Topic : 11/09 Debate Dr. Phil and the Bishop

Thus says the lord
Thus says the lord
Words are powerful as you know. Just as My father spoke what he said happen and it did and it will. Love and peace is taught just as evil,hatred and bigotry is as well.It is easier to spread love than to spread hate. We are all brothers and sisters under god the very DNA says it its self 99.9 making all of us 1 of 1/10% related on earth.Pray for the loss souls for they are doomed. The meek shall inherit the earth just as the father has said. Knowlege is powerful and understanding brings on wisdom. So the very word N_____ is the definition of an uneducated illiterate individual of a petty and bothersome nature. With that said anyone can be one and not from the pigmentation of the color of ones skin.Racism is part of evils agenda not of Gods. And to a comment that was made on the message board why all these days? Why would you say have a white day brother wouldn't it be better to have a right day. We are being attacked subconsciously by an evil power we don't even understand and we are closer than most think that we are. Pass this on checkout www.exministries.com it is a most and it is really happening. God bless peace be onto you.

I have been watching Dr. Phil since he began with Oprah, and I have been watching the Dog for over two years now.  I must say that I never swore off a show because of an airing I disagreed with, but after watching Dr. Phil's show Friday; I was so upset with how he handled the situation, that I’m definitely taking a break from his show for a while.  I felt he only demeaned the Dog, for what was a PRIVATE conversation, and had no one there but only ONE SIDE; there was not one single white person on that panel. NOT One and I always felt that a psychiatrist/psychologist was to be UN-BIASED.  BUT for some reason............ IT IS OKAY.......for the entertainment world in the BLACK community to degrade their own race and the white race, to degrade the opposite sex and to degrade our laws..........AND OUR SOCIETY PAYS THEM TO DO ITTTTTTTT!!!!!  Not only do we pay them to do it, BUT THEY DO IT IN PUBLIC through their music and movies.  Did Dr. Phil talk about that??? Oh sure he did, for a FLAT 10 SECONDS. He DID NOT touch base on it for even half the time that he demoralized the Dog for!  Unbelievable, I was and still am so disappointed in that show.  You know, Imus should have been punished, he did his deed in the public, Al Sharpton, ohhh sure he is a SAINT!!! He is completely perfect, YEA RIGHT, well I will say this, let you make a comment in your own home, let you make a remark in the privacy of your own, and hope to everything you don’t lose your job, or your family or your standing in society!  I feel that Dr. Phil has taken this point to where maybe he feels we should be watched by big brother, or maybe we should be judged without any freedoms or rights whatsoever to our own privacy.  Well Dr. Phil, I am almost certain you would reply with............"they could record me 24/7 and I would have nothing to hide"........ Is that because you are completely perfect in every way????? Shame on you for judging a man that has done nothing but good for our society!  I mean, this man DID get a serial rapist off our streets!!!!!!!!!!! OR SHOULD WE FORGET THAT??? Perhaps if you are caught at something we should all forget about the goods you have done as well!  Because it happens to everyone at some point in their lives, especially those that are famous.  I am amazed at how you handled this situation and I truly felt if you were to be the one to analyze this, you would have done it in a less judgemental way.  Maybe even perhaps have mentioned that YOU DID NOT HAVE ALL THE FACTS OF THIS MANS FAMILY before YOU WERE JUDGING HIM!!!! 

 

Oh well, I am sure my point will be lost in space somewhere, but I feel so much better knowing that it has been read if only just once.

The only thing that I want to say to this comment is that first, I love that you defended Dog and his privacy! That is what is most important here!! I agree with everything that you are saying except for what the entire nation is saying about the "N" word in general.. If you ask me, I do think that it is a negative word.. It stands for something negative.. But the big question seams to be, why is it okay if a black man says it, but not okay if a white man says it.. I dont think that is the case, I just think that it matters "who" says it, and "how."  My theory is this.. Its no different than if I called one of my friends a bitch in a joking manner.. We are friends, and she would know I was joking.. However, if someone she did not know called her a bitch, you can imagine the result.. Its no different with the "N" word regardless if its from one black to another, or from one white friend to a black friend.. Its not a good word.. but a lot of words are not good words, and they still get used. Now, "should" I be calling my friends bitches, and should other friends be calling each other Ni**ers?? Well, that is a personal preference I guess.. Or could it be called sarcasm??

Why isn't Monique Shinnery held accountable for her actions? Can we look into her past, record her conversations or hold her feet to the fire for not being on the show? Why was her mother there instead? Is she a small child, or a grown person, capable of trying to ruin other people's lives? Shame on this program for siding with the National Enquirer! Why wasn't the son on the show? Where were the accusors? A very one-sided program, and they wonder why Dog wouldn't appear!

It really gets to me about the double standard with the blacks.  Master P can use the word in a public song and redeem himself by putting out an album without  the word.  However if a white person uses the word in a private conversation that happened to become public he should lose everything.  I know where he came from and his age and that word was used back then to the people's face and was not derogatory (in some cases it was a greeting to a friend).  I know when we had our children in the late sixties I personally quit using the word as I did not want my children to be exposed to the word.  However, when my daughter was in first grade in Mississippi she came home with the word and it was from her black friend at school. I believe with time as we age and the older people die that word will mostly be gone amongst the whites, but what about the blacks (they use it more than we do).  I feel that Jessie Jackson and Al Sharpton are the biggest racist in America (to them it is OK for blacks but not whites and that goes for more than just that word).  They tend to stir up the tension between races, not improve the relations.  Lets all go watch "Remember the Titans" and live in harmony together, no black white tensions.

I agree with you because people shouldnt be giving 11-15 year olds birth control.  All that does is make them want to do it.  Its really sad

YO! lol.. it was a two way conversation, yell fest. The recorder used was the only thing tucker had available at the time, which was an answering machine recorder . He pushed the button and hit record  while talking to his father on the phone regarding the stressful situation of tucker dating Monique.

 

Laws in some areas of the USA would have been broken if this tape were to be used in a court of law. This is NOT the case and Mr. Duane Chapman is probably not going to sue his own son , who he dealy loves despite what has happened.

This was a private phone call between a son and father fueding over a  a girl that Mr. Chapman did not approve of. Tucker became angry and sold out to the National Enquirer for only "15,000." a nothing to what it has done to his whole family.

Monique had nothing to do with this other than be the poor woman who was called the N word repeatedly . In a private conversation between Tucker and his father.  Monique is not a bad person here only the "victim" of the  name that will go down in celebrity history as the biggest  mistake and filth since the sixties. BUT, Chapman should be forgiven. He will probably be a good candidate to be heard as to why not you say things like that  and build  your self from the pit of your stomach back up to being able to look everyone in the eye again.

 

SO, here is the scoop.. Tucker made the recording from a answering machine /recorder. as he talked to his father on the phone.

If you have used the word you can't say a word about the old Dog. There is no perfect human I know. You may say you have never used the word but, I'm sure you have! Do we have the right to judge some thing that was said in a private phone call? I'm not sure that I do! The Dog has done many good thing. He doesn't say he is perfect and he has added that he has made mistakes to. So should his show be taken off the air not sure? Dog why did you not come on the Dr Phil show? That part worries me!

 

I have grown up in the south and seen KKK in the sheets and they scaried me as a child. It was when the Cuban was at Fort Chaffe. They had their child dressed up to it made me mad. I asked my mom why do they do that. She said think they are better then some people. Then when the Cuban got out I seen what the KKK did. Dr. Phil is right it starts at home. When I lived in Portland I never heard the word. And that I'm back in south I hear it all the time! So will the word ever go away?????????????

Monique did not do anything wrong.

Here mother should have been there with her daughter of there was to be anything regarding her daughters name mentioned.

 

There was no siding with the National Enquirer.

Dog, Tucker Monique nor any of Dogs family chose to come to this.

However Dr. Phil talked about all this on Larry King live the night before and that was an enlightening show regarding Mr.. Chapman and I admire Mr. Chapman.

I don't know as to why DR. Phil's production folks chose who they did either for this? I would NOT have asked Monique's mom without Monique, as this will cause trouble with that issue for sure.

I can guess why as to the Chapman's not coming.

I would not be in the same room with Sharpton or Jackson as they are both a serious problem now in the movement of equality . The other gentlemen were great, but than they really should have had  Mr.. Chapman's pastor there too. Duane is of simple folk and came from a horrible background  in Denver area. I know the Denver area and some of it is .. well... I rather live in parts of  He- l. I know that this will take a long road of recovery and probably education on Mr. Chapman's part, but, I believe he can do it with a load of patience . He has brought himself up through some heavy things in his life and made it. That is a miracle all in itself. He is a self made man and he has his own company which he has made sure is his families.  he is a good man , he works hard. 

After I heard Dr. Phils' durogatory comments about teenage pregnancy and trailer living I sat there with my mouth hanging open.

My mother lived in a trailer community for years, after retiring, and she was very happy in that lifestyle. She was alone, on a fixed income, and wanted to live independently in what she could afford. She also felt completely secure in her surroundings because everyone looked out for one another.

I have two daughters, each left with two babies to raise, (not as teenagers, but as young women) and they have been incredibly strong and responsible in raising their children. Unfortunately, their relationships did not work out for them, but no one can fault them for not trying to keep their families together.

I was disappointed in Dr. Phils' grandstanding and lack of humility on this particular show.