Topic : 01/15 Internet Mistakes

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Created on : Friday, January 11, 2008, 01:03:06 pm
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Girls dancing on bars half-naked, passed out on the beach, hugging the porcelain … these are photos posted for all to see on the Web site Facebook, in a group called Thirty Reasons a Girl Should Call it a Night. These shocking and provocative pictures are supposedly submitted by the women in the photos themselves. The women say they love to have fun, and this is a way to bond with other girls just like them. But are there unforeseen consequences to letting the public behold you at your worst? Dr. Phil speaks with women on both sides of this debate. Jasmine is the moderator for the group Thirty Reasons and says, although she’s responsible for taking down questionable photos, she hasn’t found one yet! Amanda and Norma are incensed that women would degrade themselves in this way. Hear from the president of a company who uses Web sites like Facebook and MySpace to weed out potential employees. Could documenting your good time on the Internet become your biggest regret? Then, a teen who loves to drink says criticism of Thirty Reasons just reinforces the double standard of gender inequality. What do Dr. Phil and the teen’s mother think? Plus, a mayor’s sexy photo has her town’s residents outraged. And, meet a substitute teacher who says he was unfairly fired from his job two times for what’s on his MySpace page. Share your thoughts here.

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June 4, 2008, 5:34 pm PDT

Equality vs. Inequality

Democracy is a concept in which we all have equal rights as human beings when in any kind of a legal relationship. The  Ph.D. is equal to the illiterate before the law. The president is equal to any citizen before the law.  There it ends. We dote on the president in office. Fight over candidates running for the office. We oggle the beauty at a pagent, and ignor the ugly deformed beggar. We praise the precocious scientific mind, but rant at the lazy game playing kid on his video. Family members are not equal before or behind the law. The in-law is not equal to the out-law. Children are illegitimate or legitimate, yet equal before the law. A criminal has all the human rights that the law abiding citizen has, but can be incarcerated for life or condemned to death for a crime he may not have committed. Legally he commited the crime he is punished for, even if he did not do it. And legally he is innocent before the trial, even if he did.

In Israel, Arabs and other non-Jews are not equal to Jewish citizens, but Israel is the '...only demcoracy...' in the Middle East. For most of my life Blacks, Mexicans, Jews, and atheists were treated with contempt by white, Christian, Americans. In many western democracies, such as United Stated, Canada, Britain, and Scandinavian countries, non-Europeans are not trusted. Muslims are not trusted in predominately Christian populations, and Christians and Jews are not trusted in predominately Muslim populations.

Boys are preferred in Asian and Muslim families. Polygamy is more prevalent than polyandry, though a female prostitute has multiple sex partners in any time frame. More men than women are elected or appointed to public office. In mid 20th century, most physicians were men, but most nurses were women. Roman Catholics require priests to be men, though there both nuns and monks. A tall man with a short woman is more 'normal' than a tall woman with a short man.  There are no midgets on the football team.




 
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July 22, 2008, 6:12 pm PDT

Bosses that hire with limited thinking

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Okay can someone explain to me why other people believe its private to post on a public forum? Or why they think it should be thought as there personal lives? If you just got out of a job interview, and it was Friday night and you go to your local bar, get wasted and a make an ass out of yourself. And the whole time your future boss was there watching it, You may not get that call back. If its done it public its not that private. And posting on a public forum means its not private anymore. Its not like that naughty tape you and your boyfriend made and no one else has ever seen it, thats private and very personal. But if you are a idiot and post it for the world to see, don't be shocked when your judged for that.

 

I have both myspace and facebook. They are both set to private as well, you have to actually be on my list of friends to see any of my photos, I do that cause I have a ton of photos of my son doing silly things, and I don't really want anyone to just seem them. I one time with a girl friend got waste and we thought we were so sexy and we got the camera out. When i loaded up the photos the next day, and laughed with my friend about it, we hit the delete button and they were never viewed again. It was so far from sexy, it was just sad. never a good idea to have a video camera or a digital camera around when your wasted.

 Well, in today's world, bosses no longer have as much option to hire based on a person's private follies.  Sometimes, if they want the most accomplished or desirable employee, one who has top rate skills, then they have to deal with outside personalities.  I think a great show that demonstrates this is CSI, where the girl with the alternative lifestyle and look happens to be the best forensic scientist and in demand, so they hire her even with the differences.  That's creative thinking and what spurs success in industry.

This idea that we have to prostitute ourselves for our employers is archaic.  If you are a competent employee with an abundance of offerings, then your private life should be inconsequential.  And for many employers, like mine, that happens to be the case.  People shouldn't subject themselves to any other type of employer on a long term basis.  If they are that superficial, use them and move on when you find an employer with a more stellar approach.  If everyone did this, employers would change their tune very quickly!  People have to believe in themselves!
 

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