Topic : 07/30 A Husband's Shocking Confessions, Part 3

Wade keeps using the Vietnam war as his excuse for the rape and murder flashbacks/dreams.  To me, he seems far too young to have even been in the Vietnam war. 

I'm curious as to his age.....

I believe that man has never told the truth about any of this.

Dr. Phil,  could this possibly be a huge hoax to make you look bad???

I truly agree that no one in their right mind would leave a woman and her children with a murderer!  As I stated in my last post, as a society who protects children, the state would have or should have went in and removed them.  If a grown woman needed to get bad advise from an FBI Lie detector administrator, then she too, is unable to care and protect the children.

I do not believe Wade murdered or raped anyone.  I believe he thinks he did. I also believe he is suffering from a mental illness.  I think Michelle also has mental probems.  I think she is the attention seeker in the family and is full of it.  I think she is very wishy washy such as when she stated that "Wade was going to go crazy when he couldn't find her". Then she says that she called him when she overdosed..Hello??? Only then to sit on stage on part three and defend Jack's malpractice by saying that "it was more dangerous for her to leave"??? however again it wasn't dangerous for her to call him when she overdosed. Wade went to jail for violating a protection order, when she called him for help. He called 911!

I also think Jack is wacked. I can't think of a single reason why he would coach her on sex practices to get information out of him. He says he thought of her as a daughter...hmmmm...so he would coach his daughter on sex practices with a confessed murderer and rapist? I to would be as upset as Wade was if it was my family and kuddos to him for questioning why Jack did not have his wife's and childrens safety as his main concern.

Being a military family I almost feel let down by people in our country.  Wade may be suffering from a serious condition and most people are quick to judge.  Something traumatic could have happened to him during his childhood and he never dealt with it.  Now as an adult and after being deployed his conditioned has become worse.  PTSD is not something easy to admit to having because of sign of weakness.  He is right in that aspect.  I can relate to him, being in the military and suffering from PTSD is not something that easy to admit, there is a fear of what your fellow members will think.  Will I let them down? Will it harm my career?  Will they see me as weak? Will they think I'm crazy?  My husband has been deployed twice and was on his way for a third time.  I noticed a major change in my husband since he returned from his last deployment.  Long story short we have been struggling with his symptoms of PTSD for a year now and recently my husband was diagnosed with Sever PTSD and his currently being treated by the military.  Thankfully my husband is not as severe as Wade however I think that if we had not reached out for help  things could have gotten worse like and someone could have gotten hurt. 

Wade and wife if you are reading this,

Please get some professional help.  If you love your wife like you say you do dont be afraid of what people are going to say.  YOU have taken the hardest step of admitting you have a problem and asking for help. 

And if something did happen to you during your childhood that makes you hate people.  It 's not your fault!

Let go of the anger and let GOD take control of your life.  He is healer of all and only he can make you a new person.  Believe that if you invite GOD into your life and  to make you a new person he will.  Nothing is impossible with him by our side. 

I will keep you and your family in my prayers!  GOD Bless you!

People lets not be to quick to judge and I recommend AMERICA to get educated on COMBAT PTSD considering how many of our soldiers have had exposure to some type of Traumatic experience. 

GOD BLESS AMERICA!  and lets remember supporting our troops doesn't mean just sending them care packages!  It means being supportive!

OK...I was at the second taping with my mother and I have to say, I agree that the husband needs help.  I agree that he has an anger issue that needs to be dealt with.  I actually believe that he believes that he has committed a crime somewhere, some place and he might have. 

No one makes any comments or statements of his military background.  Being married to ex-military...now law enforcement, daughter of a retired probation officer and surrounded by that type of life style all my life, his behavior with regards to the ex-FBI guy was not suprising.  Anyone who wears a uniform is conditioned to NOT look at individuals as the wife stated as "human".  If they stop just for one moment and "feel" anything, I could mean their life.  FAMILY is all you have when overseas, on the streets, anywhere.  The rest is being honorable and completing your mission and/or job the best one can. I would have to say, I understand both sides because WE are not the one experiencing this situation and it's real easy to sit up there and judge.  I will say that if anyone thought I was a danger especially to my children, I would be anger that someone, anyone would not remove them from my home.  That they would allow the possibility of them getting hurt or worse.  His anger came from a place of protection which is what he did for our country.  That is something that not all of you can say you are willing to do. 

This show left me feeling that the wife was looking for a way out and weak.  And as for the husband, now that he is on psych meds and open for critism and judgement...broken.  I think is was sad and pathetic to here that his own father handed him a gun and one bullet, that he feels he's not worthy of being a "man" in his family.

I hope Dr. Phil really does get to the bottom of it.  I really hope that both parties can find some peace.  But more than anything, those children (all of them) are protected from harsh comments and learn, experience that there are healthy and happy relationships that can be established.