE MINE AS LORNING GOES AND WHAT SHE DOES MEAN EVEN THOU SHE IS 16 IN HER LORN STAGE IN HER LIFE SHE MORE LIKE A 13 14 YEAR OLD.. ON TOP OF WHEN HE STARTED OUT JUST TOUCHING SHE WAS 15 ......AND U KNOW IT MAKE ME SO  MADE... BECOUSE TO HEAR MY HUSBAND TALK HE SOUND JUST LIKE THESE CREEP... IT SAID HOW THE LAW WORKS HE HAD A 200.000 $ BOND ON HIM THAT HOW MUCH THEY DROP WHAT THEY CHARGE HIM WITH.. I HAVE A HARD TIME SPELLING AS U CAN SEE.. ARE I WOULD PUT WHAT HE HAD ON HIM AND WHAT HE GOT..IT 2O MOUTH HE WELL COME UP FOR PROLL AND I THINK THAT WORNG ,AND THEY TELL ME WELL MOST DONT GET IT THE FIRST ITME UP FOR A SEX COURGE HE WELL GET OUT U WATCH AND SEE.... PLEASE DO SOMTHING TO OPEN THE PUBLIC EYES TO ALL THESE.. THESE CRAP I HAVE A SEX WHAT EVER IS JUST THAT..... THERE TO MENY WEMAN TO WELLING TO GIVE IT UP. MAN MY HASBAND HAD ME FOR A WIFE AND IF I DID NOT GIVE IT WHEN HE WONTED IT HE TOOK IT..SO HE WAS NOT DOING WITH OUT ON TOP HE HAD A GIRL ON THE SIDE HE STARTED MASS WITH WHEN SHE WAS 18 HE SWEAR HE NEVER WAS WITH HER I DONT BELEAVE THAT...THANKU FOR LETTINGME GET THESE OUT AND I PRAY THAT MAN HANG... AND I WISH MY HUSBAND WOULD.. IM LIKE THE OTHER LADY I DO STILL LOVE HIM VERY MUCH FOR THE MAN I FALL IN LOVE WITH.. BUT IM SORRY LOVE ARE NOT WHAT HE DID WAS VERY WORNG AND MY DOUGHT WELL LIVE WITH THESE FOR THE REST HER LIFE... AND HE NEED TO PAY LOVE ARE NO LOVE..

 

First off, let me say I am sorry for what happened to your daughter.  Any man who would do that to a child should hang like you say.  I believe he will pay for it dearly when he meets his maker.  Good for you for having the courage to support her and file charges against him.

 

THANK U TO THE ONE WHO SAID DONT BLAME A CHILD FOR AND ADULTS ACTIONS U ARE SO RIGHT AND THESE WORLD IS SICK I JUST SOME THAT WAS SAYING WHAT ABOUT OUR GRANDMA AND GRANDPA.. DO WE THINK THEY WAS RAPER YES I DO.. BECOUSE 9 OUT 10 THEM RAPED THERE KIDS BACK THEN AND 7 OUT 10 THEM WIFE KNOW IT WAS HAPPEN AND LOOKED THE OTHER WAY..

 

I am curious on where you got your information that 9 out of 10 fathers raped their kids back then?  I have a large family and it never happened in our family.  All my friends had big families and it never happened in their families.  I know it happened in some families.  I know of a couple families in town it happened to while we were growing up but 9 out of 10?  I don't believe that many did that.  There seems to be more and more going on now with it then there ever was when I was young.  I think when people stop respecting each other, more bad things happen.  I think that when you have teens and young kids sexualized with the clothing industry and in the media and in the music business, mixed with the lack of compassion people have for each other, with the lack of God in our lives, we see so much more horrible injustices committed against our children and young teens. 

 

 

 
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