Topic : 06/18 "My Big, Fat, Spoiled Family Member"

There is a name for every mental illness so what do we call people who think that their pets are real human children?  (Besides severely misguided.)  News flash:  Dogs are not people too.  You do NOT love your pet the way I love my children.

Give Me a Break!! 

Tonie you surprise me!  When did reincarnation become so mainstream?  We have psychics like Slyvia Brown talking about past lives and even christians are buying into it.  Slyvia Brown's predictions are wrong much of the time- the rest are so vague that I could have guessed it too.  I recall her saying that JLo would never get pregnant- she was wrong. 

Reincarnation is a Hindu belief- have we become a Hindu culture?  I had to explain to one of the children in my Confirmation class that christians do not believe in reincarnation and she was shocked.  Why- I asked her- would we need a Savior if we just keep coming back?  As christian we believe we have one life, one Savior.  The Torah, The Bible and The Koran says the same.

Are you Hindu Toni?

I have spoiled family members and not only is it frustrating to see them live beyond their means, but it also can make you feel bad because you can't afford such things.  For instance my aunt and uncle went into debt for their daughter's wedding.  They let certain bills go and had bill collectors calling all of the time because they were letting bills go to pay for the wedding.  And now the daughter is divorced, what good did it do to spend all that money?  Even now, my aunt dresses in all these nice clothes, always has her hair done, had gaudy jewelry and you'd swear she has money, but just today one of her bill collectors called for her at work.  She's bought jewelry for $400 on QVC, had it delivered at work and then showed everyone what she bought.  I believe they have a big problem with needing to be seen by others as "trendy" and they put too much emphasis on material things.  I do believe they are trying to fill some sort of void.  There are family secrets and perhaps that has something to do with it.  I just choose to keep my distance to avoid unnecessary frustration.

Where is the common sense with all of the people on the show today. The first guest Adam was so insecure with who he was it was just sad. I quite frankly laughed when he paid full price for Jewelry for his wife.

Adam most  wealthy people don't get that way by chance or luck it is by hard work and smart choices. I can guarantee you we never pay full price.  We own our  basic cars they are just metal no one remembers you for what you drive. Most people who have money do not show it off. What if you get sick or lose your job or you should pass on from this life did you ever think where that would leave your family. They would be the ones stuck with your stupidity. Better to be remembered for what you did in life then for what you owed.

As for the mom Kecedra get off of your but and just say no!! you are the parent start acting like one and if your so concerned about  how it's affecting your daughter take her to a homeless shelter and donate the clothes! seems to me I see your lips moving but nothing is happening. I was appalled you let the your sister treat ALL of your children in such an unhealthy manner shame on you! 

Pam what are you going to do when you dog dies they live around 15 years if they are lucky and by then you will have lost touch with all the people that seem to care about you. You might end up one lonely lady and you do seem to be a very likable person.  I feel sorry for the dogs you own never to let a dog be a dog  to run out side like dogs should do is doggy abuse. I could understand if the dog had a medical condition but he looks fine maybe a little neurotic from living with you.

Dr. Phil,   I love your show but there has been some really stupid topics lately.  I am going to take a break from watching due to the fact, I could really care less some brat is given more than she needs, spending to much money and spoiling a dog??????  Please find some topics that is important these days.  I am really sorry I wait daily just to turn your show on.  I had sent you many e-mails over the years, asking for your help and I know you are busy with really important things, dogs, over spenders and you are still on without any of my sad stories.  Hope you come up with some better topics to interest myself and my friends that work very hard and like to relax with a good, great Dr. Phil topic.  Sincerely Connie

I think this woman is a mental case.  She had no connection with reality here!!  I am not a fan of counselors but I do believe she needs one.