Topic : 06/24 Banned from the Wedding, Part 2

I think all parties on this show need to ask forgiveness as well as forgive.  Forgiveness lets us out  of our own prison. However, I couldn't dream of talking to my mother-in-law in such a manner or her speaking to me in such manner.  I was truly sadden while watching this show.  Whatever happened to respecting our elders? I really pray that this family wounds are healed.  True repentance and forgiveness is crucial for any relationship to be healed. We all need to remember that we do reap what we sow and reaping is much harder than sowing - when the sowing has been so evil.

Forgivened 

She will always be his mother - the bride may not always be his wife.  If his mother dies tomorrow and he does not make up - he will regret it for the rest of his life.    The bride cannot break that family bond.

The son acts like a wimp-he needs to man up.  The bride sat there glaring at the mother-in-law the entire show-she is the problem!!!!!  The bride is controlling the guy with sex and he cannot see anything else-lets tell the truth here.  

Why should the guy have to decide between his wife or his mother?  He should not - there is enough love for all.     The bride does not want the mother-in-law in their lives, she was closed off to Dr. Phil's comments, she sat with arms crossed.  It was just like Dr Phil said,  I won so what - this was the attitude.  The body language of the bride told the whole story.

I have a M-I-L just like hers.  It's amazing how similar.  We went through family counseling and she apologized AGAIN but never owned up to what she had done. She played the victim. She had yetto change her ways.  She NEVER would own up to the things she had said or done.  She would say and do things to me when my husband wasn't around in hopes of breaking us apart. She made it look like all of our differences were my fault until my husband caught her in the act of telling me mean and vindictive stuff when she didn't know he was listening.  He was shocked because he never believed me when I told him the things she would do or say because he thought his mother wasn't capable of such horrible acts. She has since tried unsuccessfully to have my children taken away from me because she can't stand the fact that my husband, (her only son) won't take her side. 

I feel very bad for the bride and groom because her M-I-L seems to be saying only what she has to say to make herself feel better.  I bet after the show she'll go back to her old ways. Mine did.

lmao.......