Quote From: djmattJust when we thought it was safe to go back in the water, bam! My employer, without prior notice after depositing my disability payment into my checking account suddenly and without notice reversed this deposit. So far, Payroll is aware of this and states that:
- I should have been notified ahead of time.
- That someone on the local level failed to fill out appropriate documentation.
- They have denied me three times to return to work, the first time six weeks after surgery, the second time about 3 months after surgery and the third time about six months after surgery.
Dr Phil, anybody, help me. According to HR I am still employed, but no checks. It was bad enough to lose the two houses because I didn't have the strength, energy, resources or all of the help that was promised to me, and I am cancelling all of my doctor's appointments. My left index finger was cut on the table saw the first day I attempted to resume any kind of activity in my delapodated shop, requiring ten stitches from the tip to just below the fingernail.
I will just continue taking care of this and remove the stitches on my own. Three have already busted. I have a pile of wood I took out of the houses now sitting in the rain, ruining because I could not get the buildings to store them in.
All three vehicles are falling apart. My sons' car is broke down. My wife's car needs attention quick before it breaks another belt. It needs new seals, bearings, altenator, on and on. My car looks like S%#@, and the transmission is making all kinds of noise and I have to push it up hills, or almost. My wife's car needs a clutch and transmission work. I am unemployeable at a normal job and have been begging and begging from government sites, etc for assistance.
I am just so sick and tired of it all. Tags are expired which I cannot buy. And the money they spent to dispose of those houses, they could have spent half to have them dragged across my property line and allowed me to pay them back.
Bad luck Me. Somebody. I still have taxes to file for two years. I am falling fast, and the hopes of the "Vagus Nerve Stimulation" is out of the question. I need to call to see if my insurance is in affect, if not I will owe the hospital a couple of grand for surgery on my finger. When a knife cuts skin, usually stitches are all required. But when a 1/4" of meat is sawed out of the finger, it involves severed nerves etc. Only about 30 minutes, but I am sure a couple of grand.
If I can't get feeling better, and do better, God help me......... I can't take this any longer.
That's all folks.
I'm not sure what you're asking for here. If you are looking for communication with Dr Phil, you have to scroll up to "Contact Dr Phil." This board is kind of a support group for people reading SELF MATTERS.
You do have some problems, but it appears that some of it could be taken care of by yourself or delegation to those in your family. For instance, the tax returns. If you don't have time to do them, why can't your wife? They can get rather complicated, but there is all kinds of help you can access if you can't understand the directions readily. I would get on this right away because the government doesn't cut you any slack and the penalties and interest can add up in a hurry.
As to the cars, why can't your son do some repairs and maintenance? If he's old enough to drive he's old enough to learn how to maintain a vehicle don't you think?
Not sure what the situation is with the two houses, but it sounds like they are lost so don't beat yourself up about them. Sometimes things happen, like a tornado or whatever. Sounds like this was due to unfortunate circumstances.
As to the limbo job situation, maybe it's time to hire a lawyer. They can't keep you on the "employed" list and not pay you. Make a list of priorities and get started, you'll feel better when you make a plan and get going.
