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They were beautiful twin sisters until they started abusing pills. Yvonne says she had the perfect life -- a great husband, nice house and three happy children -- until her introduction to pain pills six years ago. Shortly after, her twin, Yvette, picked up the habit too. Their lives have spiraled out of control. Their younger sister, Maria, wants to confront her sisters and make them take a hard look at what their drug abuse is doing to their kids and the entire family. You won’t believe the extreme behavior the Dr. Phil cameras capture in their home. Is one of the sisters pressuring the other to keep up her pill popping? The women live with their mother and Yvonne's three children. Find out why Yvette's daughter only sees her on the weekends. And, Yvette and Yvonne have a rocky relationship with their mother, Debbie. Why do they say she hates them? And, what does Dr. Phil say that upsets Yvette so much, she turns away and breaks down. You don't want to miss the first part of this disturbing story, and find out why this could happen to you! Share your thoughts, join the discussion.

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February 6, 2008, 4:00 pm PST

02/06 Pill Popping Twins

Quote From: ralphy61

Interesting, I two am going through the same issue, after suffering 7 herniated disc 4 years ago, and taking pain killers to releave the pain, now that my back has gotten much better, when I'm out off my meds I go into this depressive mood, not wanting to talk to anyone or do anything at all, my body just feels like crap I get so, so cranky and I believe it's affecting my work, but when I'm on them I function well, I do the things I like to do, I pray for strenght everyday that 1 day it'll all be gone, I have been tappering them off slowly, I can't do it cold turkey because it can cause me some great damage that's for sure, God will guide me through the right path, if I keep doing it the way I'm doing it. I can over come it. 
dont take this as judging you in any way, because i am not judging at all, but when you go into your depressive moods when you cant take your pills, it is because you are going thru withdrawl syptoms from the narcotics.  narcotics annymous is a great program, you can check it out on line or find a local meeting in your area. they can help you overcome your pill problem. after you are off the pills for a while, you will start getting back to being the real you.
 
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February 6, 2008, 4:02 pm PST

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I was watching the show today and was bothered by the fact that one of the twins said that she tried methadone to try to recover, but it rotted her teeth. This is a common myth about methadone. It certainlydoes NOTrot your teeth - or your bones (another common myth). I get so frustrated when I hear these things about methadone, which is certainly nothing short of a miracle drug. Some argue that it's simply trading in one drug for another - yet another myth. When it is partnered with proper monitoring by a physician and drug counselling, it works. It's an opiate blocker, so when you try to use heroine, Oxy Contin, dilaudid, etc...the effects are not felt. It makes you feel 'normal' again. Once you find the right dose for you, you can work, go back to school, think clearly and function. Anyone who has felt the withdrawl symtoms of an opiate addiction would understand why these drugs are so hard to kick - the withdrawl is literally unbearable (and unsafe). Once you have your life back, you can then begin weaning off very slowly from methadone, and eventually live drug free. I know so many who credit methadone for saving thier lives, myself included. It's like anything else though - it will only work if you're ready to quit. These twins aren't ready to quit thier drug(s) of choice...if and when they decide to try I can garuntee that methadone would give them both the power to do so - but I think there's much more than withdrawl stopping them.

if methadone isnt 'trading one drug for another', then why are people all across the world taking it to get high????????????????
 

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February 6, 2008, 4:02 pm PST

I pray for the best for Maria.

It can't be easy for the only clean and sober sister looking in from the outside and her two sisters destroying themselves and self-destructing infront of Maria's own eyes. I give her all the credit in the world for emailing the Dr. Phil show for help NOT for her BUT for her sisters. Maria could just as easily went on with her life, go and get married, have a amazing wedding and have a great life afterwards. But Maria willingly chosed to get involved into a EXTREMELY and HIGHLY volitile and difficult situation.

 

Yvette needs some serious and MAJOR intervention and professional help or she will be dead within 2 years. If you look at Yvette now, her face is so worn, the bags and lines under her eyes are soooo noticable. Its sad and tells the story itself.

 
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February 6, 2008, 4:05 pm PST

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I'm guessing you live a very privileged middle class life where everyone is happy, healthy and successful? Are you then, completely lacking in any empathy, understanding, common sense? Wealthy people get addicted to this stuff as well. It's a huge problelm across this nation. I'm SO glad that Dr. Phil is continuing to expose this problem. I am a children's psychotherapist and I can assure you that there are children in the schools in your neighborhood who are dealing with similar situations in their own home. Get a clue!!!
i hope you or someone you know close to you never becomes addicted to something!!  you should learn about addiction before you start making comments like that!!!!
 
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February 6, 2008, 4:09 pm PST

Is there a misunderstanding!???

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i hope you or someone you know close to you never becomes addicted to something!!  you should learn about addiction before you start making comments like that!!!!
I think shes saying there is drug addiction in wealthy homes too!  I give her kudos for her comment!  It destroys the wealthy as much as the poverty stricken! 
 
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February 6, 2008, 4:10 pm PST

My family has suffered from pescription abuse too!!

This show has really touched home for me. My family was ripped apart, because of my mother's addiction to perscription drugs. I still don't know the full story to this day. My mother was a nurse and found the opportunity to start writting her own perscriptions. She soon became addicted. She was caught and lost her lisence. I was told by some of my family she left us childern one day, because of the drugs. I don't know if that is entirely true. I

 was only 3 at the time. I was also told she was in jail and was remarried to an abusive man. I grew up without a real mother, and when I asked where she was my father told me she was in a hospital. I know now that "hospital" was probably rehab. I wasn't able to see my mother until 10 years later when I was 13. The first day I saw her, she told me if I ever saw her taking pills and she gave me a stupid excuse to what they were,  I would know what she was really doing. She had not kicked her addiction. We actually we able to grow quite closer throught the years. Towards the end of my junior year, she told me the reason she popped pills. She would start thinking about how she abandoned us children, and she would get very depressed so she would take the pills. The pills would make the pain go away she said. Then should would feel guilty and get clean. When she was clean she would start thinking about us again and the vicious cycle would start all over again. Soon after that she was arrested again for writting another perscription. She was sentanced to 18 months and I was crushed, because I was afraid she wouldn't see her baby girl graduate. Fortunatlly she made paroll.

My older brother recently had a child of his own. He recently just started breaking down, because he is afraid he is going to do the same thing to his child. So instead of pills he dealt with it by drinking. He is suffered from alcoholism for something he didn't do. I felto bad for him. During xmas he got a DUI, and was so embarassed he was suicidle. Everything is fine now. He has sobered up and is a great father.

As for me, I have strick morals and beliefs. I don't believe in drinking, abusing drugs, smoking, chewing, etc. I fear that I am at a high risk for addictive behavior so I don't even want to give it a chance.  There are other ways to enjoy life. I want to someday become a wonderful mother and give my kids a life that I didn't have.

It is horrible to see these women's childern suffer from their addictions. It makes me sick. Their childern only have one life and they are ruining it for them. It is beyond me how they can't see what they are doing to their children. 

Perscription abuse is rampid in today's society. WE NEED TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!

 

 

 
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February 6, 2008, 4:11 pm PST

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I am a mother of three children by three different fathers bc yes I was a horrible beginner in life.  I was a picture of a woman looking for love in all the wrong places! Simply then it was bc I didnt have a real mother, she was on drugs and I was a thorn in herside.  My mom iddnt love me how could i love myself. I have been successful at changing my life and breaking the chain that binded me!  I did it wihtout the help of the system, and to me that is a wonderful thing but will not be a reason I look down at mothers who do need assitance & this judgement u pass is the same diffrence.  And that is what ur r doing beating someone when their down instead of helping a stranger in need of some good dog on advice.  Bc you r in pain and have a hard time you blame these women!  In all reality when these women get clean and I believe with the right support they will!  There will be another addict to replace them. And why????!!!...... bc of the judgement the world places on them instead of helping to lend a little support.  Without the heroes in my life I wouldnt be where I am now.  Thank GOd everyone is not so judgemental.  My heart goes out to these women.  I have a drug addict for a mother. I have no mother and my path is long and hard for both me and my children, even with my current husband it has been difficult.  I struggle everyday to stay on the right patha nd I have never been a drug addict. I can not imagine what these women indure each day!  Shame on those who have not worn these women's shoes but chose to judge.  And I hope that they get better, not to impress judgemental people like urself but bc there are people out there that can benefit from their stregnth if they discover it.  I hope they do to for their children, for themselves, and find a way to reach out to others who r in need of help!  SHAME ON U $ WHTA U HAVE SAID!
doctors are the biggest drug pushers out there!  and for all of you "patients" who are worried about having to go see the dr to get your prescriptions refilled or that you cant get the filled a day early, well maybe you need to look at yourself and see how much you really need it or if maybe you are an addict as well and just dont want to admit it!!
 
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February 6, 2008, 4:12 pm PST

Are you kidding me?

WHOA! First, take those kids away until these women are straight. Even on the show their affect was either flat or out of control. They are selfish, it's all about poor me, people! I'm really tired of hearing ohhhhhhh my life is so terrible, I have to hurt myself and everyone around me from adults who have access to tons of help from Ministers, Priests, Physicians, free mental health clinics. Ohhhhhhhhh, I'm so depressed I have to zone out with a lit ciggarette in my bed, drive them around stoned and not buckled in, scream obscene words, hit them out of frustration...the list goes on. Manipulation, laziness, lack of self control, nothing else. If the state doesn't get involved, then they should be held just as cupable as the twins. These babies are at risk. Make these two comply with a court order or they lose their rights. Period! And as far as the father who has custody? I hope you watch this show and take action to protect your five-year-old. It's obvious no one else is doing so--for any of the children.  I have very little compassion for anyone who places their children in danger, abuse them, and/or deny them the right to be happy, safe, and open. And, I'm really ticked the grandmother didn't make the call to child protective services. What's up with her watching the horror these kids go through on a daily basis and not taking action to protect them?
 
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February 6, 2008, 4:12 pm PST

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Quote From: housewife52

I think this could happen to anyone who ends up with pain and prescriptions. It happened to my late father in the 70's and 80's. He had several disc surgeries and ended up on  pain meds and he also was an alchoholic. Back then, I don't remember this being discussed in the media much, if at all. My father was always talking about young people taking drugs and getting hooked on them. Because his meds were legally prescribed he didn't consider himself being addicted. It was amazing to me and my mother that he was able to make that distinction being "illegal" and "legal" drugs and addiction. And evidently his doctors didn't worry about him being hooked either because they kept on prescribing the drugs.

I am so proud of the sober sister for trying to help............ I hope she does not let these sisters make her feel guilty...........Thank GOD she called .......... maybe now the kids will stand a chance............ they sure do not belong in that house............ The mother does not deserve the CRAP she is being dealt either....... it is HER HOUSE isn't it........??????????? These drug users by choice................. probably do not even pay rent or help............ but they can sure put the blame every where except where it belongs...........THEMSELVES....

 

I too take pain meds but I have never abused them or felt high while using them.......and mine are prescribed.....by my DR.       ..  ,MY MAIN CONCERN IS THE KIDS AND THE SOBER SISTER................. THEY ARE THE ONES CAPABLE OF FEELING THE PAIN OF THE SITUATION............

 

 I am so angry at the sisters using that I could just spit.................. They have no feelings for anyone but themselves.............. PLEASE  PROTECT THOSE CHILDREN........... THEY DESERVE BETTER................

 

concerned in COLORADO

 
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February 6, 2008, 4:13 pm PST

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Quote From: mbm0719

if methadone isnt "trading one drug for another", then why are people all across the world taking it to get high????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
You can take several things to get high - it's a drug. It's a painkiller. Oxy Contin is a wonderful drug when you are dying of cancer and in agony - but if you abuse it - you get high! Methadone - when used properly under the care of a doctor - is a tool for recovery. It works. Kids all over the world are drinking robitussin to get high - I don't get your point...
 
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