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Topic : Defining Your Authentic Self

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Created on : Thursday, July 07, 2005, 11:20:02 am
Author : dataimport
Have you read "Self Matters" or become familiar with the process of uncovering your authentic self from watching the show? Share your story here.

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June 22, 2006, 9:37 pm PDT

Learning about America as down-to-earth

I was watching a show that is about cultures but did not focus on the usual proverty-stricken or the diverse.  It was about a city in Texas.   

  

And the focus was on the individuality of the community and compared with the fundamentalism of Texas, overall.   

  

Also the weather is continuously being broadcast and changes frequently.  This is kind of like Australia.  The weather is frequently an issue.  Also, there are pockets of communities of those that do not share the mainstream ideas.  These are more livable areas and often have a diverse culture, like fruit-farming.  (I think there is a social revolution, where non-extremists are against the ideas of cattle and wheat and wool (used to be) as the main produce), because it is inefficient and doesn't rejuvinate the environment. 

  

I think it changes ones perspective greatly, and that to make this 'culture' and 'lifestyle' change in America, must bring one down to earth, in a fairly major way. 

  

   

  

  

  

  

  

 
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June 22, 2006, 9:39 pm PDT

Health and finance flowing

Is that what a family is?  A place where health and finance can flow? 

  

  

  

  

 
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June 22, 2006, 9:49 pm PDT

Ritehere/Linda

I have come to the idea that what one grows up to be (and I have wasted time, I know, not knowing) is what one does when very young.  Because it is important to do the same things many times.  I realise that those good at science, were those with the freedom and independence to explore and so learned ie. the effects of gravity early, a lesson never forgotten.  And this is the same for all areas, as one builds on this continously.  That is something that is very misleading, when people tell one they must do this or that before that dream-job, but one has been doing the dream-job all their life, and that never stops. 

  

How it is expressed: be talked about (when not doing the dream-job) or actually doing it professionally, is what changes.   

  

I heard a funny thing said, that people who ride cars, are losing their ability to walk, of course they are not, but certainly how we walk changes.  Maybe the ability to walk uphill for example, as an overall species, is being lost. 

  

  

  

  

  

  

 
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June 22, 2006, 9:51 pm PDT

sewing the seeds

That's what fore-runner shows do.  I think that Dr Phil is actually a fore-runner. 
 
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June 22, 2006, 9:52 pm PDT

This made me smile

Quote From: athanasia

TODAY IS MY DAY

   

  

 

   

  

Today my thoughts are centered on expecting only the best and giving only the best

   

  

 

   

  

Today my mind and heart are open to new opportunities and I will make the most of every situation.

   

  

 

   

  

Today I will smile and act enthusiastically in everything I do. I will make every person I meet feel very important and I will show them that I care.

   

  

 

   

  

Today I will develop strong healthy relationships with those around me and I will only ever look for the good in those people.

   

  

I like people and people like me.

   

  

 

   

  

 

   

  

Today my confidence is high and I am willing to step out and take a chance. I speak freely to all those I meet. I know I have something valuable to contribute. I expect results today and my time is well invested.

   

  

 

   

  

Today I am one step closer to achieving my goals and dreams. I always keep my eyes focused on success and prosperity.

   

  

 

   

  

Today I will sow good seed so that I may reap my harvest of reward. Health and finance is flowing to me right now.

   

  

 

   

  

TODAY IS MY DAY

   

  

These are like 'the little instruction book' of all life.
 
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June 22, 2006, 9:54 pm PDT

SO long

 
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June 22, 2006, 10:17 pm PDT

I noticed that Lynne seemed to be

interested in the a tree (which has lots of water).   Maybe this had to do with learning about culture in a symbolic way, rather than having been to Australia or Africa, herself. 

  

http://www.outback-australia-travel-secrets.com/boab_tree.html 

  

  

  

 
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June 22, 2006, 10:22 pm PDT

How does one learn not to be...

selfish, pretentious etc.  

  

(rather that how to be, which seems to be what the television teaches) 

 
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June 22, 2006, 10:25 pm PDT

There is an exercise

one can do.  That is to write a piece about what one imagines is in the glove-box of someone elses car.  This to me does get to the crunch of how we think about others, on a different level, we may not realise. 

 
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June 22, 2006, 10:26 pm PDT

Life is short

but this is so vague.  Does anyone have any ideas about this statement.
 
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