Topic : 01/08 Cyber Bullies

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Created on : Friday, January 04, 2008, 02:07:51 pm
Author : DrPhilBoard1
You've heard the saying, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” But what happens when someone posts malicious comments about you on the Internet? This trend, known as e-vengeance or cyber bullying, can have deadly consequences. Thirteen-year-old Megan Meier committed suicide after being taunted on MySpace by “Josh,” whom she believed to be a cute teenage boy. Unbeknownst to her parents, Ron and Tina, Josh’s profile was fake, which they believe was created by an adult neighbor to monitor Megan. Was this a case of freedom of speech, or harassment? A state senator proposing anti-cyber-bullying legislation and a First Amendment attorney weigh in. Then, Colorado councilwoman Sandy Tucker made national headlines when she posted a controversial joke online. When the mayor asked her to remove remarks he considered offensive, Sandy refused and then resigned. She doesn't feel the need to apologize and says people need to lighten up. Holly lives in Sandy's town, and joins the show via Web cam to tell the former councilwoman why the joke is no laughing matter. Plus, meet a man who says he's constantly taunted by racist slurs while playing Xbox Live. Join the discussion.

Find out what happened on the show.


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March 10, 2008, 4:19 pm PDT

01/08 Cyber Bullies

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It is physically impossible to really emote rape on WoW.  The most you can do is say  "username" rapes "username."  I mean I could see you being upset with Blizzard if they had actually animated an emotion where you could rape someone but blaming them because someone in the game said that isn't fair, and, by the terms and conditions that that player agreed to, they haven't broken their contract.  I understand that, yes, if certain people were called certain things or encountered certain experiences it could hurt them, but people do and say rude things to me in that game all the time and I don't think it's Blizzard's job to kick everyone out of their game that says something that MIGHT be offensive to someone else.  I do know that if there is an extended amount of time that a person is harassing you in this game they will do something about it.  Anyway, I just don't think it's fair to condemn a company based on one event to which you, personally, did not enjoy the outcome.
Just wanted to point out that clearly you didn't read what my real issue with Blizzard (and other MMORPG makers) is.

In fact, what the kid did was in violation of the Terms and Conditions of Service.  The GM's position was that because I had no proof he said/emoted what he did, it was my word against his wherther he'd violated the TOS and EULA.

That is stuff and nonsense.   The public chat channels are entirely searchable and traceable.  Making remarks of the sort directed at me is against both the TOS and EULA, and the GM copped out on doing anything about it.

No one should have to put up with real-world verbal abuse, whether that's sexual in nature, or racial, or whatever, in a game.  Blizzard in particular included that in their TOS, and therefore is obligated to enforce it.  Here's a test for you:  if he'd called me a stupid *racial insult*, would that have garnered a time-out?  How about you try it, see whether they enforce the TOS on you.

So, in short, I do not expect Blizzard (or any online service) to prevent idiots from being idiots.  I DO expect them to enforce their very own TOS, and to give a "time out" to people who can be proven to have violated that TOS, and I expect them to provide us, the players, with the tools to prove those violations against us.

He never would have been in trouble had he ladled abuse about my being a smelly stupid looking night elf.  Could have called me a coward, etc, for refusing the duel.  All those are totally within the context of the game, and *that* yes we all should have the sense to shrug off.  Calling people by offensive real-world racial insults or using abusive real-world sexually offensive language, this Blizzard should crack down on.
 
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March 11, 2008, 2:53 pm PDT

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There are parents that beat and abuse their own children. Megan's mom failed her daughter.

*scoff*

 
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April 9, 2008, 4:50 am PDT

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the six girls on the news for beating the other girl, I don't think they should be charged as  adults,

 
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April 18, 2008, 10:23 pm PDT

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the six girls on the news for beating the other girl, I don't think they should be charged as  adults,

I think they do. I mean, what gives them the right to go beat up on someone??? If they can do that, then they should have to suffer the consequences!! I think they all should have to stay in jail until they can at least have some sympathy over the girl they almost killed. They had no care in the world except for possibly missing cheer practice. That's sickening! When they get out of jail, they should have to stay in juvenile detention and go to boot camp.
 
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May 15, 2008, 3:42 pm PDT

They indicted Lori Drew...

I am so happy to see this.

 

 

 

 

Woman indicted in Missouri MySpace suicide

LOS ANGELES - A federal grand jury on Thursday indicted a Missouri woman for her alleged role in perpetrating a hoax on the online social network MySpace against a 13-year-old neighbor who committed suicide.

Lori Drew of suburban St. Louis allegedly helped create a false-identity MySpace account to contact Megan Meier, who thought she was chatting with a 16-year-old boy named Josh Evans. Josh didn't exist.

Megan hanged herself at home in October 2006 after receiving cruel messages, including one stating the world would be better off without her. OAS_AD('ArticleFlex_1')

Salvador Hernandez, assistant agent in charge of the Los Angeles FBI office, called the case heart-rending.

“The Internet is a world unto itself. People must know how far they can go before they must stop. They exploited a young girl's weaknesses,” Hernandez said. “Whether the defendant could have foreseen the results, she's responsible for her actions.”

Drew was charged with one count of conspiracy and three counts of accessing protected computers without authorization to get information used to inflict emotional distress on the girl.

Drew has denied creating the account or sending messages to Megan.

U.S. Attorney Thomas P. O'Brien said this was the first time the federal statute on accessing protected computers has been used in a social-networking case. It has been used in the past to address hacking.

“This was a tragedy that did not have to happen,” O'Brien said.

Both the girl and MySpace are named as victims in the case, he said.

MySpace is a subsidiary of Beverly Hills-based Fox Interactive Media Inc., which is owned by News Corp. The indictment noted that MySpace computer servers are located in Los Angeles County.

Due to juvenile privacy rules, the U.S. attorney's office said, the indictment refers to the girl as M.T.M.

FBI agents in St. Louis and Los Angeles investigated the case, Hernandez said.

Each of the four counts carries a maximum possible penalty of five years in prison.

Drew will be arraigned in St. Louis and then moved to Los Angeles for trial.

The indictment says MySpace members agree to abide by terms of service that include, among other things, not promoting information they know to be false or misleading; soliciting personal information from anyone under age 18 and not using information gathered from the Web site to “harass, abuse or harm other people.”

Drew and others who were not named conspired to violate the service terms from about September 2006 to mid-October that year, according to the indictment. It alleges they registered as a MySpace member under a phony name and used the account to obtain information on the girl.

Drew and her coconspirators “used the information obtained over the MySpace computer system to torment, harass, humiliate, and embarrass the juvenile MySpace member,” the indictment charged.

After the girl killed herself, Drew and the others deleted the information for the account, the indictment said.

Last month, an employee of Drew, 19-year-old Ashley Grills, told ABC's Good Morning America she created the false MySpace profile but Drew wrote some of the messages to Megan.

Grills said Drew suggested talking to Megan via the Internet to find out what Megan was saying about Drew's daughter, who was a former friend.

Grills also said she wrote the message to Megan about the world being a better place without her. The message was supposed to end the online relationship with “Josh” because Grills felt the joke had gone too far.

“I was trying to get her angry so she would leave him alone and I could get rid of the whole MySpace,” Grills told the morning show.

Megan's death was investigated by Missouri authorities, but no state charges were filed because no laws appeared to apply to the case.

 
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August 1, 2008, 7:42 am PDT

gewoon een fans mening

I am aware of cyber bullies myself included

and I know the consequences but

I've never seen it grow this big before and so personal

it changed my way of thoughts about the internet and for what purpose people would use it

I would want to tell those people on xbox live or anywhere else this would be happening

that you should try to look at yourself first and learn to give in when you lose instead of like losing your temper

 

(I"m dutch so don't mind the typing/spelling mishaps )

 
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August 6, 2008, 9:02 am PDT

SafeWave helps keep kids safe online

Good morning,  After hearing about yet another child hurt on the internet by a predator I had had it ! Something must be done.  That something turned out to be an extensive project taking over eighteen months to develop. SafeWave  iLAND5 was launched in March.

Students register through their schools, stopping that 50 year old posing as  a child.  

It is an age appropriate, socially responsible website for children. This site requires a child’s school verify his or her identification before they can become a member. This site is content monitored, cyber bullying controlled, and even has tutoring available.

Children can still play games, IM, create a webpage, and email all on a safe and monitored site.  

The site for parents, teachers, law enforcement is safewave.org and the site for children is iland5.com. Both sites are totally free to its users and the schools.

Debbie Johnston who lost her son to bullying and now has been successful in getting Florida to pass Jeff's Law to make schools responsible for dealing with the bully issue and not ignoring it; has endorsed Safewave. 

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August 7, 2008, 12:36 pm PDT

Bullies are never funny!

Okay, this is a fact, when ever you bully someone, doesn't matter how, when, why, where or what ever, it is just not funny for your victim. Unfortunatly on the internet people feel less bound by rules and morals and values so take it for granted that bullying is normal and funny. Funny perhaps for the one that does it, but the victim is really having a problem in the end. Victims end up needing counseling, victims can even get so much problems in their heads that they start running away and even end up killing themselfs or trying to find their bullies and doing bad things to them. So in the end you end up creating someone that might loose control over themselfs. As long as people don't understand that, people will get hurt and will loose control even if they dont want to.

PS: sorry for my bad English, I teached English myself so i'm doing the best I can :-)
 

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