Topic : 12/25 Parent Trap

On December 3 2007, I will appear in open court on a hearing for contempt of court for failure to pay. I have paid as ordered for 15+ years, well over $150.000 in support and insurance premiums.

The balance $374.00-In march of 2006 I agreed to reimburse the state $1500.00 for welfare services the mother had received prior to a motion I filed to end the case. Since the agreement was made I have paid $1089 of the stipulated amount, until being informed by the Michigan Inspector Generals office the services were received by the means of fraud and have already been reimbursed by various sources that had received them.

The Inspector General has no jurisdiction over the judicial branch of the government, however he has informed the Friend of the court these monies were already refunded, I too petitioned the Friend of the court twice to close the case and eliminate the remaining balance of $347.00. They denied my request to terminate the balance and now have show caused me to appear in court for non-payment.

I have posted my story in here like many, I have had no contact with the child who has emancipated and is now 21 years old. I was ordered to pay his biological father directly because he lived with him, and now they want to place me in jail for money that was received by fraud, in a case of fraud.

That is what happens when Mothers tell lies.

Don't try putting the blame on Mia.  This is what happens when there are skeletons in the closets and that family breaks up.  What's done is done and ALL the blame still sits with Maria. 

Who said money was the main reason here? Point being...a man shouldn't pay support on another man's child. I read on someone's post something about, how about I buy a 50,000.00 car but YOU are going paying for it while I drive it and own it............would you do that???? Probably not! According to your thinking, though, you should.

The new wife isn't witchy..........you have no clue what her focus was...............she saw that her husband was being frauded and had every right in the world to suggest a DNA test.............

The ONLY person responsible for this child's injury is her mother, Maria..............after all, Mia didn't stick a gun to her head and make her cheat, make her get pregnant by someone other than her husband, nor did she make Maria LIE about the fact!

Paternity fraud is an unfortunate aspect of the human experience; however, I feel there are mitigating factors.  First, the female of the species is acting partially on instinct when choosing a mating partner.  Once conception has been achieved, a support system is the next order of business, and may or may not involve the sperm donor.  I believe there are a number of statistics relating to the phenomenon of the maternal strategy of maximizing the bio-diversity of her offspring for superior survival results.  I seem to remember hearing that in certain societies, women were historically encouraged to seek out the strongest, healthiest partners as mates as a method of improving the physical aspects and survival capabilities of the community.  Second, the philosophical, emotional and practical components of this equation cannot be dismissed - the female of the species must choose as life partner the most stable and productive individual that can be found for the best outcome.  The human animal, although a spiritual and contemplative being, is also constrained by simple biology when propagation and survival of the species is concerned.  The male of the species is at liberty to bestow seed where preferred AT HIS OWN RISK.  If he then chooses to commit to the rearing of the offspring his chosen mate produces, it is preferable for the community that he remain committed to the task until the offspring are capable of sustaining themselves.  The peripheral issues of emotion surrounding this task are secondary to the primary goal of producing future generations for the species. 

The reality is, women hold most of the cards in the human propagation game.  If a man desires the companionship and comfort of home and family, he must sacrifice a certain amount of desire for control.  In other words, take what the universe gives to you or keep it in your pants, brother. 

All academic considerations aside, this man should thank his lucky stars that any woman thought enough of him to name him as father for her children.  He had the opportunity to gain the lifelong love, trust and devotion of two daughters and he threw it away for a principle.  What a fool he was, truly.