Topic : 06/24 Banned from the Wedding, Part 2

You know what, I don't care if Michelle is the biggest you-know-what on wheels.  Last time I checked, Jay was OVER the age of eighteen; therefore, he is responsible for his own actions, as well as his own mistakes.  Jane has no business telling her son what to do, and she is only making things worse by running her oversized mouth.  Mothers-in-law like this would not be happy if their sons married friggin' Snow White; it's not about the trashy DIL, it's about their control over a child that is no longer theirs!!!  I read all these posts attacking Michelle and I think to myself, oh boy more psycho MIL's jumping on the bandwagon! 

Look, I don't think Michelle is a peach, and I believe she is a manipulator and a bit conniving.  But Jay is a grown boy and Jane is no longer his guiding influence.  She needs to keep her big mouth shut and allow the marriage to decay on its own as it probably will.  Jane is just another Mommie Dearest who just doesn't get it.  Her job is to now stand back and trust her boy to eventually make the right decision.  I can't STAND women like this!!! 

Many  people do not reap what they sow.  Bad things does happen to good people all the time,

always has throughout the Bible.  This Michelle knows that.

The mother-in-law is putting forth an effort and trying to change, but why isn't Michelle in therapy and trying to change. Michelle acts like she is 100% the victim and she shares in the problems that have been created.  The husband/son needs to get a back bone because he is right in the middle of this and he should be the hero here, what a mouse.

I am very concerned about this family, especially Jay.  Yes,  you are doing the right thing to support your wife, however, you need to also  to find a way to have meaningful communication with your mother.  What saddens me with Jay is that he may wakeup too late.    I lost my mother in January and the one thing I regret is that I did not hug her before she died and I stayed in the hospital with her for 3 weeks.  My life revolved around her.    Jay, how are you going to feel if you don't find a way to have communication with your mother.  I understand how Michelle feels because I was in the same position with my ex mother-in-law.  We lived much closer and I bit my tongue a lot.  In my case, I did not  have the support of my ex husband.  She could say and do anything she wanted. 

Michelle, please think how you would feel if this was your mother instead of your husband's mother.   You are young and you think you have your whole life ahead, but things happen.   Try  counciling.  Find out how  to come across differently.  Try watching this show multiple times.  Jane appears like she is trying.

I realize there is history with Jane, but please try.     

Just finished watching the show "Banned from the Wedding"!!  About halfway through the show I decided that I would have gotten up looked at my son (which I do have a son) and said "you know wives come and go but you only have one mother.  When you decide that you want a relationship with me give me a call.  You accuse me have treating you like a puppet, well guess what, who has the puppet strings now.   I'm outta here!

When people are mad they do and say things that are more often than not, not very nice.  I know when I get really, really, mad I don't remember things that I said.  So it is more than likely she said the things they are accusing her of, but not without motivation.  The little twitt needs to step back and let her new husband have a relationship with his mother and he needs to get a backbone and stand up for his mother.  She is the only one he will ever have.  As a mother we all do things that are children do not like and vise a versa.  But we don't disown them because of it.  The twitt just doesn't want to share him with anyone not even his own mother.  

I must be doing something terribly wrong with my sons relationships because when he breaks up or does something wrong the girlfriends always call and cry on my shoulder, like I should convince him otherwise.  He hasn't had a relationship that I haven't gotten along with the girl.  Can't imagine why this twitt has to act the way she does.  She needs to grow up!!!

I can't believe she the mother-in--law got got banned from the wedding and it's riddulus and she is mad at Dr.Phil for this?  They should be ashamed of themselfs because he is working his tail of helping you out

and that is jobyou know that. your madness toward your new daugher-in-law is asking for trouble. I suffer

from Bipolar Disorder and have an impulse problem  and I can tell you need help in the worse way possilble. Your a pathalogical liar you don't know how to get along with them and I think you should stay

away from them for the time being this is your mother talk to her as best as you can. Yesterday my brother

and my aunt called me they were furious at me because I lied to them I don't know what going to happen

to me finaually but my mental and emotional satatius is being put to the test. The angry from my pathological lies has made me very very sick emotionlly and mentally and the same thing is going to happen to you if you don't find a way to stop what your doing a get some help like Dr. Phil got you the

first time a why can'n all of of you get along.

I FEEL AS THOUGH THAT THE PROBLEM IS THE BRIDE. I SEE HER AS THE BIGGEST PROBLEM.