Topic : 12/25 Parent Trap

And then the child grows up and give you their behinds to kiss! I took in my husband's eight children from a woman that was glad that I had her kids! I would have to go to her house and drag her behind around my house to help out with her kids! I was not on welfare with them, I used the little money that I had and made sure everyone was fed clothed and the whole nine, did homework, put them in church, etc. and he wind up going back to her and leaving their eight kids with me, now you tell me what's wrong with this picture? I Called the state to come get them because I was suffering from gulf war illness, trying to raise 8 kids until they got up in age and start running away, talking back, all because I ran a military household and I wasn't having it! First thing out of their mouths was you're not my mom! so I put everybody out! So you have to watch kids too they are very manipulative when they want something! I don't care what nobody say I watched that little girl and it seems to me that she was glad that he was not her father and the stepdad act like he wanted to be more her friend than her father because she gets her way with him! That's what I believe!

Thank you - this is an excellent point and personally I'm glad to see that the light of this is being shined on all women, instead of just the minorities who have for traditional used babies like food stamps.

I will never understand women. When women stay there are no good men left it is becasue of their doing.

I think before any woman gets child support from a man a paternity test must be done to protect the innocent. Besides, if some health issue comes up in the child later it is best to know who the real father is in case for genetic reasons they need to contact him.

In the case where the man paid child support for ten years only to find out the child is not his is wrong to have happened and he should not be financially accountable; yet, if he has made a relationship with the child then he can choose how to continue it voluntarily but no force needs to be placed on him anymore. If this is a country where justice is served and the innocent protected then let's have it and start changing the abortion laws to protect the innocent while we're at it!

i sympathize with the children and fathers who are wrongfully identified as "the father".  i don't have any answers.  i used to be married to a criminal bum.  i was 16 he was 26 when i met him.  i was 26 when i got divorced.  i put him in prison for 5 years for abusing me and his rights have been terminated to my two children, however he as dodged paying for 3 girls previously, and he was paying $20 per week for mine.(remainder was $9000,and would stop in a couple more years). unfortunately he has apparently produced another child his first year out of jail and now can't afford to pay the $20 per week for my two.  he goes from working to unemployment.  back and forth.  luckily i have successfully moved on, happy kids, remarried and just landed a job with the county jail:).  go figure.  there are tons of bad guys out there, but until the system changes there is no use in fighting it.  i am glad he is gone. and unfortunately i have to raise my boys and don't have the time nor energy or money to go into politics.
~j

It wasn't her place.

Does anyone have any decorum anymore.  And furthermore, if it was so obvbious, then why did he wait to question his ex-wife after he got remarried?

It's all about the M O N E Y !

No way should Enrique have to continue to pay support for someone elses daughter.   He can keep the girl in his life if the daughter, her mother, and Enrique agree.   He paid enough already.  If he wants to buy her gifts or take her places with the half sister such as dinner. etc., that should be volunterily on his part. This cheating woman is taking money away from the man's new wife!  The ex -wife needs to go after the biological father of this girl. 

Now that we have DNA, it ought to be used.  This will make a man think twice before he messes with another man's wife.  The law should be that the biological father pays-----not the man that was cheated on!

How can you say.... " Havin to love everyone to go to Heaven, yes"????? It's like you don't love the child but if you pretend to, then you will make it to Heaven...... do you really think that you are fooling God???

Im not saying this is about your situation but, if men weren't all about sex and getting with women, then there would be a LOT less paternity problems out there!!! So I say..... "BLAME THE MEN"!!!!