Topic : 12/25 Parent Trap

How cold and calculating ia a women who places the responsibility of a child on someone else? There can be no bigger responability than raising a child. How could someone play god and decide that it's okay for you to raise their child without knowing it's not yours? This women only cared about gettng caught! She has no feelings for anyone!

How can a mother form a real bond with her child if she lies to the child? This women was lying to so many people. It's a real shame with don't value honesty anymore!

Your analogy to the kidnapping is dead on!!! 

 

The true responsible party is the mom.  She needs to pay for what she has done.

 

Let's not forget that somewhere out there, she has a biological father who she needs to be introduced to.  He deserves to know that he has a child.  If for no other reason, to discover her genetic/medical information.  She has grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins also.  She has an entire family who might be waiting with open arms to know her.

The world needs more honest women like Mia! What this women Maria did was so wrong in so many ways. I'm not sure why her current husband thinks she is not going to cheat on him and do the same thing!

After reading your posts, I take back what I said.  I relied on what others said and it was wrong.

 

I am very glad to hear that you do support a relationship between them.  It is despicable what Maria did.  I truly feel for you and Enrique.  Clearly it is all about the money for her and she showed her true colors on the show.

I agree 100% with this statement, but I would like to add that for every child these wanton women are giving birth to, there was a man not using protection either at the other end. 

 

It's simple.  If you are a woman and you don't want a child you cannot support BY YOURSELF (we all know the dead beat dad issue) then either ABSTAIN OR USE PROTECTION!  If you are a man and don't want to support a child that is either yours or not yours, as in this case, ABSTAIN OR USE PROTECTION!  If you have used protection and someone tells you they are pregnant, you know the chances are highly unlikely that it is not yours and a simple test will prove it from the getgo.  If you've just been sticking it in every warm bowl of soup that passes by... the odds are eventually there will be a child of yours out there for you to support.

 

Now, in this case, I believe what Maria did was reprehensible.  A husband should not have to question whether he's the father every time his wife gets pregnant.  He should not be forced to continue support, but telling his daughter then abandoning her was equally reprehensible.

 

When are people going to grow up and start taking responsibility for thier own actions and choices??

 

 

   AFter a divorce my exwife , got preg. with the guy who was involved with her while we were married.

However, The guy went about his marry way and left her holding the baby. I had already had 2 wonderful girls by my exwife too. I decided right away that even though the baby she was carrying was not mine and she would be brought into this world without a dad. I would try my best to fill that roll the very best I knew how.    I ended up adopting her, she is my daughter, there is no difference  between her and my other children. I love all my girls the same, See anybody can make a baby but it takes a man to raise one.

Also the girls have a very good mother, It was bad choices me and her mother made in our marriage. Thats not the childrens fault. I look at my last daughter as a gift from God, what joy she brings to us. She also has a step mother who loves her very much too.  I don't believe in divorce, alot of people get hurt through divorce LIKE KIDS.

KWP

Have you been lied to for years about a child that is not yours, I think the pain would be from the lies not raising the child. Are men not suppossed to have emotions? Some do not understand that about one forth of your monthly income plus medical insurance is paid out every month on child support and we think dads are suppossed to give up any kind of life to pay to a person who lied, she knew she had an affair, she knew there was a possibility that the child was not his , so for 9 or 10 years she got away with her sins. By the way how many children do you support that do not belong to you?

I think this is where you're confused...Salina isn't Enriqe's daughter.  He didn't create this mess nor should he be responsible for fixing it.  You've made several statements that Enrique shouldn't have abondoned his child, that he needs to consider his daughters feelings, etc...Did I mention?  Salina isn't his daughter.  He owes her nothing.  All of Salina's pain and suffering was at the hands of her mother, yes mother. By the way, where is Salina's real dad anyway?

 

I here what you're saying, Enrique is the only dad Salina ever knew.  Shame on you, Maria for creating this lie in your home.  Shame on you, Maria for deceiving your daughter and husband. Shame on you Maria for letting your daughter call another man "Dad" without his knowledge/consent.  Shame on you Maria, for sleeping with another man (or men for all we know) while you're married.  Shame on you, Maria for bringing this heartache into your daughters life.

 

Please take note that I'm calling Salina "Maria's" daughter as she is not the daughter or Enrique.

Phew!  That works out well...since, HE'S NOT HER FATHER anyway!!!