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December 25, 2007, 5:43 pm PST
Child support
I have seen both sides of child support, from the mom's point of view to the dads. My take on child support is this, I have heard man say they don't want to pay child support because it is like having a bill. I have seen lesibian try to inforce child support because they 'are not' with the father, with out realizing that they never gave the father a chance. But how ironic, that they could sleep with the man, but they don't want him in the picture after the fact, and yet as lesibians, they still keep sleeping with men. I have seen lesbians get aboptions, than got back to being lesibian. What's up with that? I feel sorry for the men who have children in this experience, but it takes the true nature out of being a family or a father for that matter. In other cases, I think women who have babies at the expense of someones elses marriage, should never pay child support, unless he gets a dirvorce and marrys that woman. And in fact. after that, the woman that they wrong should get twice or three times the normal child support, for the anguish suffered, knowing that you should not start families with women you don't intend to stay with, especially if you planned to have a family with her. The system needs to grab hold of fornication and adultery and this undercover highway robbery of lesbians getting over on men for their seeds, thats what they have egg fertility clients for. Hit them, where it hurts-- In the pocket. Every year Judge Mabeline has a dinner for fathers on Father's Day, which is one of my favorite holidays, not because I see myself as a bad mom, but because Father's Day is so unrated! If you give the attitude that your man is not a good father, he will probably put as such, but if you.........well to be honest, you shoud not consider sleep witha men (lesson in fornication) if you don't consider him being a father, once you made the decision to make out with him and freak him long time, than you have to talk and be open about the responsibility of having, dependinging on his feedback, should determine what direction you take you sexual relationship (use protection, i.e. etc.). Most men, especially if they are not courting you, just dating you would rather have casual sex, but if he's romacing you and sending you all the right messages than, you might end up making a baby! And with that in mind, stop telling yoursel, it could never happen to me! Any human woman and man that have sex, make love,definitely knows they are capible of getting pregnant, it's not algebra. So, after all the woman lives with her father until she is presented by her huband. From their her last name changes, it is my belief that if the husband becomes displeased (with or without children) than he should have to pay the father three times the amount of the dialery, to take her back. Which is equilvelant to child support. As far as fornication is concern, it's like the old saying, if he can afford them, he can have all the babies his little heart desires, and if the women in his life allow him to sex them without a committment than thats their fault. But at some point, because we need to be very careful about the message we give the next generation, at some point after a man father's so many children out of wedlock, than the counties or doctors need to suggest vasectomy or something. When children are born into the world they are born out of wedlock or in wedlock, which means we can't afford to put out more demons than angels. So, when the DPSS cut off women's medical to prevent multiple abortions in one year, and they start asking her doctor 'are you providing birth control to your patients' because they using abortions as a form of medical- somethings wrong with that picture! Men should be held to that same standard! So, in my opinion the system should flip the script on man and woman, and let them know they are not using themselves the way God intened man and woman to be used. Trust me, I can come up with some consequences to shut fornication down a notch and adultery (with a baby as the result)
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(Original Air Date: 10/29/07) Fraud. lies. conspiracy. They may sound like the latest Washington scandal, but these are allegations of exes at war over child support. Dr. Phil's guests claim they became victims of the perfect crime when they were led to believe they fathered a child that was not biologically their own and were forced to pay. First up, Enrique says he was shocked and angered to discover he was not the father of his youngest daughter, Selina, and that she was conceived during his ex-wife, Maria's, adulterous affair. Maria says he raised Selina but then abandoned her to save money. Why does Maria say Enrique's current wife is to blame for the fractured relationship? Next, 13-year-old Selina speaks one on one with Dr. Phil. Will she decide to let the man she once called Daddy back in her life? Then, Carnell Smith, who uses the online moniker, "Man4Justice," suffered a similar fate to Enrique, and but he fought and won. He says he's tired of seeing women trap men and get away with it. A heated debate ensues between him and feminist attorney, Gloria Allred, who argues that men like Enrique should continue to act as the father ... and continue paying! Talk about the show here.
