Topic : 06/24 Banned from the Wedding, Part 2

You know, watching both shows and knowing these two, Jay and Michelle  WILL be divorced in 3 years time I feel no Sympathy for Michelle in any way.

She is selfish childish and very ignorant. her assumption that Jane is the only person who needs to work on herself  just shows that she was not and is not ready for marriage.

Michelles mother needs to take another look at the way she raised Michelle because it is VERY PLAIN to see that Michelle got and gets what ever she wants when she wants it and throws temper tantrums when she doesn't  get her way.

As for Jay get a backbone, you have blamed your mother for everything and have not taken a look at your childwife or yourself, and instead of owning up to anything you have done, or your childwife for that matter you hide behind anonymity claiming it has to do with your job.

You have been Lying about sooo much and the only reason you HIDE is because you are ASHAMED of yours and your childwifes behaviour. Once you're divorced in 3 years hopefully your mother will be more forgiving than you are.

Remember this, what goes around comes around, and don't think for one minute your children won't do this to you.....especially when they find out what you and Michelle have done to your mother.

Women will come and go your mother is the ONLY CONSTANT woman in your life and her love is unconditional unlike Michelles ( as you will see in a couple of years).

I coud never be a talk show host..bc I'd probably have got up and smacked the bride to be, way back in the first episode!  That guy is going to wake up a couple of years down the road..and is going to be miserable bc that selfish, rude, witch is going to seclude him from everyone..then i'm sure eventually she'll turn on him too.  It's really too bad that men usually think with the wrong head...bc there is no way I would allow some one like her to come into my family and be sooooo horrible, rude and disrepectful!!  Seriously keep her off the TV...it doesn't matter what anyone says to try and help their situation..bc she doesn't want  it..and she simply wants to make the mother suffer! 

I am 47 years old, have been watching talk shows since the days of Donahue, and this is the first time I have ever felt compelled to write in.

I just want to encourage Jane in the work she is doing. Jane, you have undergone a transformation - it shows. Anyone who could sit on national television and take the emotional assault you received by sitting there and "keeping your side of the street clean" and being understanding of Michelle and Jay's inability and unwillingness to even look at their part in things has obviously undergone a sincere transformation.

Wow. Wow. Wow. You got it. I know that there will be times when that peace slips, but as I'm sure you already know, that doesn't negate the distance you've come....just brush it off, make the appropriate amends, and keep doing the good work! There is a softness to you now. And I know the hardness that it replaced must have come from your own hurts in life, so good for you for being willing to simply step into what is real and deal with things as they are.

I can only hope that Michelle and Jay...and Jay, in particular, will take the time to work similarly on themselves in order to establish the healthy relationship that you, in your part, are making available. Good, good work. Thanks for the incredible example you set for me today. You were an inspiration.

Enough already!  You each have stated your points of view.  Neither of you are going to budge.  Family unity is not, I repeat, NOT your goals. 

Go your separate ways and for heavens sake DO not bring children into this dysfunctional mess!

Shame on all of you!

These kids need to grow up and realize that they have one Mom and they won't have her forever,  The Mom may have been wrong to say some of those things but she still should be treated with respect.  I can't believe the things that are coming out of the son't mouth.  There will come a time, big boy when you will regret all that you said.  May God forgive you for treating her the way you do.