Topic : Arkansas, Here.

I am a 40 years old mother of four adult children. My daughter who is 20 years old have a three years old son. who is live with me and my husband. she do not care for her son like a mother. me and my husband always argue about my daughter not caring for her son i do not know what to do. I love my daughter and grandson .But i don't know what to do about my daughter i just can't put her  and my grandson out of the house. can some one please help

My daughter is 20yr old she have a three years old son. She do not care for her son like a mother.

Me and my husband or sick and tired of caring for her and her son .As a mother i just cannot put

Her and my grandson out of the house .Can someone please help me

GIVE HER A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF TIME TO GET A JOB OK WHEN SHE HAS ACCOMPLISHED THAT GOAL THEN GIVE HER A CERTAIN TIME TO FIND AN APARTMENT AND LET HER KNOW YOU ARE NOT DOIN THIS TO BE MEAN BUT YOU ARE TEACHING HER RESPONSIBILITY WHAT IF SOMETHING HAPPENS TO YOU WHAT WILL  SHE DO THEN YOU NEED TO HELP HER BECOME MORE

INDEPENDENT SIT HER DOWN AND TELL HER HOW IT'S GONNA BE FROM NOW ON PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN LET HER KNOW YOU MEAN BUSINESS THAT'S WHAT YOU CALL TOUGH LOVE