Topic : 01/07 Don't Be That Girl

Wow, talk about putting someone on the spot infront of 10 million people. Who knows maybe she will say 'yes' just to not make him feel bad infront of everyone.... But then again, who knows..... Maybe she's a nice guy, but then again, any woman who comes on national TV to come and discuss how desperate they are to get married, then again, who knows what some woman go for.

I guess that's mostly why the divorce rate is soo high...

It was pretty upsetting to see Dr. Stork's cousin ask one of the ladies out on a date in front of the other girls.  When they broke for commercial, I'm sure I wasn't the only woman in America thinking "he'll pick the pretty girl who just lost 100 pounds".  (Good for her!  I'm glad she lost it!)  But, she probably lost it out of depression from her broken marriage.  Regardless..... did it not surprise everyone else that he chose her to go out on a date with?  And those 3 guys had the nerve to say behind a privacy glass that the girls in the room wouldn't date a guy unless he was good looking!  What about the guys?....obviously they didn't go for any other girl except the skinny one!  You could even see Dr. Stork eyeing Jennifer on stage, I don't think he even noticed the other girls.

I hope all the ladies will find their way in this world and be happy with themselves

Valerie

~Happily married for 9 years!

Well. Dr.Phil definately made sure he got all the ethnic woman's groups on today show didn't he. We wouldn't want people to say, 'he only had causasian woman on the show, and only woman who were under 110 pounds!'.

So I give Dr. Phil alot of credit for bringing on a wide variety of single woman, be it spanish, black, overweight, older, etc... Now no womans groups can complain!

I do think any guy whos been on enough dates, who is considered attractive by others, who works-out, eats well, has a good career/education could probably easily right the exact same book as the ER Doc.

I've been on more dates then I can count, seen all types of woman and in all types of different situations, and to be honest, the ER doc got it pretty right.

Guys can easily smell the desperate woman coming 2 miles away. Pretty much the same with the 'Agenda' girl.

Im not sure of all his book details, but I wonder if he has the "My nose is stuck-up" girl. YOu know the sometimes attractive woman or sometimes 'mildy' at best attractive woman who thinks shes the cats meow. But when they come into contact with an equally/better attractive man that given the right situation he brings that woman back down to reality... Back to planet earth in terms of being realistic about how they look and how they appear to the opposite sex. I love to play that role :)

The show should have had at least ONE woman on this show who married later in life - and tell these ladies WHY it was the best thing for them!  I was engaged at 20 years old, broke it off because I realized I was too young, and then didnt' get married until I was 36 years old!  There were so many things I wanted to do in my life BEFORE I got married and tied down with the responsibilities of being a wife. 

I had a good job, purchased my own home, took care of it by myself, purchased a care or two - was able to pick out what I wanted, color, make, model - without having to ask anyone else!!!  I traveled with girlfriends, I even took a cruise alone one year!  And I really just came to the conclusion that if I did NOT get married, I'd still have a great life!  I  really did have a great life, good friends, and a great family.  I knew that I couldn't "force" something like marriage, and I knew that I'd rather be happy on my own that miserable in a marriage. 

Well, I finally did get married at the age of 36 - and believe me when I tell you, he was WELL WORTH THE WAIT!!!! We've been married 9 years, and we honestly couldn't be happier.  Not only do we love each other, we truely LIKE each other!!   Ladies, don't rush this - be happy with who you are and with your life! Being married does NOT MAKE you happy - and having a husband will not "make" you happy!  You need to do that hard work youself - get  happy with yourself and your life, and the guys will be coming out of the woodwork!!!  BELIEVE ME!!!