Topic : 12/25 Parent Trap

The issues raised in this show are ones that are rampant across this country, due to FRAUD now being a way to create personal gain.

Best Interest of the child ..........as Gloria Allred addressed is merely a facade people like her wish to hide behind. Best Interest of the child IS NOT ALL ABOUT MONEY......but that has become how it is addressed.

A good friend of mine Doug Richardson was ordered to pay the biological FATHER child support in a case as arrogant as the one displayed. Doug is also well known as DNADADDY.

His case proves Best Interest of the child is a FACADE. The child was placed with the Bio Father after police having surrounded the home as the Bio dad had threatened to kill everyone in the home. Where was any best interest protected ?

Doug Richardson was a paying responsible man while he was told he could have no part in the childs life except to pay for the child and let it live in harms way. The deplorable courts have condoned these actions all for the FEDERAL funding that backs child support enforcement.

When children dont know their bio parents and the courts think a stand in is OK............then we have an issue where the morals of this country no longer exist. If a woman chooses to have an affair then the onus is on her for the responsibility of the child .

Children deserve the TRUTH and understanding that a honest parent would purvey. Sexual escapades are rewarded in this country by some family courts and it should not be allowed to continue.

Dear Dr. Phil

 Are you kidding me??  I am a 35 year old single mother of 2 wonderful girls. I can not believe that anyone would think it was ok for a mother to keep who the father of the child is a secret and then make the " good guy" pay child support for a child that is not his. i do believe that if a man has stood up to the plate and raised that child as his own for how many years ( kudos to him) should be able to be a part of that childs life with no finical obligation. Why should a man have to pay for a child that is not his?? And where is the guy that is really the father? Why dont you serve him with some paternity papers and throw a wrench into his happy marriage? Not everyone has the kind of money that Dr. Phil has so to take 100.00 a week away from someone that is already struggling what sense would that make?? So yes sadly to say it does come down to money.. I never knew that LOVE could be bought.

Anyway, I would like to elaborate, what about these dead beat dad's that "do know their own biological children," all of a sudden just threw them away.  Just like in my daughter's situation.  The father of my two beautiful grandchildren, 8 and 5 years old, doesn't want anything to do with his own children.  My daughter has never said he couldn't be around his children.  She encourages for him to be with their children, but ever since he met this other woman, she has so "much power over him". And she's very, very jealous over my daughter.  She doesn't "allow" him to see his own children.  I can't believe that he would hurt his own children like this.  Here they have a son, he's about 1 1/2 year old, but the thing is he doesn't know he's the father of this boy, he didn't even put his name on his birth certificate.  And he KNOWS this, but when my daughter had taken him to court to pay for child support, he did get an DNA test on both of his own children.  The test of course came back stating he's the father.  Which he already knew that they were his in the first place.  The reason for the DNA test, he didn't have his ID when his second child was born and he wasn't able to put his name on her birth certicate.  But, he's not going to get an DNA for the little boy.  He's financially taking care of the boy, and doesn't know if he's the father, and doesn't want to be around the children he does "KNOW"!!!!  He refuses to pay child support for his own children.  To me this so called woman (if you want to call her a woman) needs to mind her own business, and it's NOT all about her, and let him see and be with his own children like he was before and pay for his own children.  They need to get an DNA test for the little boy to find out the truth, and if he's not the father, she needs to go after the "biological father" to pay child support and let the "real father" to be in his life.