Topic : 12/25 Parent Trap

 

The mother of this child is solely responsible for this sad situation. If she had told the truth to begin with this child would not be going through all of this hurt today.  The father should not be held responsible for paying child support to this woman when he is not the child's father. 

 

The father handled it all wrong with the way he told the child and in the way he has been treating her, he knows that now and feels ashamed.  He must have been devastated to learn that his marriage had been a sham for all of those years, and anger and hurt can cloud anyone's emotions.  This father was not thinking straight. 

 

Now the wife, she knew what she had done from the very beginning, she sat there with a holier than thou look on her face, boy was she taken by surprise when the audience applauded for her ex.  She is a liar and a cheat and bears full responsibility for all the hurt this child is going through. She is a disgrace to womankind.

 

Gloria Allred had her own agenda as most lawyers do, but Carnell Smith soon put her in her place.  Mr. Smith fought his own paternity case and won, the guy knew what he was talking about.  I thought he was brilliant and was not intimidated by the mouth piece sitting next to him. 

 

Allred stated that the law says "That it makes no difference if a man has been lied too and cheated on, he still has to support any child born out of his partners adulteress affair".  The law is an ass as far as this type of situations goes, wonder who pushed to have such a law passed? 

Everything you said was exactly right!

 

AMEN!!

I can't believe you would think the villain could ever be Enrique’s new wife. It’s Maria’s fault and no one else. She made a mistake (who doesn’t) but did she fess up and tell her husband that this baby could be some other man’s child. No she kept it a secret and ultimately caused her daughter all this pain. Enrique had to find out by a DNA test that, luckily his new wife brought up.

If she was wrong then he would have never had to tell Maria's daughter, but that wasn’t the case. Maria lied and she should be the ONLY one to be blamed. She is a poor excuse for a woman, wife, and mother.

Maria is just mad at Mia because she got caught in a HUGE LIE!! And she will not be getting all that money.

What happened to you is terrible!

 

I agree with what you said 100%

YOU MUST KNOW THAT YOU KNEW YOU WOULD BE UP FOR CRITICISM BUT YOU STILL DID THE RIGHT THING IN THE LONG RUN.  MY FIANCE IS RIGHT NOW BATTLING WITH HIMSELF..TO DNA OR NOT TO DNA THAT IS THE QUESTION.  (THE SHOW REALLY PUT A SPOTLIGHT ON A NASTY REALITY.) IT IS A TERRIBLE DECISION TO MAKE, BUT A NECESSARY ONE.  LOOK ALL THOSE WHO HAVE NAY SAYED YOU.....DONT WORRY.  THEY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT IS LIKE TO SEE A PERSON SLOWING BEING RIPPED APART.  I CANT BE CONVINCED THAT SERENA WOULD NOT HAVE EVENTUALLY QUESTIONED HER LOOKS ALSO (MY 11 YEAR OLD STEP DAUGHTER QUESTIONS HERS, EVEN GOING SO FAR AS TO SAY SHE IS ADOPTED, OR THE MILK MANS). YES I FEEL TERRIBLE FOR SERENA ALSO...IT IS A HORRIBLE SITUATION.  BUT KEEPING A LIE OR A UNTRUTH HIDDEN AWAY FOR THE SAKE OF CHILDREN IS NOT A GOOD IDEA.  I DO THINK THE WAY YOUR HUSBAND TOLD HIS "DAUGHTER" WAS WELL, A BAD IDEA...BUT THE TRUTH MUST COME OUT. 

 

AT THE END OF THE DAY IT IS ABOUT THE MONEY.  MARIA, WHAT EVER HER NAME WAS, WOULD HAVE TOLD HIM IF SHE WAS NOT AFRIAD SHE WOULD LOSE THE CHILD SUPPORT.  SHE KEPT HER MOUTH SHUT KNOWING FULL WELL FOR YEARS THAT WAS NOT HIS KID...HE'S A DOCTOR RIGHT.....AND I SAY LET THE NEW PERFECT STEP DAD ADOPT HER......AND BY THE WAY.....I ALSO CANNOT BE CONVINCED THAT MARIA DOES NOT KNOW WHERE THE REAL DADDY IS.  SHE KNOWS.....JUST BY HER COUNTENANCE, WELL A CONVINCING LIAR SHE DOES NOT MAKE.

 

 

to a paternity test but in cases of mariage, or where an acknowledgement of paternity have already taken place, the man has fewer rights.

 

Some states have a presumtive father registry. Men who think they might be the father of an unborn child need to sign up for it, that way their rights are more protected.

 

Women though need to be held accountable for their actions. So many don't even think of the child, they just want that child support check.

I don't care what the law says. It is biased and unfair to the man when he has been decieved and expected to pay for something he had  no part in. when are they going to penalize these women for what they do.

If you lie about rape, on the stand , work, ETC.. you are going to pay the price for lying not got get a check for being decietful. The whole legal system needs to balance that so called scales of justice and make it fair across the board.

I think all three adults in this situation are heartless and shameless.  If I had loved and raised a child for 10 years, she would be MY child regardless of any situation, and I would fight like a tiger anyone who would be cruel and heartless enough to even SUGGEST that she was not my child for whatever reason!!  I would do anything to protect her from the heartless, inhuman, selfish and cruel treatment that this beautiful child has been subjected too.  There is no law, no amount of money, NOTHING that can ever undo the hurt.  There is no punishment for any of the three adults that would be painful enough  that would even give them a clue as to what they have done.  There is no fix.  For sure there is a higher power that loves this child enough to give her the strength and ability to survive this whole big mess.  Thank goodness for the resilience of youth and good people like Dr. Phil who care about the child.  My heart and love go out to her, and SHAME, SHAME, SHAME, on the adults in her life.  None of them deserve to be her parents.  I didn't feel any of them caring for her at all!!!