Topic : Defining Your Authentic Self

 if we can all develop a real sense of many things, that are reaching fruitation, that's good, 

Have a Good good good Bye for now, 

Taemanai 

I don't buy books normally but I couldnt wait to open 'self matters' I am such a fan of Dr. Phil and couldnt wait to find my 'authentic self' so i can see things as clearly as he does. Well I sat down with a journal and was ready to do my homework (knowing their would definatly be some), read frantically, until I reached my first task, remembering, I blocked so many things that we're my, critical moments, that I feel I can't get the work done right for lack of complete details. 

If anyone could send advise I would love to hear it cause I have tried and tried but I cant get past it cause I feel like i'm not getting the work done correctly without exact facts. 

Dawn 

Hi! 

You stood up for your values, how you think your son is worht being treated. Keep standing up for your boundaries. It's great to be able to do this without your on fear popping up while you do it, isn't it? 

You go girl! 

Feliss 

Hello Brenda, 

It's tough to have parents who can not express themselves in a nice manner. I can relate to this, 

I just wanted to wish you well moving into your new house, and that you will get back in touch with us when you can. You are in my htoughts as well. 

Feliss 

That is nicely put, and even feel-good, and straightforward, but there is a lot of debate about Christmas.  That we are all ignorant and don't know how to have proper relationships, and it is only Christmas that enables us to achieve this, or at least be better aware of it.  Each must make an effort for good relationships at Christmas, but other things must be there as well, like respect, openess, kindness etc. Apart from this, what is 'the spirit of human understanding'?  Is it like shopping whereby good-feeling in infectious or is it the focus on human relationships rather than those attributed to other things like organisations.  Or is the spirit of human understanding just a like religious order disguised, not unlike the teaching of 'the spirit' in science.   

'Putting anger aside', is Christmas an anger-management strategy?  Who are the most likely to do this at Christmas, those that live on the streets, angry that they have to live there?  Or is this a message for all of us who are angry with what as a whole, a society, that we helped create?   

Defining X'mas.  This definitely could be better done and there is no time like the 'present'. 

Taemanai   

Memories cannot be shared, really.  X-mas memories in themself are very colourful.  But those who hasn't spent enough time together in this changing world are out of their depths to have real meaning?   

I wonder when Christmas will do the same thing for our modern world, the one without chimneys.   

Taemanai 

Lots of people think that being a parent is instinctive.  That we know what our child needs.  That is probally absolutely true, but it is only half the story.  A good parent knows what a child doesn't need.  A child probally doesn't need pretensiousness, for example. If a parent can be 'cool' but not 'pretentious' I think that the parent is on a 'winner'. 

This I feel applies to everything.    Good things come in '2's.