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Topic : 07/29 A Husband’s Shocking Confessions, Part 2

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Created on : Friday, November 16, 2007, 03:40:06 pm
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(Original Air Date: 11/20/07) Dr. Phil continues the startling story of Wade and Michelle. After the taping of their last appearance on the show, the pair retires backstage, where they immediately get into an argument. Emotions run high as Dr. Phil joins the couple for a talk. Learn how Dr. Phil responds to a tearful plea from Wade. Days later, Michelle calls a Dr. Phil producer and leaves a message saying, "I need big help, and I'm going to tell you something huge, and I'm scared." When Dr. Phil returns her call, find out the shocking bombshell Michelle drops. What does Wade claim to have done that is so extreme, Dr. Phil feels compelled to get the F.B.I. and the state police involved? Saying she fears for her life, Michelle arranges a protective order against her husband, which sets off a dramatic turn of events. How does Wade respond to the court order? Is his embattled wife able to break free from him and also keep their children safe? Find out who paid a visit to relatives to retrieve a shotgun, who may have taken too much Ambien, and who wound up in the county jail for breaking the protective order while purportedly trying to rescue the other from the brink. And when Michelle sits down with Dr. Phil, learn what she says is her reason for carrying on. Talk about the show here.

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November 20, 2007, 12:47 pm PST

They're both lunatics

First, this woman is unbelievably desperate. She knows that this guy is "addicted" to porn, spend thousands of their savings on porn, lost jobs because of it, and has cheated on her multiple times but she'll sit there on national television and BEG him to come clean and tell the truth. Why the need for this? Why not just pack his things and kick him out? They have no "marriage". She's nothing to him.

 

Now, today, all this crap about him killing people, etc.... And she STAYED IN THE HOUSE WITH HIM?? Like I said, if any of this is true, then she's a desperate loser. Begging a person like this to come clean? She's beggin him to "tell the truth" and all this crap.... SICK.

 

On top of that, she's cutting herself, taking pills, etc......

 

They need to be apart from each other permanently. He needs to be in prison if it's true about the rapes/murders. She needs to be in a psychiatric hospital to get her head straight. The cihldren need to be put in foster care ---- NOT WITH EITHER FAMILY since we already see how those families function!

 

I'm wondering if this story is even true?? I would think it would have been on the news already if any of the rapes/killings stuff was true......

 
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November 20, 2007, 12:52 pm PST

unfortunatley kids lose to love or obsession

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I tend to relate to the message from sjone106.  Today's show seemed fishy for several reasons. One is Michelle calling Wade so he would come to her only to get arressted.

 

Her facial expressions do not seem to match the story. The first day I wondered why she needed another lie detector test after he already failed one.  I thought it was because she so desperately wanted to believe him.  I never imagined her leaving him. 

 

Both guests are "far out"!  I've known many weirdos, but these are different.  Eager to hear the outcome!

 

The sad thing is that she thinks or thought she could save him. I know, not to this extreme but I realized I stayed for my own selfish reasons. My son almost died and I used that has a reason to stay even though he lied,cheated and beat on me.  I ran to the shelter just to fall back in cause I wanted to be saved.  I felt like when he saw me as a victim that he loved me. Thank God for Dr.phil she saw the signs but she needed a hero. I am not trying to blame her but abuse is so sick that you don,t remember how to have a normal conversation you only know how to be a victim. It is sad that it takes a show to put a light on this but it is a light.She definitally needs help the comment that she will leave if its true is the victim coming out
 
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November 20, 2007, 1:01 pm PST

Commercials Suck

Loved the show, but I figure you can fit at least another 150 commercial breaks.  I dont know how much money you guys need to feel happy, but the whole show is about 5 minutes long...the rest is commercials.  This is getting ridiculous...Do something about this, please!
 

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November 20, 2007, 1:01 pm PST

They Both Have Loose Screws

I have absolutely no doubt that Wade is a kook, and I'm pretty sure that Michelle is, too.
 
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November 20, 2007, 1:02 pm PST

What is truth?

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I hate to sound so cynical,but you could drive a truck through the holes in these two's stories. What I am most concerned with is the well being of the children. It is so obvious that neither parent are stable. The mother is cutting herself and taking sleeping pills around her kids? The father is confessing to sexual acts of violence and then the two of them have sex? I am wondering if this is just some sick stuff that they are both getting off on the attention. Either way, there are children who are at risk.

 

This is the risk you run when you provide a forum for people who live in a world of fantasy. Time and time again on the internet I have met people who create dramas to get attention, I think this is the case with this couple. All I know is that if one day my husband told me he raped and killed someone, there would be skid marks and an empty space where we would have been. That and possibly my husband would have a baseball bat embedded in his head, no way I'm letting him near me.

 

It just seems so surreal.

 

 

 

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November 20, 2007, 1:04 pm PST

This story is tooooo fishing for me and fake.

I have a very, VERY hard time believing any part of this story, except for the parts that both of them AGREE and BOTH have said openly to Dr. Phil.

 

So for someone who 'apparently' FINALLY admitted after years, and years of lying that he has a addiction to porn and then what seems like the next day just sits down with his wife that he KNOWS he can't tell anything now because anyone with common sense would know she would run and tell someone else, just open up and say "Oh by the way, I raped some people and killed a few as well".... but since we're so close I can confid in you... Come onnnnnnn.

 

The ONE BIG thing I DO have a problem with, is WHY is the MOTHER cutting herself from what it sounds like for a while now AND she's OVERDOSING on prescription sleeping pills to the point where she is comatose? Dr. Phil didnt even mention those TWO BIG problems if you ask me. Its understandable that IF this or any part of it is true that it would be stressful and very difficult to deal with... But for a mother who doesn't work or have any other responsibliities other then the kids, as the husband works for a living, why is she cutting herself and overdosing on sleeping drugs? I didnt know that was justifed....

 

But then again this whole story seems waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay to over the top, or American people are way more crazy then us Canadians :)

 
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November 20, 2007, 1:05 pm PST

You watch tooo much tv

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Yes, exactly.  It does feel contrived. 

 

And I forgot to say in my original post that I wonder if Michelle & Wade aren't somehow in it together for the attention.  They're on a popular TV show.  For THREE days.  I'm not saying the whole story isn't true, but after Part 2 it just raised a huge stink & all kinds of red flags on both their parts. 

 

Like I said before...Dr. Phil needs to be careful of what he choses to air.  His show is more & more becoming a tabloid instead of common sense advice.

She might need help but it sounds like you do if that is the case them working together don,t you think Dr.Phil has enough money tofind that out . Do you think that someone would do that you watch too much crime tv. I at first jumped to conclusion entertainment etc. but someone like Dr.hil is going to find out the facts I,m sure before he would get involved I think michelle let things go to far. For me it becoming  a marter sorry if I spelled wrong, bacame a way of life he loved me when he felt sorry for me because I didnt love myself and had my own issues. If she was dissected i'm almost certain there is something going on whether it be addiction anything but that doesn,t mean she deserves any of this . That man true or a lie is a manipulater and she needed to leave

 

 
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November 20, 2007, 1:05 pm PST

Wowwww

I don't know what to make of this story! Either he is a total nut job, or she's lying! I feel bad for not believing her, but the way she acts raises questions as to her honesty. Even if she is lying, he is still crazy. He is a compulsive liar and a cheater. This is a bizarre story and I can't wait for tomorrow's episode!
 
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November 20, 2007, 1:06 pm PST

Don't blame the show

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does anyone else feel this story maybe contrived? i find it hard to believe that a woman who has found this information out about her husband would be so composed. it looks like bad acting. this whole story has a made up feel to it. i hate to think that the dr. phil show has resorted to making up stories but, this one seems fake. why would dr. phil invite a possible murder on to recount his story? wouldn't the police take him into custody if there was a remote chance of him being violent? how would he be able to cross state lines in the middle of an investigation?
I don't really think the show has resorted to anything. I think the staff and show take themselves more serious than that. If there is deception in the story I would be more inclined to think it was the couple lying to Dr. Phil. Or perhaps Wade is stirring up a story for his own twisted reasons.



My personal theory: is that Wade is making these stories up to look confused. I think it's a plot on his part. In some sick way he may be able to get away with his affairs by pretending to be "crazy", pretending to "think" he murdered people, but changing the stories enough that he can't get charged for a crime. Perhaps turn the attention away from his porn addiction, some desperate attempt at getting pity. It's a far stretch, but that is my personaly theory.
 
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November 20, 2007, 1:08 pm PST

11/20 A Husband’s Shocking Confessions, Part 2

Quote From: rhonda12345

does anyone else get this vibe?
Totally feels unreal not that I think bad things dont happen in life but these 2 people seam fake!
Really bad acting I think that someone is trying to pull the wool over Dr. phil?
or is it just me lol
Rhonda
No, it's not just you! Both of these people need help and are crazy!
 
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